Trying for a Baby Part 7

codemonkey

Thanks Nicki. Not really what I wanted to hear but a little dose of reality is a good thing. I cant see your photo but i reckon todays test is a bfn. Yesterdays was a lot darker, but i suppose it could be evaporation. Sigh. Think i will test with the last one tomorrow then either wait for AF or get a digi and sob when "not pregnant" comes up. Sigh.

Nicki

Hugs codemonkey. I had a roller coaster few days too (got shadowy lines two days running, 12 and 13dpo). I've decided that from now on, I am only going to test from 14dpo and only with a digi so as not to obsess over lines or have any ambiguity as to results. I think that will be much less stressful. I have 2 in the cupboard, and will order some of the cheap ones off fleabay if I need to, though if I am waiting until 14dpo from now on, I should need rather fewer of them than I have been using up to now.

codemonkey

Nicki wrote: »

Hugs codemonkey. I had a roller coaster few days too (got shadowy lines two days running, 12 and 13dpo). I've decided that from now on, I am only going to test from 14dpo and only with a digi so as not to obsess over lines or have any ambiguity as to results. I think that will be much less stressful. I have 2 in the cupboard, and will order some of the cheap ones off fleabay if I need to, though if I am waiting until 14dpo from now on, I should need rather fewer of them than I have been using up to now.

Sounds like a good plan. I didnt test until after af was late but i've been obsessing over lines. Normally I'm pretty good at going "that's negative" but for some reason I'm unwilling or unable to let this go.

Primmer

Hugs codemonkey - maybe try a digi so you know for sure either way. I know it's horrible to see the words if it is negative it has to be better than days of not knowing.

tinkwings

Cherry Drop - Huge Congrtas wishing you a Happy & Healthy PG xxx

tinkwings

I feel like pants still today no BDing yet as I can't breath let alone anything else :eek::rotfl::o

Anyone got any miracle feel better cures????

DD2 has it as well so we are both feeling sorry for ourselves.

QQuaver

TeamLowe wrote: »

ladies, just a quick one to say I have an unusual problem....
neither me nor DH are sure if we BDed last night :rotfl:

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
Ahem, are there any 'evidence' in you?

tinkwings wrote: »

I feel like pants still today no BDing yet as I can't breath let alone anything else :eek::rotfl::o

Anyone got any miracle feel better cures????

DD2 has it as well so we are both feeling sorry for ourselves.

(((hugs))). Caffeine?:p

Nicki

TMI coming up (look away if squeamish) but I'm converting to the idea of Chinese medicine...
The chinese doctor I've been seeing doesn't speak a lot of english, so haven't been talking to him a lot, except at the first consultation where he had an interpreter. One of the things he thought was symptomatic though was my short light periods since the miscarriage. Yesterday I pitched up for my acupuncture, and he took my pulse, and then asked was I coming to the end of my period. Given that I hadn't said I was on my period, and I've only been seeing him for a few weeks so he can't know my cycle, it was pretty impressive he knew I was on at all. When I said I had just started and it was light as usual, he nodded sagely and put the needles in, put a lamp on my feet (usually he puts it over my stomach) and left without saying a word. As you all know I slept soundly from mid evening yesterday (:)) until mid morning today, and AF is suddenly very heavy and have passed some massive clots too. I haven't had a heavy bleed since the loss, and even when I miscarried I hardly bled at all, so I wonder whether perhaps I've had some retained products in there all this time which have suddenly cleaned themselves out? Rather impressively, I've had hardly any cramping at all too, which is a bonus.

maire1

Hey there all! 11 dpo today and have been doing such major ss that I had to test. Bfn. Not too discouraged as I had bfn at 13 dpo on the cycle I did catch (ended in mc unfortunately) so might still be in with a chance?

Sorry qq, but I've got nausea like you wouldn't believe and such sore b00bs!

Keep waiting I guess!

cmills16

Hi everyone
Firstly I need to say sorry for abandoning everyone here. I was becoming obsessed and getting far to upset about seeing no positive lines. Therefore to destress I decided to cut my self off. So sorry to everyone.
I felt I needed to come back and share that I am due my period on Monday and I had a really bad feeling to test on Thursday just gone and it was POSITIVE! and everyday since I've been testing and its been positive. I'm trying not to get too excited as I am really worried about it being a chemical pregnancy
Im now going to read back a few pages to see how you are all getting on.