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Trying for a Baby Part 7

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  • atton83
    atton83 Posts: 604 Forumite
    Opks start wednesday
  • Flee_2
    Flee_2 Posts: 770 Forumite
    Hugs JoJoB. Horrible thing to happen.

    CD32 and not much happening. Getting bored of random cycles. Last month was 37, the previous month was 29, before that was around 32 and 34.
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  • Gemmzie
    Gemmzie Posts: 14,876 Forumite
    becca0417 wrote: »
    Birdie - our lives seem very similar at the moment! We have also just brought a new car that has 5 doors :) What did you get? Exciting isn't it. Sorry to hear about BFN, fingers crossed it's just a little too early.

    Hugs for CD1 ((timetodeal)) x

    Looking forward to you joining us Gem (PS wedding pics?!)

    I will get some up on instagram and message you them, I can't put them on the forum as there's too many links to who I am here :o

    I'm trying to wean myself off caffine and sugar - I don't drink much tea so not cutting that out yet but cola is my one downfall... it's hard and I have a headache but I'll do it!

    Also, does Pregnacare have folic acid in it? Because I don't want to take too much and my SIL has loads of folic acid left because she didn't take it.
    No longer using this account for new posts from 2013
  • amus
    amus Posts: 5,635 Forumite
    Just wondering if anyone knows how your cycle works following a miscarriage?

    Tested today after 5 days and still got quite a BFP.

    Do you think CD1 will start when hormones go back down or from the day the miscarriage occurs?
  • lilymay1
    lilymay1 Posts: 1,597 Forumite
    amus wrote: »
    Just wondering if anyone knows how your cycle works following a miscarriage?

    Tested today after 5 days and still got quite a BFP.

    Do you think CD1 will start when hormones go back down or from the day the miscarriage occurs?

    It's been a while since my m/c and I'm sure someone else will be able to give you a better answer, but I think the pregnancy hormone can stay in your system for weeks or sometimes months depending on how far into the pregnancy the m/c was. It certainly wouldn't be gone by day 5 :(

    CD1 would be the first day of your next proper period following the m/c. I guess that would be your bodies way of saying it's ready to try again.

    So sorry you had to go through that. I hope you are doing okay :A:(:A
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  • atton83
    atton83 Posts: 604 Forumite
    So i showed the oh the site for the testing of his fertility and he ended up shouting at me and telling me through my headache were already past that

    Hoping my scan wont mean i have to have stuff cut out again as he nicked an artery and i bled sooooo much till he managed to sear it back together i sound like cattle, at the moment i feel like it

    Oh and i bd last night and early this morning even though were no were nr the ewcm we did it as you guys said every other day with people with fertility problems

    I have a meeting with the job center tomorrow and i have got it into my head that there going to stop my benefits (about my luck) so im stressing and annoying the oh telling me u know what i just wont go and he ends up shouting at me

    He's not getting how lonely i feel at the moment its one of those times i miss my dad and i know he doesn't feel the same as if he did he would have found me again and contacted me just a day of being :( me thinks, i don't like being like this but i seem to get on the rollercoaster of emotions and i seem to be doing good and someone says something or something just clicks and i am back down again, i then start thinkin i am not a good friend and i should break up with the oh again as i bring everyone down and i think that that would make the oh happy :eek:

    Thursday is the day i have my tattoo for my mom and i want it i know i do but i am also kinda like wow its that much is it really worth it considering i never knew her and never got to meet her?? I know that the tattoo is a good thing just at the moment im in the hmmppp :mad: mood and I am feeling like i am going to be the only one left on the forum still ttc on my own :cry:

    But then in the next instant i'm all like when i finally get a kid it will be loved more than i ever was, i will be a better parent than the people i live around and i will never let anyone hurt my kid

    so i know i have to keep my head up but its just soooo hard and i seem to loose the finish line as the goal posts keep moving

    thanks for listening
    sorry to everyone who needs it and huge :grouphug: to everyone that needs it
  • TeamLowe
    TeamLowe Posts: 2,406 Forumite
    So sorry JoJo, my thoughts are with you x x

    Amus I believe you're meant to count your cycle from the last day of bleeding and should get a bfn then too. Have you had a scan to confirm everythings come out?anything left will mean you'll still get positive test after the bleeding stopz, like for a while after and may be are at risk of infection

    Afm i'm being naughty and going for my progesterone test tomorrow, so a day early, but it fits in better then with my life. Plus the twins are more sore now than they usually are just before af soo it would appear I have plenty of progesterone ATM lol x x
    Little Lowe born January 2014 at 36+6

    Completed on house September 2013

    Got Married April 2011
  • atton83
    atton83 Posts: 604 Forumite
    Teamlowe good luck tomorrow keep us informed how it goes?
    will you get the results straight away or will you have to wait a few days?

    will keep things crossed for you
  • tinkwings
    tinkwings Posts: 3,288 Forumite
    jojob - So sorry for your loss. HUGS
    If you can think it........it will happen
  • atton83
    atton83 Posts: 604 Forumite
    So will opks help me to conceive with a oh with fertility probs or are they a waste of time?
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