Trying for a Baby Part 7

Flee_2

Hugs to all. I need a huge one today as I have felt like AF has been coming for over a week. I am 13 dpo today by my calculations. Really thought I was until this morning and now have pre-AF cramps. Really hate my body 4 this.

Birdie85

Massive hugs Flee

Tink, you always post the most beautiful words of comfort :kisses3:

Welcome Secret Debt Girl!

I've just worked out that AF (if it's behaving and I have a regular 28 day cycle...and who knows if I will!) is due the day after my brother's wedding, think I should test the day before just to make sure (unlikely to be a BFP ) but I'll probably be on a right downer if it's a BFN but if I don't test I'll be worrying every time I have a drink!

Whattodonow

Hugs to Flee, Maddie, Nicki and Emsbet. Its a bl00dy emotional rollercoaster isnt it.

Welcome tea lover, dibdabb and secretdebtgirl. Try to enjoy the ride!

nothing to report here. Waiting for AF to disappear, boring boring. Put a wardrobe together this weekend, and thought in the middle of it, ooh I wouldnt be able to do this if I was preggers. Ill have to remember stuff like that when I am!

Birdie85

Whattodonow wrote: »

Put a wardrobe together this weekend, and thought in the middle of it, ooh I wouldnt be able to do this if I was preggers. Ill have to remember stuff like that when I am!

I do that too, must be so difficult to remember! I was play-fighting with OH the other night and at one point meant to jump over him onto my side of the bed but went too far and flew right off the other end and ended in a heap on the floor! :rotfl: Must remember not to get carried away like that when I'm PG!

emsbet

Big hugs Flee

Flee_2

Sorry, I feel awful feeling so bad when I am still in the early months of trying whilst some of you have faced awful heartache over the past months and year. Just finding it hard to keep picking myself up and trying again. Then I realise that we are all in the same boat and women's bodies are evil and do what the hell they like.

Moan over with. If AF appears tomorrow then I plan on having a huge party tomorrow night and then ditching the booze until December 24th, and if I not pregnant by 24th December then I am having champagne on christmas day and will toast to a new year coming and a new start.

Secretdiaryofadebtgirl

Thanks for the warm welcome

Thanks for the advice emsbet, I think OPK will be the way to go!! OH has said he doesn't want to know about all the technicalities he just wants to BD . Just want AF to hurry up so we can get started!!

x x

Flee_2

Sorry forgot to say welcome to any newbies. Hope your time here will be short and sweet.

emsbet

Flee wrote: »

Sorry, I feel awful feeling so bad when I am still in the early months of trying whilst some of you have faced awful heartache over the past months and year. Just finding it hard to keep picking myself up and trying again. Then I realise that we are all in the same boat and women's bodies are evil and do what the hell they like.

Moan over with. If AF appears tomorrow then I plan on having a huge party tomorrow night and then ditching the booze until December 24th, and if I not pregnant by 24th December then I am having champagne on christmas day and will toast to a new year coming and a new start.

TTCing is stressful and at times downright depressing. You have every right to feel down when things aren't going so well so don't be so hard on yourself. This thread is here for everyone to share their journey and everyone is just entitled to have bad days. Moan away girl, it's good to get it out!

P.S it isn't over until AF arrives!

Secretdiaryofadebtgirl wrote: »

Thanks for the warm welcome

Thanks for the advice emsbet, I think OPK will be the way to go!! OH has said he doesn't want to know about all the technicalities he just wants to BD . Just want AF to hurry up so we can get started!!

x x

Most OH's are the same, it can become too presurised for them if they know when the vital time is. Just jump him when the time is right

What sort of length have your cycles been? Could you be pg? Have you tested?

xx

Secretdebts

:wave: Hi secretdebtgirl. Nice to see a (nearly) name twin & debt twin lol. Hope your stay is short & sweet! I'm also having long cycles after coming off of birth control & I know how frustrating it is not being able to pin point ov. I've been using OPKs for 2 months and not having much luck with them so I've bought a digital monitor thingy to start using next cycle (whenever that may be) so I'll let you know how I get on with that!