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Trying for a Baby Part 7

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  • tinkwings
    tinkwings Posts: 3,288 Forumite
    T-Sil wrote: »
    Morning everyone,

    It's all over for me I'm afraid, looks like another chemical. Digi says not pregnant, and FRER is stark white this morning.
    I don't know why but I think I knew it would be.

    Gutted isn't the word. I can't help but think there is something wrong with me :(

    x

    Huge Hugs xxxxx:A
    If you can think it........it will happen
  • emsbet
    emsbet Posts: 5,237 Forumite
    T-Sil wrote: »
    Morning everyone,

    It's all over for me I'm afraid, looks like another chemical. Digi says not pregnant, and FRER is stark white this morning.
    I don't know why but I think I knew it would be.

    Gutted isn't the word. I can't help but think there is something wrong with me :(

    x

    I'm so sorry :( big ((hugs)) for you. I would maybe go speak to your GP about it and see if they will consider you for any tests?

    xx
    :A 09.06.11:A 07.10.11:A
    Gorgeous baby boy born 16.09.12 :happylove

    :kisses2:The world moves for love. It kneels before it in awe :kisses2:

    Patience is a virtue I lack! :p
  • mrsj28
    mrsj28 Posts: 1,287 Forumite
    tinkwings wrote: »
    CD1 here :(

    ((hugs)) for CD1 - let's hope this cycle will be the one
  • mrsj28
    mrsj28 Posts: 1,287 Forumite
    T-Sil wrote: »
    Morning everyone,

    It's all over for me I'm afraid, looks like another chemical. Digi says not pregnant, and FRER is stark white this morning.
    I don't know why but I think I knew it would be.

    Gutted isn't the word. I can't help but think there is something wrong with me :(

    x

    So sorry T-Sil, thinking of you and sending ((hugs))
  • Primmer
    Primmer Posts: 2,187 Forumite
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    T-Sill - so sorry and sending huge hugs to you. Do go and see your doctor as there are simple treatments they can try and it could be that you have a slight infection. Sending more hugs.
  • snowyz81
    snowyz81 Posts: 213 Forumite
    big hugs for everyone who needs one.

    I'm 9dpo and really want to test again but know it will only upset me. AF is due next sunday, so really need to try and wait but its so difficult.
    Mummy to Isabella - March 2008 and Daisie - September 2012
    :A - November 2011 (mc)
  • T-Sil
    T-Sil Posts: 175 Forumite
    Thanks all..
    Had a good sob this morning, but feeling ok now. It's just all the hopes you start building up, even when you try not to.
    I'm going out with a friend shopping later, I'll have to treat myself to something!

    I have an appointment at the doctor on Thursday, so we'll see what she says then.

    Hope everyone else is good.
    x
  • sexymouse
    sexymouse Posts: 6,131 Forumite
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    Massive hugs to T-Sil - be kind to yourself today, and find something nice to take your mind off things for a little bit. I hope the doctor is able to find the cause and help you get your sticky bean.

    Hugs to tinks on CD1.

    Still no BD yesterday. Beginning to think Moon has given up on the idea of every other day this month. He's down making scrambled eggs for breakfast at my request, and we're heading into town later to exchange a Christmas pressie in M&S. We'll probably have a coffee whist we're in there as Moon got loads of vouchers from work. :)

    Hugs for anyone else who needs or wants them.

    sexymouse xx
    Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.
    I married Moon 8/4/2011, baby boy born 26/9/2012, Angel Baby Poppy born 8/11/15, Rainbow baby boy born 11/2/2017
  • fluffnutter
    fluffnutter Posts: 23,179 Forumite
    edited 8 January 2012 at 11:26AM
    T-Sil wrote: »
    Morning everyone,

    It's all over for me I'm afraid, looks like another chemical. Digi says not pregnant, and FRER is stark white this morning.
    I don't know why but I think I knew it would be.

    Gutted isn't the word. I can't help but think there is something wrong with me :(

    x

    I know this is probably of little comfort but many experts think anything up to 70% of conceptions are chemical pregnancies. It's scant consolation but perhaps it might help to remind yourself how common this is and how it's nature's way of making sure that a baby that will never be able to live properly doesn't get born. Lots of our eggs simply aren't viable, it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you.

    Because pregnancy tests are so sensitive and we have the ability to find out so early (plus when you're trying like mad to get pregnant you test every month!) it's so easy to be aware of these sad events that ordinarily would go unnoticed.

    Your body has done what it needed to do T-Sil and you'll go on to have a lovely healthy baby soon.
    "Growth for growth's sake is the ideology of the cancer cell" - Edward Abbey.
  • kavics17
    kavics17 Posts: 2,235 Forumite
    So much happening.

    Hugs Tink and QQ.

    Not sure who asked: I'm 32, OH is 34. We have been trying to concieve since April, had a Mc in Oct.

    I tested again, it's negative:(.
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