Marrige.

dark_lady

Gavin83 wrote: »

I'm not saying it's always down to appearance, it could be hundreds of reasons, was asking a simple question relating to appearance. A partner should always be willing to discuss it though.

Exactly. Thats what i mean. Refusing to discuss it at all is unfair to the other partner. And its mentally and emotionally abusive.

DUTR

dark_lady wrote: »

Looks like i didnt have to "sit and wait" for long. This proves that i made the right decision by talking about this in more depth on a completely separate forum on a another website.

By the way it was 21 stone down to 10 stone 6 and dont worry. I did end up having an affair so i got mine in the end:cool:

Everybody male and female, like their own 'flavour' one hat does not fit all.

Gavin83 wrote: »

I'm not saying it's always down to appearance, it could be hundreds of reasons, was asking a simple question relating to appearance. A partner should always be willing to discuss it though.

Gavin I had a FB (the B is for buddy) but she was a larger lady and tbh I did not want to be seen out and about with her, so I would arrive late and leave early dusk till dawn, I do think she is in self denial as whilst I did not have the heart to tell her she is just a big girl, other guys don't seem to hang around in her life for long , so I don't feel it is just me, on her facebook she mentions the Dr suggests she lose 3st and she is moaning about it, but if it is now a health issue then there is no excuse not to shed a few lbs, it was only recently for me that I realised a visible jaw/chin and neck are more attractive, although Anne Hegarthy has an odd appeal