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Time off for Eid

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  • pink_princess
    pink_princess Posts: 13,581 Forumite
    I gave a staff member 3 days off for this at the end of August?

    http://islam.about.com/od/calendar/f/2011eidfitr.htm

    Edit to add link, Phew I thought I'd been lied to there.
    Life is short, smile while you still have teeth :D
  • fedster
    fedster Posts: 197 Forumite
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    You cannot pre book for Eid because the day it falls on is only decided a couple days before, i am lucky my Employer is somewhat more sympathetic than you guys, they appreciate my hard work and dont mind giving me days holiday on short notice, surely if an Employee works his socks off for you, you would show the same respect back and grant him the day of instead of showing the iron fist!!
  • toadyfrog
    toadyfrog Posts: 918 Forumite
    It sounds like you have been employed at your company a while, this employee has only just started which does make a difference. If it was me I would be asking my colleagues to swap before saying I will be taking the time off, its all about attitude.
  • pink_princess
    pink_princess Posts: 13,581 Forumite
    fedster wrote: »
    You cannot pre book for Eid because the day it falls on is only decided a couple days before, i am lucky my Employer is somewhat more sympathetic than you guys, they appreciate my hard work and dont mind giving me days holiday on short notice, surely if an Employee works his socks off for you, you would show the same respect back and grant him the day of instead of showing the iron fist!!
    Can I ask you when EID was/is this year? Every link I've found states it was the lwd of August, which backs up my employee, yet your post & the op suggest it hasn't happend yet?
    Life is short, smile while you still have teeth :D
  • Jarndyce
    Jarndyce Posts: 1,281 Forumite
    I am speechless at some of the responses on this thread.

    Some of you need to take a long hard look at yourselves.

    From the disrespectful and ignorant ("something in the Muslim calendar - I don't know what") to the racial stereotyping (he'll throw a sickie anyway so you might as welll give it to him) and from the "beware of the PC brigade" scaremongering to the dismissive "fire him" couldn't care less attitude. I'm appalled.

    All of you - ask yourselves if you would have responded in the same way if this had been a non-Muslim asking for a couple of days off at short notice to attend a family gathering?

    Hang your heads in shame.
  • fedster
    fedster Posts: 197 Forumite
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    toadyfrog wrote: »
    It sounds like you have been employed at your company a while, this employee has only just started which does make a difference. If it was me I would be asking my colleagues to swap before saying I will be taking the time off, its all about attitude.

    I agree its all about attitude, like anything in life if you treat people with respect, be honest and work hard, i dont think situations like this would be an issue.
  • fedster
    fedster Posts: 197 Forumite
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    Can I ask you when EID was/is this year? Every link I've found states it was the lwd of August, which backs up my employee, yet your post & the op suggest it hasn't happend yet?

    Have you not read your own link?

    There are 2 Eids, 1 has happend, the other has not.
  • And I believe that the dates can be moved around; how awkward do you think it is to start a new job and try to have to explain this to people who don't understand?

    I'd tell him that he can take and rearrange the cover; what's the worst that can happen? Surely you have someone that is mature enough to understand and that is flexible, and in return I'm sure he can cover shifts that other people might want in future.
    If you haven't got it - please don't flaunt it. TIA.
  • jamespir
    jamespir Posts: 21,456 Forumite
    i think you should allow him the time off
    Replies to posts are always welcome, If I have made a mistake in the post, I am human, tell me nicely and it will be corrected. If your reply cannot be nice, has an underlying issue, or you believe that you are God, please post in another forum. Thank you
  • pink_princess
    pink_princess Posts: 13,581 Forumite
    fedster wrote: »
    Have you not read your own link?

    There are 2 Eids, 1 has happend, the other has not.
    I've just read that bit & it says that it lands on the Saturday, if true will not disrupt my business.
    I'm worrying now why she has not asked for the days off if it lands on week days?
    Life is short, smile while you still have teeth :D
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