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THE FUTURE IS ONE BIG CHALLENGE AFTER ANOTHER for 3Dogs and friends ..... PART 4

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  • 3Dogs
    3Dogs Posts: 14,092 Forumite
    edited 22 June 2012 at 3:31PM
    GP came at 2pm and checked alan and my list of what meds he'd had and when. Raising MST to 40mg plus oramorph as needed, so told me to give him 15mg now to top up what he'd already had and then give 40 mg from tonight. Agreed about possible review at oncology but as we have an appointment with Palliative Care Doc on 4th July will raise it with him and see if he will refer back to oncologist to consider this

    GP is going to ring tomorrow to check how thing went and visit if necessary. Alan said pain has eased, though still there, and has fallen back asleep easily so at least meaning that he can rest :D

    Just waiting for the District Nurse calling this afternoon and then I will pop out to pick up script for more oramorph GP gave me when he was here

    Good to have things happening and meds getting there in easing Alan's pain and possibility of some radiotherapy :j


    Edit: District Nurse came at 2.45 just as I was about to submit. She was here over half and hour and made lots of notes. They will visit again in 2 weeks unless we need them earlier, and will order perching stool for bathroom and pillow raiser/back rest too, as well as check up on wheelchair order
    :( Mr 3Dogs 3-7-12 :( 3Dogs'Mam 31-3-13 :(
  • solventsoon
    solventsoon Posts: 17,363 Forumite
    Hi hun

    Good to see that things are moving and Alan's pain is being controlled better, hopefully he can get some rest now and build up his strength a bit.

    It must to be better for you not seeing him in so much pain, hopefully you can get some rest as well now.

    Take care
    spoon xxx
    :) The time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time :)
  • 3Dogs
    3Dogs Posts: 14,092 Forumite
    Yes Spoony, it is so hard to see him in such agony :( but lovely to see him sleeping peacefully now :D :j
    :( Mr 3Dogs 3-7-12 :( 3Dogs'Mam 31-3-13 :(
  • Aesop
    Aesop Posts: 23,773 Forumite
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    You both are so wonderful, the way you are coping with this.

    Glad Alan is getting more sleep now.
  • 3Dogs
    3Dogs Posts: 14,092 Forumite
    Don't think there is any other way of handling it hun :o:o Thank you

    Aesop, do you get the equivalent of my Swagbucks when I get individual ones or when I claim my vouchers? Just interested :p:p
    :( Mr 3Dogs 3-7-12 :( 3Dogs'Mam 31-3-13 :(
  • Aesop
    Aesop Posts: 23,773 Forumite
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    3Dogs wrote: »
    Don't think there is any other way of handling it hun :o:o Thank you

    Aesop, do you get the equivalent of my Swagbucks when I get individual ones or when I claim my vouchers? Just interested :p:p

    believe me, there are different ways of handling it, and the way you and Alan are is the best way :) I know others in different situations, who are definitely not handling it at all.

    I only earn SB when you do a search and win SB. I wish I got equivalent when you earnt vouchers! ;) I can see how many you have earnt though..... well done hunxx
  • solventsoon
    solventsoon Posts: 17,363 Forumite
    3Dogs wrote: »
    Yes Spoony, it is so hard to see him in such agony :( but lovely to see him sleeping peacefully now :D :j

    Really pleased to hear that, 3Dogs, it must be such a relief for you. :A

    btw, Aesop's right, you are both handling the situation very well.

    (((Hugs))) to you both
    spoon xxx
    :) The time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time :)
  • beanielou
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    Can only echo Spoony's wise words.
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  • 3Dogs
    3Dogs Posts: 14,092 Forumite
    Aesop wrote: »
    believe me, there are different ways of handling it, and the way you and Alan are is the best way :) I know others in different situations, who are definitely not handling it at all.

    I only earn SB when you do a search and win SB. I wish I got equivalent when you earnt vouchers! ;) I can see how many you have earnt though..... well done hunxx

    Thanks hun :A I will keep on searching then ;)
    :( Mr 3Dogs 3-7-12 :( 3Dogs'Mam 31-3-13 :(
  • 3Dogs
    3Dogs Posts: 14,092 Forumite
    Alan has been in a deep sleep since this afternoon. I got something ready for tea at 8pm ready for his 3rd meds and he woke then but was very doped up and couldn't manage much of his food and every time he had a drink, I sat on the edge of my chair as I thought he was going to spill it :eek: I had to shout to him several times when he was in the toilet as it sounded like he was falling asleep sat on the loo :eek: but managed to get him to bed, very slowly ;) He was in a little pain so gave him some oramorph .... only his 3rd dose of the day, which was very good, and he is snoring away right now ;)

    I will be waking him up in a few minutes for his last meds including 40mg MST and think he will get a really good night's sleep :j :j What he is like overnight and in the morning will show if he is on the correct morphine dose though
    :( Mr 3Dogs 3-7-12 :( 3Dogs'Mam 31-3-13 :(
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