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How to resist spending?

If you look at a few other posts of mine you will know why I am a bit tight off atm.

How would I manage not spending a penny (apart from board n stuff) between now and november first. Everytime I go somewhere i end up buying something

any advice?
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  • Lokolo
    Lokolo Posts: 20,861 Forumite
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    Don't go anywhere. Simples!
  • Lokolo wrote: »
    Don't go anywhere. Simples!

    I will be crossing shops left right and centre when walking to work
  • JoeCrystal
    JoeCrystal Posts: 3,437 Forumite
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    I will be crossing shops left right and centre when walking to work

    Don't go into shops then! If you tend to buy in cash, do not carry any apart from a fiver or tenner for an emergency. I find it much easier not to spend money on stuffs when I stopped carrying cash.

    Cheers

    Joe
  • Mind over Matter...

    Just don't go into the shops or look at the window displays, stick ya ipod on tune in and blot it all out....
    Aspiring to be financially independent.... from my parents!
  • Focus on the positive things that not spending will bring you .... not sure what that is in your case, but if you are trying to pay off debt say then if you know how much you will save by repaying say £10 of that debt now rather than in 3 years time say that will allow you to see the true cost of your spending and the benefit of not spending.
  • atush
    atush Posts: 18,731 Forumite
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    Don't bring money/card with you. Freeze your cards. Change your route to work.
  • linz
    linz Posts: 2,002 Forumite
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    Agree with the previous posters who say don't carry money. I leave my purse at home for this reason. I take packed lunch with me to work so I don't have to go to the shops and buy lunch. Try it and see how you get on. Good luck with your saving.
    #5 - Save £12k in 2026
  • Cut the credit cards up to start, then cancel them at the bank. Maybe keep one, and designate it for "emergencies only".

    Don't carry your debit card around with you, and only take cash with you that you need for the day and stop walking past shops you know you cannot resist.
  • Red_Cat
    Red_Cat Posts: 1,040 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    If you want to go out in the daytime (aside from work), go somewhere where it is hard to spend money, such as go for a walk in the park or spend some time reading books, papers or mags in the library.

    Also try to demotivate yourself by thinking what will happen in the next few weeks if you spend cash on shopping for things you might not really need, or can do without. Try to think beyond the initial rush of buying something new.

    Good luck!
    Hoping this year is better than the last. :)
  • cleggie
    cleggie Posts: 2,169 Forumite
    Dont go into the shops.
    Dont take any money with you.
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