Trying for a Baby Part 7

mrsj28

tea_lover wrote: »

Hi becca - perfectly normal! It's only natural to feel a bit 'why not me', however pleased you are for people. Best advice I can give is come and have a little rant on here, does me the world of good!

CD is cycle day. CD1 is the first day of your period (counted from when you get red, fresh blood). Sometimes you may get a bit of spotting beforehand, but CD1 is when it properly starts, if that makes sense.

I second that - completely normal! I've had two announcements in the last week, am genuinely over the moon for my friends, but always feel a bit shell-shocked when I hear the news.

becca0417

Thank you to you both - I feel like a horrible person! And thank you tea lover for the explanation. I have a lot to learn!!!

((mrsj)) xx

mrsj28

bigzippy wrote: »

*delurk*

Lilymay - I did a short stint in a nursery and they had 1:3 in the baby room too. It worked fine when I was there, but unless you were feeding or changing or settling them, they were in their cot/playpen, so that might not be how you'd want to parent/baby-raise...?

Afm, no idea what cd I'm on and don't care I'm just going with NTNP for at least this cycle (which could be who knows how long! ) and I'll be rearranging my FS appointment to the end of summer. Hopefully nature will intervene in the meantime... No bump and no MIL at Christmas might be a bit too much to handle :cool::(:o Anyway, it's my big numbered birthday on monday, and the funeral the day after, so we'll see how this week goes first... :cool:

oh and welcome back secrets! I've missed you!! :wave:

*relurks*

Thinking of you bz, sounds like NTNP is a good plan for the moment and really hope nature will intervene and you will have a bump at Christmas Hope the funeral next week goes as well as it can and is a celebration of a wonderful life.

tinkwings

bigzippy wrote: »

*delurk*

Lilymay - I did a short stint in a nursery and they had 1:3 in the baby room too. It worked fine when I was there, but unless you were feeding or changing or settling them, they were in their cot/playpen, so that might not be how you'd want to parent/baby-raise...?

Afm, no idea what cd I'm on and don't care I'm just going with NTNP for at least this cycle (which could be who knows how long! ) and I'll be rearranging my FS appointment to the end of summer. Hopefully nature will intervene in the meantime... No bump and no MIL at Christmas might be a bit too much to handle :cool::(:o Anyway, it's my big numbered birthday on monday, and the funeral the day after, so we'll see how this week goes first... :cool:

oh and welcome back secrets! I've missed you!! :wave:

*relurks*

HUGS BZ

Take care honey Lots of love :A:A:A:A

Happy B'day for Monday :j.....Mine is tomorrow......have next year for my big numbered one

tea_lover

becca0417 wrote: »

I have a lot to learn!!!

You'll soon be using CD, BD, OH, AF, CM, CBFM, SA, FS, DPO, ov, 2ww and who knows what else with the best of them!

QQuaver

Testing list

Saturday 21st April - Mrs Toast
Tuesday 24th April - Skintchick

April graduates- Winner of March BFP predictions (8) Mrs Happy:T

colli (30) TTC#1 since 12/10 (mc 06/11) BFP 02/04/12:j
mlbarrett (32) TTC#1 since 05/11 (mc 12/11) BFP 10/04/12:j
Aida (28) TTC#1 since 02/12 (1 mc) BFP 15/04/12:j
BezzyK (24) TTC#1 since 12/10 BFP 17/04/12:j


April BFP predictions

TTC40 - 8
vesper - 8
Squ1rrels - 8
tattoo - 9
mssas - 9
QQuaver - 9
lilymay - 9
mrsj28 - 10 (incl self & Tinkwings)
MrsHappy - 10
Aida - 10
Primmer - 10
maire1 - 11

QQuaver

Team Sticky!

CD41 skintchick - 28DPO :cool:
CD41 Mrs Toast - 20DPO :cool:
CD24 Nicki - 13DPO :cool:
CD28 Leopardlady - 12DPO :cool:
CD22 TTC40 - 8DPO :cool:
CD29 2ba3c - 8DPO :cool:
CD25 Sequeena - 8DPO :cool:
CD21 mogwai - 7DPO :cool:
CD21 Loulou123 - 6DPO :cool:
CD24 Flee - 6DPO :cool:
CD17 Primmer* - 5DPO :cool:
CD17 COMP - 5DPO :cool:
CD28 vesper - 4DPO :cool:
CD27 mrsj28 - 4DPO :cool:

