Trying for a Baby Part 7

QQuaver

Birdie85 wrote: »

Go to LoveHoney.co.uk and buy a 'toy' (really good beginners section on the site to help you choose!), buy a book called Hot Sex and How To Do It by Tracey Cox (don't really want to link to either as I'm at work! ) and after you've read it get your OH to read it too! According to The Great Sperm Race 'gourmet sex' is the key to concieving and surely that means your pleasure too!

Don't think I'll get the toy, but will have a lookie on the book:p
Surely one doesn't need a toy for this:shocked:

DH seems to be enjoying himself:D, I was never into BDing, only want a baby:o

becca0417 wrote: »

My graduation tonight - yay!

Congratulations!:j

codemonkey

Hey QQ, can you put me to CD3 please?

As for orgasms, i think i have the opposite problem to you. It happens really easily and quickly and DH goes on for ages so usually I have loads then get really sore or tired or start worrying that the neighbours are going to get upset. QQ you need to learn to have one by yourself first - if nothing else its good for relieving stress. I do have loads of friends who have confessed to never having one either so you're not alone.

You dont need a toy but they are fun.

tea_lover

FWIW, I find it a lot easier without a toy. I would also heartily agree that it's a massive help for relieving stress.

I guess it's really true that nothing is TMI on here lol.

Birdie85

I agree that you don't *have* to have toys but they can help and I suggested it because if you're not used to having an orgasm on your own or if you feel a little funny about doing it, it's good for that 'detachment' aspect as you're not directly touching yourself IYKWIM. You can get some tiny ones too, it's not like I'm suggesting people go and buy ginormous rubber 'members'! :rotfl:

I think that this thread should come with a TMI warning! Newbies must think we're a right dirty bunch! :rotfl: Times like this I do kind of wish I was posting with an AE!

QQuaver

So everyone o's:lipsrseal

I do produce arousal fluid though, never had a problem there:cool:
I think I'm close.

I know that orgasm will suck up sperm, so it's good for ttc.
And DH's spermies need a lot of help (was told it'll never reach the egg):o

tea_lover

Birdie85 wrote: »

it's not like I'm suggesting people go and buy ginormous rubber 'members'! :rotfl:

:rotfl:I just snorted! People in the office are now looking at me funny! :rotfl:

ETA: QQ, I'm sure LOADS of women get pg without an orgasm. If I... ahem, get there, it's always before OH anyway so it doesn't help us in terms of TTC.

QQuaver

tea_lover wrote: »

ETA: QQ, I'm sure LOADS of women get pg without an orgasm. If I... ahem, get there, it's always before OH anyway so it doesn't help us in terms of TTC.

I know, but DH's sperm needs serious help (he had an botched op in that area when he was young, so most of his spermies are abnormal, and the numbers are really low), and I 'think' I may have had an orgasm on my only time I got pg...

I want to recreate it when I ov next time:j
I still have time to practise until then:cool:

tea_lover

QQuaver wrote: »

I know, but DH's sperm needs serious help (he had an botched op in that area when he was young, so most of his spermies are abnormal, and the numbers are really low), and I 'think' I may have had an orgasm on my only time I got pg...

I want to recreate it when I ov next time:j
I still have time to practise until then:cool:

Practice makes perfect!! We have really low sperm numbers too, maybe I should be investing more effort into post-OH orgasm :cool:

becca0417

And obviously the more practise the better

QQuaver

tea_lover wrote: »

maybe I should be investing more effort into post-OH orgasm :cool:

We should:cool:

becca0417 wrote: »

And obviously the more practise the better

:p:p