Trying for a Baby Part 7

Nicki

tinkwings wrote: »

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You OK tinks? If you don't want to post on the thread but want to talk, you can PM me.

sexymouse

Hugs for tinkwings! Anything we can do?

emsbet

You ok Tink?

xx

divorcingjack

sexymouse wrote: »

Hi dj I'm not using the CBFM this month, but know that I usually get my first peak on CD14 - the day after tomorrow. So, the plan is BD CD10 (done), 12 (done), 13, 14 and 16 (as long as Moon can manage it) as this is the sperm meets egg plan. We may try to BD on other days too, eg. CD17 in the morning (if I'm not working) as Moon will be off work, as we may catch it if I OV later than 14 then. Basically, we're going to try to DTD as often as possible during the next week or so. Keeping my fingers crossed that mission babydance works this time for both you and I so we can be bump buddies too. Oh, and I have to be at work at 7.30am tomorrow morning to set up for a big GCSE exam that doesn't start until 9.30am, so I'm not impressed by the early start either.

Oooh, bump buddies! Lets go for it Your plan sounds brill - good luck to you and Moon. I will be keeping my fingers (although not legs) crossed for you. Poo to your early start too

dj x

sexymouse

morocha wrote: »

oh my god sexymouse... what a plan !! iam CD7 and plan to BD next week, dont know how often, my oh works wed till sat. and i will Ov on the Sun 20th, so annoying, he will be knackered on the most important days. Well, i already said, i will let nature decide, i wont do charts, plans etc... i love them tho, but there is a high chance i become maniatic and grumpy if it does not go to plan.

I know what you mean - we were meant to be chilling out a bit more this month (hence not using the CBFM). I'm trying very hard to retrain my brain to think "what will happen will happen", and to try and make BDing fun again (hence the cream). Is it bad that I bought the light version cos I was worried about all of the calories? :rotfl:

divorcingjack

tinkwings wrote: »

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What's up tink?

Hugs xx

sexymouse

I heard a joke on the radio that made me laugh today:

A man complained, "Every time I go on holiday, my wife ends up getting pregnant. This year, I'm taking her with me!"

tinkwings

sexymouse wrote: »

Hugs for tinkwings! Anything we can do?

:A

Nicki wrote: »

You OK tinks? If you don't want to post on the thread but want to talk, you can PM me.

Thanks Nicki xx :A

emsbet wrote: »

You ok Tink? :A

xx

Just had all my AF symptons start today and feel really pants and disillusioned

I know that I have two beautiful amazing children and that I should be grateful and feel really bad for feeling how I feel. Just having a day of if I hadn't mc'd etc etc etc .........:(

sexymouse

You never know tinks, it could be pregnancy symptoms rather than AF. Keeping my fingers crossed for you that it isn't AF. *Flings some heroes over to tinks*

emsbet

tinkwings wrote: »

Just had all my AF symptons start today and feel really pants and disillusioned

I know that I have two beautiful amazing children and that I should be grateful and feel really bad for feeling how I feel. Just having a day of if I hadn't mc'd etc etc etc .........:(

You shouldn't feel bad for feeling upset. Having children already doesn't diminish the pain you feel over your loss, neither does it mean that you can't/shouldn't long for more children.

I know those days are bad when you think about where you would have been had the mc not happened (I'm having one too today which is why I've not posted much) and I think you have to allow yourself to have those days and grieve for your loss. I hope tomorrow is a better day for you.

xx