CD? dibdabb - Awaiting ov
CD97 AbFab - Awaiting ov
CD93 countrybum - Awaiting ov
CD92 Sammy_Girl - Awaiting ov
CD82 Trying to become 3 - Awaiting ov
CD77 Portsmouthali - Awaiting ov
CD75 Lily_the_Legend - Awaiting ov
CD63 bigmomma - Awaiting ov
CD60 MERFE - Awaiting ov
CD60 butterfly72 - Awaiting ov
CD56 Natterjack88 - Awaiting ov
CD56 Derby2 - Awaiting ov
CD49 Mintedby30 - Awaiting ov
CD45 Squ1rrel5 - Awaiting ov
CD39 GorkyPark - Awaiting ov
CD30 Birdie85* - Awaiting ov
CD29 littleme - Awaiting ov
CD29 welshgirl - Awaiting ov
CD28 apple*pie - Awaiting ov
CD27 Gizmogiz* - Awaiting ov
CD26 ChocolateIsLife - Awaiting ov
CD26 codemonkey - Awaiting ov
CD26 zcrat - Awaiting ov
CD25 twigglet35 - Awaiting ov
CD24 mssas - Awaiting ov
CD22 Rumfeeble - Awaiting ov
CD22 Penguin 83 - Awaiting ov
CD19 babymonster2 - Awaiting ov
CD18 Definitely Blonde - Awaiting ov
CD17 scarly* - Awaiting ov
CD17 Fannyanna - Awaiting ov
CD15 i love holidays - Awaiting ov
CD15 Metranil Vavin - Awaiting ov
CD14 Maire1 - Awaiting ov
CD13 mrs_dave - Awaiting ov
CD10 QQuaver* - Awaiting ov
CD10 claire16c - Awaiting ov
CD10 Gizmodo - Awaiting ov
CD9 good vibes - Awaiting ov
CD9 lilymay - Awaiting ov
CD9 time2deal - Awaiting ov
CD8 Tea lover - Awaiting ov
CD8 lulu75 - Awaiting ov
CD7 Nephthys - Awaiting ov
CD5 claretsgirl - Awaiting ov
CD5 olliesmummy - Awaiting ov
CD4 Secretdebts - Awaiting ov
CD3 tattoo - Awaiting ov
CD1 tinkwings - Awaiting ov
CD1 TeamLowe - Awaiting ov


Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart

QQuaver

As for my ov, I don't know the specific cut off for ov date, but I'd assume if they see that the eggs are taking massively long time, then they'll want to give me something like clomid for next cycle.

It's not the end of the world, I just need to wait for the next cycle:o (I may need to miss the next cycle though, as I have work:mad:).

Kayles, good luck with day 21 test, hope it is done after you ov:)
lilymay, congrats to your OH for the job!:j:T:j
Tinkwings, massive hugs for AF:(

TeamLowe, hugs for AF to you too:o 87 days is a long time to wait for AF:o

(How do you cross your nips?:huh:)
mrsj28, I don't mind having no career if I have a child:)
But no career and no baby is not for me:o
Good vibes, glad you got the all clear from the family planning clinic:)
Bigzippy, fingers crossed for a bump for Christmas:)

zcrat41

QQ - Man, that would be pants to miss the next cycle cos of work. Add me to the loooong list of MSE'rs sending lots of growth thought to the eggies!

Missed a few days on here, seems like lots going on. Hugs to Tinkwings for CD1. TeamLowe - kind of want to yay you for your PMA!

I have work chats too re future plans. Although I work for my Mum and Dad but we havn't told them we're ttc and tbh, we really don't have that kind of relationship. They're very keen for me to set up a business that would require me working all the hours god sends whereas I'm always thinking, yes, but if I have a baby, all will change! They know that too, we just discuss it as if it's this far off option. I'm 31 !!!!!! - they know full well we're hoping it'll happen soon.

CD26 for me today and no ov this month. AF due tomorrow and feels like she's on her way. I've been grumpy cos from hell this week, sore chesticles and just that horrible dragging feeling in your tummy and back that makes you think here we go again.

Off to a wedding this weekend which should be a good one. I'll be back on here on Sunday with a hangover, probable AF and therefore a MASSIVE FEAST OF FOOD. I've not been eating that much this week to fit into a dress on Sat!

QQuaver

zcrat41 wrote: »

QQ - Man, that would be pants to miss the next cycle cos of work.

I know:(

Add me to the loooong list of MSE'rs sending lots of growth thought to the eggies!

Thank you:o

CD26 for me today and no ov this month. AF due tomorrow and feels like she's on her way.

If your AF is normal, then I'd guess you ov'd about 2 weeks ago:o
Fingers crossed the witch doesn't arrive:cool:

I've been grumpy cos from hell this week, sore chesticles and just that horrible dragging feeling in your tummy and back that makes you think here we go again.

:think: Are you SSing? :D

Off to a wedding this weekend which should be a good one. I'll be back on here on Sunday with a hangover, probable AF and therefore a MASSIVE FEAST OF FOOD. I've not been eating that much this week to fit into a dress on Sat!

Have a nice time:wave: