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How to politely tell an ebay buyer they can't pick up

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  • prowla
    prowla Posts: 13,995 Forumite
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    If the auction stated no collection, then that is what the buyer agreed to.

    If it didn't, then why shouldn't they expect it?
  • scheming_gypsy
    scheming_gypsy Posts: 18,410 Forumite
    custardy wrote: »
    you can add local collect to the postal options
    so if a seller doesn't select that,wouldn't you take that as it not being offered?


    like you didn't read all my post; I don't look all over the auction to see the postal options. Pretty much every auction i've seen that doesn't allow local collections states it in the description rather than expecting people to go and look in the postal options.

    The only auctions I've seen where they don't allow collection have been from business premises
  • custardy
    custardy Posts: 38,365 Forumite
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    like you didn't read all my post; I don't look all over the auction to see the postal options. Pretty much every auction i've seen that doesn't allow local collections states it in the description rather than expecting people to go and look in the postal options.

    The only auctions I've seen where they don't allow collection have been from business premises

    postal options are at the top of the listings
    so you have to go past that part to read the description
    how do you know an auction doesnt allow local collections if by your logic its only the case if it states it in the description?
  • scheming_gypsy
    scheming_gypsy Posts: 18,410 Forumite
    custardy wrote: »
    postal options are at the top of the listings
    so you have to go past that part to read the description

    Once again.. i read the description.
    how do you know an auction doesnt allow local collections if by your logic its only the case if it states it in the description?

    Can you show me where i said that rather than what you read and decided to twist it to something i didn't say.
  • custardy
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    custardy wrote: »
    you can add local collect to the postal options
    so if a seller doesn't select that,wouldn't you take that as it not being offered?
    custardy wrote: »
    postal options are at the top of the listings
    so you have to go past that part to read the description
    how do you know an auction doesnt allow local collections if by your logic its only the case if it states it in the description?
    Once again.. i read the description.

    and just because a seller doesn't state no collections. why would that dictate they offer it?

    Can you show me where i said that rather than what you read and decided to twist it to something i didn't say.

    you choose not to check the postal options offered.your choice.
    same as a seller has the option to not offer local collection just because "I'll expect to be able to collect it"
  • scheming_gypsy
    scheming_gypsy Posts: 18,410 Forumite
    Congratulations Einstein. Yes, I choose not to read them; at which point have i disputed that?

    You can quote as many of your own posts as you like, but i didn't type them so it doesn't take away that you're making your own assumptions from what I said rather than quoting what I've said.
    Why does it matter to you what I think and do with my eBay account that you find it so exciting to try and tell me that I'm wrong because you don't agree?
  • custardy
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    hermum wrote: »
    I would never expect to be able to collect, unless stated in the listing. I always ask prior to bidding to see whether I can or not.
    custardy wrote: »
    you can add local collect to the postal options
    so if a seller doesn't select that,wouldn't you take that as it not being offered?
    soolin wrote: »
    I don't mention that I don't take Euros or conch beads in payment, but I don't take them. I don't mind people asking if they can collect, but they should not bid and only then ask if it is that important to them as I reserve the right to say no.
    Congratulations Einstein. Yes, I choose not to read them; at which point have i disputed that?

    You can quote as many of your own posts as you like, but i didn't type them so it doesn't take away that you're making your own assumptions from what I said rather than quoting what I've said.
    Why does it matter to you what I think and do with my eBay account that you find it so exciting to try and tell me that I'm wrong because you don't agree?

    on the contrary, a few people disagreed with you
    you just chose to reply to me
    just like you are
    making your own assumptions
    on what a seller should allow simply because they have the dubious pleasure of being near you
  • sharnad
    sharnad Posts: 9,904 Forumite
    surely you would only be able to collect if its mentioned in posting options or desription I wouldnt presume people would let me collect if it doesnt state it. hope it goes okay op
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  • I often ask if I can collect an item if it's local, but I always email first and ask "Would it be OK for me to collect in person and pay cash if I bid on this item".

    I've never yet had anyone refuse, but I would never ask if the seller stated 'no collections'. I find many sellers prefer cash on collection as there are then no Paypal fees.
    "There are not enough superlatives in the English language to describe a 'Princess Coronation' locomotive in full cry. We shall never see their like again". O S Nock
  • Oliver14
    Oliver14 Posts: 5,878 Forumite
    like you didn't read all my post; I don't look all over the auction to see the postal options. Pretty much every auction i've seen that doesn't allow local collections states it in the description rather than expecting people to go and look in the postal options.

    The only auctions I've seen where they don't allow collection have been from business premises

    Your being silly if people allow collection it will be in the postal options. I don't state that I dont take cheques in my listing it doesn't mean i do because under my payment options it tells you what I except. Its stupid to think sellers should put information in the description when there are zalready set places for that information. That is just stupidity.
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