Depression

mclaren_2

Tulip wrote: »

thanks Mclaren sure is better off than on I cant seem to get the glitter graphics onto this board,where do I keep going wrong hence that long post just now with that information,Any clues as to why I cant get a graphic on this board Mclaren?

thanks,

Katie xxx

Ive just posted that above this one lol

Tulip

mclaren wrote: »

didnt work because its HTML and not forum html lol

example

<a href=http://glitter-graphics.com/myspace/text_generator.php><img src=http://text.glitter-graphics.net/blush_noise/t.gif alt="Myspace Text Generator, Myspace Graphics" border=0></a>

should be

http://text.glitter-graphics.net/blush_noise/t.gif - but within the tags

like

ok thanks lol! will have another go later on

Katie

mclaren_2

flis21 wrote: »

Feel a total fraud posting here, as I realise the way I am feeling is probably because of my hormones rather than my depression. Just can't stop crying, I feel really scared and sooo worried about everything. Also tired and nauseaus (sp?) most of the time. And my b00bs are really sore (sorry, tmi!). Talked to hubby last night about it and he was sweet and let me talk and gave me cuddles, but he really can't understand what I am going through. And it is not that I am not happy to be pregnant. Am really over the moon, I want this baby sooo much. Just wish I could stop feeling this sad. Keep panicking that I will do something wrong and hurt the baby.

Sorry, bit of a ramble. Midwife phoned yesterday, but I wasn't in so she left a message. Maybe I will feel better when I speak to her.

emmm excuse me but dont feel a fraud! its not the point of whether it is hormones or depression - the fact is, you needed to open up, and you did

You're feeling sad because of hormones, but its something you will get past hun. Go to the GP if you're still under the weather on monday.

You wont do anything wrong, dont worry, we're all here behind ya

Tulip

mclaren wrote: »

Ive just posted that above this one lol

lol! I had noticed thanks so deleted my question asking about it he he

Katie

Tulip

mclaren wrote: »

emmm excuse me but dont feel a fraud! its not the point of whether it is hormones or depression - the fact is, you needed to open up, and you did

You're feeling sad because of hormones, but its something you will get past hun. Go to the GP if you're still under the weather on monday.

You wont do anything wrong, dont worry, we're all here behind ya

Flis21,

Dont feel a fraud ok? Its quite natural for you to have these feelings at the moment,as Mclaren just said we are all here for you,dont you worry,we are all friends on here so offload when you want to and we will listen and advise if we can

dont be alone and you have a supportive hubby by your side as well


lots of love,

Katie xxx

Tulip

well I have to go and have my lunch now

chat later Mclaren

lots of love,

Katie xxx

mclaren_2

Well, i am just about to have my lunch, then head up to see the psych - oh the joys of life lol. Feeling more possitive still though, but i still need to go up. Bit worried incase things go back down hill like before and before and before, but i can't dwell on all that, and need to look up and ahead.

If it happens, it happens, but i cant think about it untill it does happen, IF it happens.

anyway, hope you're all good today, and hope everybody is feeling more possitive.

mclaren_2

BANG!

knew it - just phoned the DWP about a couple of things, and they dont half make you feel small. They also make you feel so inadiquite.

DWP "but you should have read the letters we sent out sir"
ME: "but i am dyslexic, its hard"
DWP: "oh"
ME: "pardon"
DWP: "oh i see"
DWP: "you could have got help to read them"
ME: "yes, but since not in brail, mum cant help there"
DWP: "oh"

talk about arragant!

ya know - every single day, for the past few weeks, ive been on the up - more possitive every single, day, feeling happier, feeling more like my old self - even today i was so up beat about life, and then i decided to call DWP to sort something out with them, and bang, they make you feel like siht.

I just dont know where i am heading. I know where i am not wanting to go - oh stress wonderful stress..... hello depresiona gain - how ive missed THAT ba5tard and now the "old" crap i thot i had lost is back...... ace.

Tiff_2

mclaren wrote: »

BANG!
knew it - just phoned the DWP about a couple of things, and they dont half make you feel small. They also make you feel so inadiquite.

DWP "but you should have read the letters we sent out sir"
ME: "but i am dyslexic, its hard"
DWP: "oh"
ME: "pardon"
DWP: "oh i see"
DWP: "you could have got help to read them"
ME: "yes, but since not in brail, mum cant help there"
DWP: "oh"

talk about arragant!

ya know - every single day, for the past few weeks, ive been on the up - more possitive every single, day, feeling happier, feeling more like my old self - even today i was so up beat about life, and then i decided to call DWP to sort something out with them, and bang, they make you feel like siht.

I just dont know where i am heading. I know where i am not wanting to go - oh stress wonderful stress..... hello depresiona gain - how ive missed THAT ba5tard and now the "old" crap i thot i had lost is back...... ace.

Hi mac angel,
Yep, you should've known better than to approach DWP on a Friday afternoon and expect them to be helpful!:rolleyes:
It's unfortunate that you came across someone who was less than tactful hun. If only they knew huh?!:o
But you still have the Tiffster as back up if you need a letter writing!:eek:

Firstly hun, was what you called about resolved?
I hope so. Mission accomplished in that case, inspite of the response you got. What I'm trying to say hun is that you tackled something head on - that's the main point right now!:T That's a big positive angel. I can fully understand why you're so upset hun.(((hugs)))

Hun, we all go up and down - even if we're not ill!;)
I'm guessing you're naturally very angry mac and that does tend to remind us of everything negative.

But ol' Tiff's not going to let you off that easily mac!;)
You said it yourself hun - just look back at what you've achieved recently!:T :T :T
No-one can take that away from you angel! And everything you had in order to feel that good, is still there! This is a temporary nasty little snag that I hope a good vent at Tiffy, will help to make you feel better.;)

Go back to this morning and find those positives you were feeling, pat yourself on the back for dealing with the DWP and realise that they have the problem - not you!;)
Mac, you've been a little ray of sunshine and so supportive to so many here recently - don't let them rain on your parade hun.:A You've got every right to hold your head up and feel really proud. Hope you feel better hun.(((hugs)))
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

Karrie

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