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Trying for a Baby Part 7

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  • RebekahR
    RebekahR Posts: 5,987 Forumite
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    EVERYBODY WAKE UP. I THINK LITTLEMISSGIGGLE IS UP THE DUFF (not that I want to gossip or owt)

    Congrats hun!!!!!!!!
    LOL! I love a gossip me!:rotfl:x
  • mishkanorman
    mishkanorman Posts: 4,155 Forumite
    Nicki wrote: »
    Ok. I'm off to bed now knowing that I was not a good enough home for my baby to want to stick. Thanks both.


    Thats unfair, LMG has every right to have fears and nerves the same as anyone else would. Your posts have upset me more than her comment, she came here to share the news we all want to have and was told off - no doubt its been playing on HER mind all night when she should be feeling elated about her BFP !


    Anyway, congrats littlemissgiggle :j :j


    I had a fantastic night last night, decided to go for a night out at the last minute and emptied the fruit machine of £210 :T:j:j got a bit tipsy and had our first try at baby making ;)

    PMA in spades today so I've come to share the love :T

    mishka
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    "Just because you are offended, doesnt mean you are right" Ricky Gervais :D
  • Primmer
    Primmer Posts: 2,187 Forumite
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    Rebekah - have a good holiday!

    Feels cold out today - wrap up warm girlies. Cd 6 nothing to report here.
  • Nicki
    Nicki Posts: 8,166 Forumite
    I am genuinely pleased for your BFP LMG and of course there is no need for you to disappear. I can understand that you are anxious and I understand that. It was the way you expressed yourself which was so upsetting last night. It came across to me as a very personalised and judgmental view of why women miscarry and really upsetting to read when I am just ovulating and hoping that a new baby will want to take it's place in my body this week. I read your first post about the faulty test and smiled and was reading on to the end of the thread to post congratulations and your later post was so shocking to me that it actually made me feel physically unwell, hence why I posted as I did.

    However I hope you will stay here for as long as you wish, and I think perhaps I need to visit here less often, and stick to forums which are more aimed at ttc after a loss until I heal more.
  • Nicki
    Nicki Posts: 8,166 Forumite
    :A
    Thats unfair, LMG has every right to have fears and nerves the same as anyone else would. Your posts have upset me more than her comment, she came here to share the news we all want to have and was told off - no doubt its been playing on HER mind all night when she should be feeling elated about her BFP !


    Anyway, congrats littlemissgiggle :j :j


    I had a fantastic night last night, decided to go for a night out at the last minute and emptied the fruit machine of £210 :T:j:j got a bit tipsy and had our first try at baby making ;)

    PMA in spades today so I've come to share the love :T

    mishka

    We cross posted but I have said I will take a break
  • squ1rrel5
    squ1rrel5 Posts: 784 Forumite
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    Congratulations on your BFP LMG!! :j
    There's been quite a few already this month, hope the momentum keeps going!

    Have a great weekend away, Rebekah! Fingers crossed for a holiday BFP!

    Dont feel like you have to disappear Nicki, and same to you LMG. We are all here to support you no matter how you feel...high or low!

    A thread full of ttc ladies is bound to have tensions and high emotions running sometimes, TTC is such an emotional time and that is obviously doubled at the time of BFP and even more so with a loss.
    I cant possibly understand how each of you feels but I now I'm such an emotional person anyway, and ttc has made me even worse!! Feel sorry for my OH sometimes!!

    Hugs to all those that need them at this time xxx
  • Flee_2
    Flee_2 Posts: 770 Forumite
    Morning ladies. Congratulations on your BFP LMG, hope you have a healthy pregnancy.

    Nicki I see where you are coming from but I honestly do not think it was a dig at anyone on here. We have had a lot of baby losses on here recently and tbh I am thinking that if I conceive, will I be lucky to reach 9 months. The losses that have happened really make you think. We are all desperate to conceive and for us all it is taking a while.
    I am 34 years old and have 2 children. I do wonder whether my body will let me conceive again and carry a baby.
    Please don't be upset. We are here to help each other.
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  • Nicki wrote: »
    Ok. I'm off to bed now knowing that I was not a good enough home for my baby to want to stick. Thanks both.

    I don't think that was what was meant Nicki. A lot of talk on here is about 'sticky beans' etc, don't think you need to take it personally.
    I am so sorry. I did not intend to upset anyone. And yes I am scared and overwhelmed. I can tell my post has caused heartache and tears. I would not intentionally do that. I can't undo what i said but i can disappear.

    I know you didn't LMG, please don't go. :(

    Anyway, huuuuge congratulations on your pregnancy! So chuffed for you. :j:j:j
    Triangle wrote: »
    and I'll do an extra long :wave:for Lily who is just over the boarder!

    Helloooo! :hello::D
  • Triangle wrote: »

    I'm going to test again later although certain it will be a BFN. Just desperate to start a new cycle now...had a BBT thermometer arrive yesterday which I ordered and also have lots of ov tests...so lots to have PMA for next month! Secretdebts, any news?

    T
    x

    Nothing at all. Started getting bored and used an opk this morning just for something to do lol. I'm thinking that AF was so long last month that there's nothing left to come out!!:rotfl:
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  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    Testing list

    Mon 10th Oct - Secretdebts
    Tue 11th Oct - Triangle
    Fri 14th Oct - RebekahR
    Fri 14th Oct - LittleMissGiggle
    Mon 17th Oct - Sa-ra-ra-ra
    Wed 19th Oct - Flee
    Wed 19th Oct - Tinkwings
    Wed 19th Oct - MrsRobertson
    Thu 20th Oct - Lily_the_legend
    Wed 26th Oct - Nicki

    October graduates- Winners of Sept BFP predictions (8) BB1984, RebekahR, QQuaver, sexymouse, twigglet35

    jovichick123 (30) TTC#2 since 09/11 BFP 03/10/11:j
    Plans_all_plans TTC since 08/11 BFP 04/10/11:j
    Kaemi (26) TTC#1 since 05/11 BFP 07/10/11:j
    BB1984 (27) TTC#1 since 01/11 BFP 11/10/11:j
    LittleMissGiggle (27) TTC#1 since 07/11 BFP 14/10/11:j

    October BFP predictions

    Lazarou-true - 6
    QQuaver - 7
    Sa-ra-ra-ra - 7
    b_girl - 7
    Sexymouse - 8
    MrsHappy - 8
    Whattoonow - 8
    Triangle - 8
    Secretdebts - 9
    Rebekah - 9
    Flee - 9
    Countrybum - 9 (incl self)
    BB1984 - 10
    MrsRobertson - 10
    Tinkwings - 10
    robyn297 - 11
    Kaemi - 12
    2ba3c - 13
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