THE FUTURE IS ONE BIG CHALLENGE AFTER ANOTHER for 3Dogs and friends ..... PART 4

Aesop

So_Sad_Angel wrote: »

Thankyou for the link Susan. That is a very worthy cause indeed xx

how are you feeling SSA? better today?

got to run as have to visit DS' school tomorrow for first time. And have already told him he has to be up early for it!

3Dogs

This is the hat I've taken in for inside his coffin

3Dogs

So_Sad_Angel wrote: »

Thankyou for the link Susan. That is a very worthy cause indeed xx

Yes, I hope we can raise a good sum for them in Alan's memory

Thanks Toto - Mandylou has given me such good support on here that it is the least I can do for her

So_Sad_Angel

Aesop wrote: »

how are you feeling SSA? better today?

Hi Aesop

I decided not to go into work and the doc has said rest as I seem to be getting stressed again...I ache all over especially when I wake up ( not that I get much sleep):o:o ...just feel rubbish but seems insignificant in comparison to whats happening to others.

So_Sad_Angel

3Dogs wrote: »

Yes, I hope we can raise a good sum for them in Alan's memory

I shall send them a donation. Also I`m looking for another rescue dog . My dog is so lonely on her own now so I am thinking of getting her a playmate...even if its just to take her mind off chasing all the wild rabbits around my gardens!

Fudge_Cake_2

3Dogs wrote: »

Thanks hun. I am proud of what I have got done today I do tend to put things like this off normally

I don't believe that for a second! The way you've coped through Alan's illness, everything you've had to sort out, you've been more organised than anyone I know :A

I want to appologise as I hadn't read back to earlier in the day before my last post;

MandyLou - I've never had the pleasure of speaking to you before but reading of the devastating situation you and your husband are in, I felt so overwhelmed. I am incredibly sorry for the suffering your husband has endured during his battle and hope with all my heart that the time you have left together will be surrounded by peace and love and that he is out of pain :A Sending you big hugs :Axxx

and also hugs to Beanielou, I'm so sorry to read of your loss in such a short period :A Sending big hugs to you too xxx

and Susan, I think the humanist plans and the choices you've made will make Alan's funeral beautiful, uplifting and a true celebration of the strength and positivity he exuded :A I'm just sorry that you're so far because I would have loved to be there xxx

and donations to the animal rescue centre in Alan's name is wonderful xx

3Dogs

So_Sad_Angel wrote: »

Hi Aesop

I decided not to go into work and the doc has said rest as I seem to be getting stressed again...I ache all over especially when I wake up ( not that I get much sleep):o:o ...just feel rubbish but seems insignificant in comparison to whats happening to others.

No No No - it is important to you. In your life. It is bad that you feel rubbish. Wish I could make it better

So_Sad_Angel wrote: »

I shall send them a donation. Also I`m looking for another rescue dog . My dog is so lonely on her own now so I am thinking of getting her a playmate...even if its just to take her mind off chasing all the wild rabbits around my gardens!

Thanks Ange .... will be good for her, and you, to have another doggie. Hope one finds you soon

Ooooo a Fudge-Cake round up on my diary :j :j :j :j

solventsoon

Hi hun :wave:

Just wanted to pop in and say hello as I haven't been online much over the last few days.

I've said it before and I'll no doubt say it again, you are one amazing lady. The service will be lovely I'm sure and a real tribute to your Alan. Thanks for the link for the donations, that's a great idea. Hope you got yourself some lovely new clothes today and having your hair cut and coloured will give you a much-needed boost.

Thinking about you and sending you lots of hugs

spoon xxxx


beanie - so sorry to hear your news as well, life is carp sometimes

Mandy - really sorry to hear the news about Nick as well, thinking about you both xx

Angie - hope you feel better soon, stress is a boogar. Take care x

Fudge_Cake_2

So_Sad_Angel wrote: »

Hi Aesop

I decided not to go into work and the doc has said rest as I seem to be getting stressed again...I ache all over especially when I wake up ( not that I get much sleep):o:o ...just feel rubbish but seems insignificant in comparison to whats happening to others.

3Dogs wrote: »

No No No - it is important to you. It is bad that you feel rubbish. Wish I could make it better

Ooooo a Fudge-Cake round up on my diary :j :j :j :j

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SSA - I'm in complete agreement with 3Dogs :A Of course it matters and berating yourself by comparing to other's suffering which you deem to be 'worse' than yours is just going to make you feel worse. You deserve to feel well and be happy :Axx

3Dogs

I must get to bed now otherwise I will end up staying in bed nearly all day tomorrow and not get anything done :eek: I am picking up my big Sis from P'boro station about 4pm so have to be up by 3pm :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

Night Night everyone - sleep well :beer: