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Trying for a Baby Part 7

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  • Birdie85
    Birdie85 Posts: 9,330 Forumite
    Hope you're feeling a little better now BigZippy, sometimes you need a good strop to get it out of your system!

    Good on you SexyMouse for coming up with new ways to make BD fun and new again! Hope it goes well and the cream doesn't make too much of a mess!

    How do you girls cope with OH's with low libidos?! My DH is more than happy to BD once a week, I have been trying to get more out of him and trying to sneak it up to every 2-3 days but it's not always happening like that. We DTD Friday and I tried again last night only to get shot down because he was tired and 'he's not a machine' errr, I'd understand that argument if I was asking for him to BD twice a day but every other day?! I mentioned that he'll have to be more 'active' this weekend as I should be OVing but I can't see it happening TBH and it's frustrating but I can't say anything for fear of putting him under pressure and sounding like a crazy lady only after his seed! He's never been that bothered by sex, as long as he gets 'enough' but I don't know how he expects to make a baby without DTD... he was complaining about it already being over a month (which isn't correct anyway as I only had my first AF last week, but in his mind we've been properly TTC since early October) and I wanted to tell him that babies don't really arrive by stork and require work from both parties!

    Must not let the PMA slip though, we get paid on Friday so can treat ourselves to a nice (light so we're not too bloated!) meal on Saturday night and have a real date for the first time since we got back from our honeymoon! :)
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  • Flee_2
    Flee_2 Posts: 770 Forumite
    Morning all. So not happy that it is Monday morning again. Why does the weekend go so quick. Need a nap and some energy today.

    Hugs to all that need it.
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  • Pot8o
    Pot8o Posts: 38 Forumite
    Hello everyone,

    I havent posted for a while, since OV in fact as i thouhgt it would be better if i stayed away and just saw how things went.

    Just to provide a brief bit of background...been TTC since April..found out in May that we had caught first cycle but then had a MC at 7 weeks in June. Have been back TTC ever since, and am pleased to report that this cycle was the one for us, as i got my BFP a few days ago. Feeling so many emotions its unreal, and really think i am holding back because we have been here before. We are just taking each day as it comes really for now. I am 4wks+4.

    I think we did quite a bit different this time. I started temping and recording this on FF and also started taking Agnus Castus from about day 11 or 12 (i would have started earlier but didnt buy it until then - i took the reccomended dose from holland and barrett which from memory was 1600mg a day?!). I also began taking cough med then and took both up to OV. i do also use CBFM and began using OPK's this month too. interestingly they showed surge later than FF says i ovulated based on my temps (although i had high from day 10 onwards i think from memory). We also did the SMEP but only from day 11 so we were a day out. So i wonder if FF is right and i did actually ovulate on day 17 and not 19. We BD'd every other day from day 11 or so and then every day for 3 days during peak, missed a day and BD'd afterwards.

    As for symptoms i havent really had many. Have had a few cramps and have noticed ive been weeing more frequently but thats about it really.

    Some will remember that i had said i thouhgt i had a hormone imbalance and i think that was down to the MC i had and i dont think i have really been back on track since now - so it has taken a good three months. Everyone is different though, just thought i would share my news and hopefully this will help others.

    I will check back from time to time but will probably not come on much as i am just trying to chill and see what happens and take each day as it comes.

    Thanks to everyone who posts on here though - i wouldnt be where i am now without you as i wouldnt know half of the knowledge i now have

    SBDTA xxx
  • emsbet
    emsbet Posts: 5,237 Forumite
    Congratulations Pot8o! :j

    xx
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    Gorgeous baby boy born 16.09.12 :happylove

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  • Pot8o
    Pot8o Posts: 38 Forumite
    oh we also used preseed this month x
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    edited 14 November 2011 at 8:08PM
    Testing list

    Tue 25th Oct - i luv freebies
    Thu 3rd Nov - countrybum
    Sat 5th Nov - Tryinforathird

    Mon 14th Nov - MrsHappy
    Wed 16th Nov - Tigerlilly

    Mon 21st Nov - Flee
    Tue 22nd Nov - nicki

    November graduates- Winners of Oct BFP predictions (11) robyn297:T

    esio trot TTC#2 since 09/11 BFP 07/11/11:j
    pot8o (27) TTC#1 since 04/11 (mc 06/11) BFP 12/11/11:j
    RebekahR (30) TTC#1 since 07/11 BFP 13/11/11:j


    November BFP predictions

    mrsrobertson - 6
    Trixietoes - 7
    GemmaE - 8
    Twigglet35 - 8
    Squirrels - 8
    ikkle87 - 9
    QQuaver - 9
    Secretdebts - 9
    Flee - 9
    sexymouse - 9
    Sa-ra-ra-ra - 10
    Rebekah - 10
    Birdie85 - 10
    Tinkwings - 10
    MrsHappy - 10
    vesper - 11
    teaandcakeordeath - 11
    TTC40 - 12
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    edited 14 November 2011 at 7:54PM
    Team Sticky!

    CD51 i luv freebies - ?DPO :cool:
    CD47 teaandcakeordeath - 25DPO :cool:
    CD39 Tryingforathird - 21DPO :cool:
    CD35 Maire1 - 16DPO :cool:
    CD37 T-sil - ?DPO :cool:
    CD30 The Next Verse - 15DPO :cool:
    CD27 colli - 14DPO :cool:
    CD28 mrsrobertson - 14DPO :cool:
    CD27 i love holidays - 11DPO :cool:
    CD26 mrshappy - 11DPO :cool:
    CD23 Student_Mrs - 9DPO :cool:
    CD23 trixietoes - 9DPO :cool:
    CD? Tigerlilly - 8DPO :cool:
    CD25 Flee - 7DPO :cool:
    CD24 Sa-ra-ra-ra - 7DPO :cool:
    CD18 nicki - 6DPO :cool:
    CD24 Aless02 - 5DPO :cool:
    CD27 mssas - 5DPO :cool:
    CD10 Primmer* - High CBFM :cool:

    CD88 Lurker1972 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD88 pinkjelly - Awaiting ov :o
    CD82 robyn297 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD74 pokey128 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD55 b_girl - Awaiting ov :o
    CD43 lazarou_true - Awaiting ov :o
    CD39 countrybum - Awaiting ov :o
    CD37 Maddie_s - Awaiting ov :o
    CD36 morocha - Awaiting ov :o
    CD32 Gizmogiz* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD30 fannyanna - Awaiting ov :o
    CD30 robyn297 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD29 Europa - Awaiting ov :o
    CD26 Whattodonow - Awaiting ov :o
    CD26 claire16c - Awaiting ov :o
    CD24 welshpolarbear - Awaiting ov :o
    CD24 vesper - Awaiting ov :o
    CD21 Secretdebts - Awaiting ov :o
    CD18 GemmaE - Awaiting ov :o
    CD17 TTC40 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD17 Elelyn - Awaiting ov :o
    CD17 Candlewax - Awaiting ov :o
    CD14 mishkanorman - Awaiting ov :o
    CD14 divorcingjack - Awaiting ov :o
    CD14 mrs_dave - Awaiting ov :o
    CD13 sexymouse* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD13 littleme - Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 walby1993 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 Bezzyk - Awaiting ov :o
    CD11 Bigzippy* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD10 penguin83 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD10 Birdie85 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD8 morocha - Awaiting ov :o
    CD8 2ba3c - Awaiting ov :o
    CD7 QQuaver* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD7 Squ1rrel5 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD5 twigglet35 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD5 Picklepick - Awaiting ov :o
    CD5 emsbet - Awaiting ov :o
    CD4 kittycat1977 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD2 lucyloo77 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD1 tinkwings - Awaiting ov :o

    Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
    The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart:)
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    :j:j:jCongratulations Pot8o!:j:j:j
    BFP BFP BFP BFP BFP!
    preggo.gif.....preggo.gif.....preggo.gif.....preggo.gif.....preggo.gif
  • colli
    colli Posts: 669 Forumite
    Excellent news congrats pot8o :j. hope you have a happy and very healthy 9 months :D
  • Good Morning Ladies and congratulations pot80!

    I'm 8dpo today could I please join the list to test on wednesday.

    I'm going a bit mad today and am sure I'm making up symptoms but everything that is going is very different to my normal cycle. So far I've nearly fainted, had headaches, nausea and a very crampy tummy since 2dpo. I also have a bit of backache and needing to wee lots. OOoh and was worn out yesterday went to bed and was wide awake un til 2.30am which never happens.

    Fingers crossed this is our month, Sending lots of babydust x
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    :j
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