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Luciferswench

It would help massively if they actually looked like their profile picture in most cases

Lotus-eater

LisaB85 wrote: »

My dad is really old and my mum has a grumpy old man....no way will I end up with one

48 is my limit, but a youngish 48 but not midlife crisis 48. I sometimes see a guy who is 49 (when I can be bothered) didn't know his age until he told me as I looked at his pick and assumed he was late 30's :eek:

You looked at his what!?

So I wasn't too old after all :rotfl:


It occurs to me that there are alot of the same sort of people posting on here, is there no way you can set up something to give out your POF names to each other and anyone else who is geniune, so at least you have a list of people that won't send c0ck shots with a reply.

LisaB85

Lotus-eater wrote: »

You looked at his what!?

Clearly my mind was elsewhere

Scotty1.7

Well this threads changed lol.

I've got my fingers crossed that I won't end this year like I ended the last.

I don't think pof is the way to go for looking for someone. It seems to be full of spiteful women, in my area at least.

I don't know how I'm going to do it, but I want to. There are some really nice people here, but it seems that there just here.

Being a nice guy doesn't seem to get you any were, and I'm very skeptical of any girl who claims to want that, cause they don't give a guy a chance to prove that.

I realise this sounds bitter and upset, but I just don't get how some one can sit there and be so two faced. You have no idea that someone is nice or not from there profile.

All I'd ask of those on here to not to be like that. Give everyone a chance unless they send those appalling disgusting messages.

System

Been "fishing" but no-one really took my fancy.

Though today is only the first of the new year so i'm not giving up hope :rotfl:

Scotty1.7

Same here

Seems its the same old trash round my way

Lotus-eater

Scotty, there are nice people in this world and there are nasty and hurtful people in this world.

Look at it this way, you are weeding out the ones that you wouldn't want to be with anyway. Could you imagine anything worse than getting together with someone, then finding out she was capable of something like this? Horrible.

Do you know how many women turned me down with a sneer when I used to go to clubs? ( A long time ago I might add ) Hundreds probably, would I have wanted any of those to say yes, hell no! They all wanted someone super attractive, with trendy clothes, both neither something I could be bothered to be

You want someone who wants you for what you are.

SailorSam

I'm feeling dead miserable.
I met a girl on PoF last Jan/Feb she lives to far away to meet but she's dead nice and we've moved on from emails to talking on Skype each night for at least an hour maybe two, i was looking forward to speaking tonight i was going to tell her about trying to flirt with Lisa on here and PMing someone else. I've just come off the phone from her, we were on for about 45mins and i didn't know what to say, her friend from when she first started work about 38yrs ago suddenly died this afternoon.
I'll phone again in the morning.
I felt so useless on the end of the phone, she needed someone to hold her hand.

Lotus-eater

How far away is too far to meet? People meet each other on the other sides of the world now and it can work.

SailorSam

100 miles, she doesn't drive and i don't like driving long distances.
But i've offered to go.
In years to come we may laugh about our first date after a year of talking to each other.