Trying for a Baby Part 7

emsbet

CD1 for me please QQ

I'm feeling actually quite optimistic. Going to follow SD's example and list the reasons to have PMA:
1) my first cycle after mc is normal looking - 14 day LP
2) At least I know my body has got itself back to "normal"
3) DH is right and it's a good thing I'm giving my body a bit of a rest after two pregnancies in six months.
4) I get to have a drink over Christmas
5) I get to have a few drinks this weekend at my annual Christmas girly night out
6) I can get pate, seafood, naughty cheeses and cured meats for another month
7) I have an excuse to eat chocolate
8) I can go play in the AF room

xx

ETA three posts in a row?! I look like a crazy lady talking to myself!

Sa-ra-ra-ra

emsbet wrote: »

ETA three posts in a row?! I look like a crazy lady talking to myself!

LOL, not really!

I'm really fed up today. One of my (male) colleagues just got back from his honeymoon and the men in my office were chatting to him and asked if he'd found out if he'd 'scored a strike' yet - i.e. got her pregnant. I'm going to be beyond annoyed if she gets pregnant first cycle, it would be so massively full of unfairness.

I think maybe I'm not in a good mood at the moment.

mrsj28

emsbet wrote: »

CD1 for me please QQ

I'm feeling actually quite optimistic. Going to follow SD's example and list the reasons to have PMA:
1) my first cycle after mc is normal looking - 14 day LP
2) At least I know my body has got itself back to "normal"
3) DH is right and it's a good thing I'm giving my body a bit of a rest after two pregnancies in six months.
4) I get to have a drink over Christmas
5) I get to have a few drinks this weekend at my annual Christmas girly night out
6) I can get pate, seafood, naughty cheeses and cured meats for another month
7) I have an excuse to eat chocolate
8) I can go play in the AF room

xx

ETA three posts in a row?! I look like a crazy lady talking to myself!

emsbet I am loving your PMA! Thanks for all the positives!

emsbet

Sa-ra-ra-ra wrote: »

LOL, not really!

I'm really fed up today. One of my (male) colleagues just got back from his honeymoon and the men in my office were chatting to him and asked if he'd found out if he'd 'scored a strike' yet - i.e. got her pregnant. I'm going to be beyond annoyed if she gets pregnant first cycle, it would be so massively full of unfairness.

I think maybe I'm not in a good mood at the moment.

Aww big ((hugs)) it is so frustrating when other get pg so quickly or have no problems with their pg. it just feels so unfair doesn't it?

It will happen for us, we will get our forever babies!

mrsj28 wrote: »

emsbet I am loving your PMA! Thanks for all the positives!

Thanks. I did feel blue on Tuesday evening when I realised that we were out this month but I've decided that me being upset is not going to help us get pg and a PMA has to be much more productive.

xx

Primmer

Sa-ra-ra-ra huge hugs it's hard to be full of pma all the time, I can understand how news of people getting BFP straight way feels unfair.

Emsbet - loving the positives listed !!

I bought a reindeer from BHS it has silver foil on and glitter on the antlers and hooves - i love it!

mrsj28

Argh just worked out potential ovulation date this month, Christmas flipping day... will be staying at the in laws, eating way too much food, ditto boxing day, no chance of any action! Will have to make sure I jump DH on Christmas Eve in the morning before we leave home, it'll be the only chance.

Otherwise it'll be like that episode of Gavin and Stacey where Stacey tries to get Gav to follow her into the downstairs loo...!

colli

emsbet wrote: »

Just been having a look at my chart for my cycle after my first mc and I spotted for six days before AF arrived. If the same was true this time I'd be expecting AF on Sunday. I hope it's not as heavy as the AF after my first mc If she arrives on Sunday that would give me a 17 day LP this month :eek: but I guess that's the effects of the mc.

xx

Would that put you on course for a Christmas conception?;):). Hope your AF is not too bad. It does sound as if your body is recovering very well after the mc. Loving your pma

sirish1979

Hi All,

Me and Hubby were TTC from last 2 months. This month my period is supposed to come on 6th but still didn't show up.

I am very regular this is the first time its late. So I was happy and took a pregnancy test and came up with a BFN.

I am very anxious now. can some times test come negative even when a person is pregnant or I am just late for some other reason.

I am so stressed about thinking why? why ?:eek::eek:

someone please help me

sirish1979

mrsj28 wrote: »

Argh just worked out potential ovulation date this month, Christmas flipping day... will be staying at the in laws, eating way too much food, ditto boxing day, no chance of any action! Will have to make sure I jump DH on Christmas Eve in the morning before we leave home, it'll be the only chance.

Otherwise it'll be like that episode of Gavin and Stacey where Stacey tries to get Gav to follow her into the downstairs loo...!

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

alamaya

CD12 for me. No idea anymore how long cycles are. Before my daughter it was 35 days long. Ov on day 21. Now who knows i was 2 weeks late last month. Got myself all excited for nothing.
So need to get my clearblue monitor out the attic to find out whats going on.

xx