Trying for a Baby Part 7

emsbet

Have some of these Zippy

Sorry things are so tough. Fingers crossed your gynae can give you some answers and some help to get your BFP.

It's always about the waiting isn't it?!

I'm going to try sleep. Been asleep since 10 downstairs and now I've come to bed I'm wide awake because my stupid mind has decided it's better to torture me with thoughts of what should have been rather than sleeping! :mad:

xx

ikkle87

I think I love my oh even more. After bd he was talking to me about if I got pregnant and what names he likes and how he knows I'm scared but that He knows we will have a baby

He asked about my last af and how long cycles were etc so I think he's been looking online but it meant a lot he was talking to me about how he feels etc x

vesper

awww that's really sweet ikkle87. I don't think my OH really understands the female cycle. Although he did do his research into the cbfm, I've put him onto a couple of books that he could read and he recons he's going to order one in the next couple of days.
Was meant to be having another early night tonight after last night disaster, but a friend of mine text me about coming over so by the time I had finished chatting to her, he was snoring his head off and it was quite late. I just haven't the will to wake him back up as he has work at 3.30am.
Am going to see my other friend's new baby with her on Friday but know I'm going to end up blubbering, they know about my MC in the past so hopefully they will be understanding. I know they will be. It's been hard this week looking for presents for him this week and thinking that these are the bits that I would like for my baby. He's so gorgeous though.

emsbet

Home tomorrow goes well for you vesper

xx

chickpea

chickpea wrote: »

Forgive the intrusion in this thread - I'm usually on the 12m+ thread!

Anyway - I'm looking to sell my CBFM (used, but v good nick with instructions) for £20 (free p+p). Anyone interested? PM me if you are! I'll even throw in a few HPTs for free (I have about 5 left I think).

I hope I'm allowed to do this - apologies if not, and I'll go down the ebay route instead!

Looks like this has found a home, thanks for the interest!

sexymouse

amithomas75 wrote: »

Shiny new thread

Ignore this post - having looked at other posts by this user, they are trying to get their thanks up by posting random comments and the occasional spam too.

colli

bigzippy wrote: »

Well, my pma is up and down like a flipping yoyo today! :mad:

I had a, wee sob on dh before because "it shouldn't be this hard" or something to that effect, and I'd still not got bfp or af or anything useful to determine what was going on with my cycle. Also dh's cousin had been here for a long weekend and we kind of look on him as a nephew (he's only 2 years older than my oldest niece) and mother him (his mum, dh's aunt, died 3.5yrs ago) -anyway, he went home today and dh pointed out that we've possibly gotten upset cos we have empty nest syndrome kicking in now he's gone home, too...he could have a point

Then I thought "i think I felt this way when we were away for our anniversary" -ss wise- so I looked on ff and that was about 2wks before af showed, so I thought maybe I'm oving now, and this spotting is just my crusty bogged down pcos ovaries complaining at doing what they're supposed to...so as we've been bding near enough every 2 days (since giving dh a pep talk ), that'd be fine...

Then I went to clean up after bd and found more abundant spotting...so who flipping knows now

I think I'm just gonna have to watch what I eat very carefully now, try and lose a few more pounds in the next few weeks, wait til af is here, and then get referred back to the gynae. I'm sick of this. It's clearly not getting better by itself

Your hubby sounds spot on to me, I always get a bit sad when guests leave and I've never had a lovely little one to look after. BUT I can second feeling hormonal around ov. I get super irritable a couple of days afterwards. Yesterday I started having a go at OH almost as soon as I opened my eyes in the morning:o (to be fair it was about stuff where he's not pulling his weight but he's always been the same and it doesn't usually annoy me THAT much). Also with the spotting after bding I always used to get that after ov (never, ever before ov), from what I could gather from looking at tinternet (dangerous I know ), it could be due to hormones making the cervix more sensitive at this time of the month which does make sense. Though it has stopped along with my other spotting since taking vit b.

Sounds like it could be very good bding timing to me! :T

tinkwings

Morning lady bugs & insomniac's :D;)

So we BD'd last night and it was nice to BD on a just for fun basis Had forgotton what that was like

So I am on mission tidy up & cupcake baking today. I am trying out a new recipie from the Hummingbird Bakery they are amazing

Have not eaten anything yet today in the hope that my stomach will stay settled might try and brave a cup of peppermint tea & see how I get on

Hugs & PMA to all those in need.

The end goal is worth it ..............................:A

Nicki

High on CBFM for me today, and FF is also telling me I might be entering a fertile phase. Am a bit surprised as I am only CD7 and am personally not expecting a positive OPK until Monday ish and to ovulate around Wednesday ish. Still never one to pass on the chance of some BDing, I will drag OH to bed tonight and start on SMEP I also still have a horrible chesty cough from a few weeks ago, so started on robuttissin this morning for that, but it should help with CM too. I might nip out later and buy some grapefruit juice just to be on the safe side. How much do you need to drink in a day? I'm not a huge fan of the taste but presumably you can mix it in with something more palatable like orange or pineapple?

colli

tinkwings wrote: »

The end goal is worth it ..............................:A

Yep yep yep :T:T:T