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Should I overpay on my partners mortgage ... Yay or Nay??

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  • RosieTiger wrote: »
    On reflection, I began to wonder whether this was a wind up? Then we concluded that it's not. But, if you are paying almost all of your salary into covering this amount of the bills, when he earns 3 x more than you then your mad!

    Please do something about it for your own good.

    Exactly what is he doing with his cash!
    No, it's not a wind up! I'm obviously too generous and maybe slightly blinded by trying to make things better for everyone.I feel quite silly now as if I had read this, I would have thought 'she's mad too!'

    I suppose as we have been together so long, I never really thought about any other implications. But it suddenly crossed my mind and make me start to think whether this is something I need to think about before I do it.
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