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  • CoD_2
    CoD_2 Posts: 275 Forumite
    I think the yoghurt maker request was fine. the recent petrol car, at least 6 month tax and MOT, good runner pref 5 door on my local group was not.

    I do get annoyed when i'm given a sob story, say fine and then get strung along for WEEKS without them ever collecting. i waited 5 weeks, with emails back and forth for one item, worth about £30, readvertised it and it was gone and collected within the hour.

    we've made some people very happy though, which is good.
  • lil_me
    lil_me Posts: 13,186 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Personally, I'd rather wanted ads were not allowed. Freecycle is only there to prevent items ending up on landfill. In the current financial climate I am suprised people are still giving usable items away as a lot more are selling them through the free ads newspapers/websites/ebay etc.

    Personalities on there, well there isn't much that can be done. I choose who I give items carefully, those who have usually offered items rather than 'wanters'.

    Suppose it's like Marmite, love it or hate it (PS this thread will probably be moved)
    One day I might be more organised...........:confused:
    GC: £200
    Slinkies target 2018 - another 70lb off (half way to what the NHS says) so far 25lb
  • pnq06
    pnq06 Posts: 1,140 Forumite
    Have you got another local group that you can join up to?

    I only ask as I was a member of a "want want want" group (usually the latest games console, fridge freezer, washing machine a brand new 3 piece modern suite etc.) which was really off putting especially when like you I was offering really decent stuff and I had replies like "I'll take it" and so when I moved house I stayed with my other group but joined up to my new group and the difference in posts has been fantastic... I never really want or ask for anything but you see lots of regulars who gift and who obviously aren't put off by it. I too have offered on there and it has become so difficult to gift stuff at times cos 95% of replies are actually nice!
  • fletty
    fletty Posts: 731 Forumite
    how do you decide who to give it too? I've only posted a couple of things and find it hard to decide who to give it too, then I've felt that the person I choose was a bit grumpy never even said thanks! I'm not letting it put me off but I've never recieved anything from my wanted ad, or seen anything that I fancy.
    :beer:
  • pnq06
    pnq06 Posts: 1,140 Forumite
    fletty wrote: »
    how do you decide who to give it too? I've only posted a couple of things and find it hard to decide who to give it too, then I've felt that the person I choose was a bit grumpy never even said thanks! I'm not letting it put me off but I've never recieved anything from my wanted ad, or seen anything that I fancy.

    I usually don't give it to the people who give sob stories- I hate the ones that really try to guilt you... And if I don't receive any replies which I like the sound of then I usually go out of my way to drop it into a charity shop or if its a large item then usually charities are more than happy to collect. But like i say, I'm quite fortunate with my new group :j
  • *Maya*
    *Maya* Posts: 317 Forumite
    The wanted ads on mine are getting stupid. People asking for a Ps3, flatscreen tv's, laptops :rolleyes: The op is looking for stuff that wasn't *big fancy stuff* but you got no replies. I assume that the members in your group didn't have it to give away at the time you wanted it. I put things on freecyle most weeks and pick people who offer a lot back to our group.

    Freecycle exists to reduce landfill by people giving away stuff they don't need instead of putting it in the bin. Because somebody gives does not entitle them to receive in return. It's not a swap shop.
    :)
  • anguk
    anguk Posts: 3,412 Forumite
    There's often wanted on mine that gobsmack me, there was one lately that asked for "modern, looks new, brown leather 3 piece suite" another asking for "lcd with built in freeview" and then there's others that just ask for entire house contents!

    I've no problem with people asking for things as long as they're not taking the pee. I've just asked if anyone's got an old spin dryer because my washer has broken. :o
    Dum Spiro Spero
  • fletty
    fletty Posts: 731 Forumite
    Our freecycle has some very bizzare stuff on the wanteds, (all i wanted was a toddler bike) but on ours they ask for tvs, trailers, parcel shelves, king size bed!!!etc but there is some 'ordinary' things on there too. I never post expecting to recieve I just want to get rid of things that are of no use to me but maybe to someone else..
    :beer:
  • lil_me
    lil_me Posts: 13,186 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    edited 25 April 2009 at 1:09AM
    anguk I know exactly what you mean, you'd be amazed at what gets rejected, but I strongly believe members should self moderate. I always look at what a member is requesting, if they are just greedy people wanting me to furnish their entire home, I won't give them items I offer.

    Maya, indeed it doesn't mean they are entitled to receive something because they have offered but it is up to me who I give my items to. Personally I think to take you should offer, but that is my personal opinion. Swapping items is not allowed.

    How I choose

    No sob stories
    No lack of manners
    Search (there is a little search box) to see what they have offered or if they just place wanteds
    One day I might be more organised...........:confused:
    GC: £200
    Slinkies target 2018 - another 70lb off (half way to what the NHS says) so far 25lb
  • JoolzS
    JoolzS Posts: 824 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    I stick with my local freecycle because the huge majority are nice people. If everyone gives up on it because of the idiots then a huge amount of stuff ends up in landfill. I use freecycle to at least delay some of my stuff ending up in landfill. I hope that's what other people do too.

    I have no way of filtering out the idiots other than just pure intuition but I still offer stuff. I've given away some stuff to some very nice people and I prefer that to putting it in landfill. In fact, I prefer giving away stuff to idiots, or people who sell it on ebay, than putting it in landfill.

    Julie
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