Depression

Horasio

I feel like I am being treated like a charity case by my OH

blowing hot and cold and supporting bad behaviour from our son.

EthelBloggs

gawd I'm feeling really irritated and i don't know why!
I feel like screaming or punching something :eek:

Just had a social worker here.. new one.. bit dippy but very well-intentioned, I'm not holding out much hope tho to be honest.

Also have to go see daughter's psychiatrist at 5.. so if I'm lucky i reckon I'll be home around half 8 or nine :mad: Times like this I regret taking my car off the road, cos i'd be home in like 20 mins or something if I drove.

Oh well.. maybe it's just a bad day or something

Horasio

EthelBloggs wrote: »

gawd I'm feeling really irritated and i don't know why!
I feel like screaming or punching something :eek:

Just had a social worker here.. new one.. bit dippy but very well-intentioned, I'm not holding out much hope tho to be honest.

Also have to go see daughter's psychiatrist at 5.. so if I'm lucky i reckon I'll be home around half 8 or nine :mad: Times like this I regret taking my car off the road, cos i'd be home in like 20 mins or something if I drove.

Oh well.. maybe it's just a bad day or something

I think it is one of those days - I feel like blowing up too

Horasio

Pumpkin_Pie wrote: »

I'm having a sucky day. So managed get to the docs and I have another sicknote - Now to break the news to work... They really want me back and I want to go back.... soon.....

And it's my dad's birthday. He died last July, suddenly.

there is so much to do before my niece arrives on thursday, but I will do it tomorrow... maybe

BUT I'm holding on that tomorrow will be a better day.

Hold on guys

With all my love hugs and gentle stroking of hair to ALL

Pumpkin xxx

How sad for you - my father's was in June and he died in July 2002 suddenly, so understand how you feel.

Sugar_Coated_Owl

CCStar (((HUGS))) Please don't give up. Keep fishting. You're a strong person.

Can you not sit down with both your OH and son and talk? There seems like there are so many issues that need resolving.

Hello Carol, Did you manage to go out today? What did you do? Hope you're feeling better. *HUGS*

Pumpkin Pie, Well done on going to the Doctor's and getting a sick note. Go back to work when you feel ready hun.

Ethel, I hope the meeting with your daughter's psychiatrist goes well. It's a shame it's so late in the day (5pm). Could you ask for future appointments to be a little earlier as you have to rely on public transport? I'll be thinking of you hun. (((HUGS)))

xxx

Horasio

razorbladekisses wrote: »

CCStar (((HUGS))) Please don't give up. Keep fishting. You're a strong person.

Can you not sit down with both your OH and son and talk? There seems like there are so many issues that need resolving.

Hello Carol, Did you manage to go out today? What did you do? Hope you're feeling better. *HUGS*

Pumpkin Pie, Well done on going to the Doctor's and getting a sick note. Go back to work when you feel ready hun.

Ethel, I hope the meeting with your daughter's psychiatrist goes well. It's a shame it's so late in the day (5pm). Could you ask for future appointments to be a little earlier as you have to rely on public transport? I'll be thinking of you hun. (((HUGS)))

xxx

I am known as the rager but if I wasn't so frustrated with how I am being treated then I would be more reasonable. When I am reasonable I am ignored or treated like a nobody.

I had issues with bullying as a child too. I can't take it in my home too!

My OH isn't being loyal to me when I need him to back me up and I despise him for it.

Sugar_Coated_Owl

You definately need to talk. It isn't fair or right that you have to put up with bullying in your own home. As a partner your OH should be there to give you support when you need it. Do you know why he doesn't do this?

Horasio

I have talked about this for ages and think they get it then it happens again.

I was hoping to wait till this house sells but it's not playing ball, I might have to move before then.

I believe your partner should be 100% loyal especially when your child misbehaves

I have an issue with my OH for not being loyal to me yet declares undying love.

I feel let down:(

Sugar_Coated_Owl

I'm sorry to pry. Please don't feel you have to answer these questions.

Are you happy in your current relationship? Are you still in love with your OH?

Have you ever tried some kind of family counselling. Perhaps that might help.

Horasio

razorbladekisses wrote: »

I'm sorry to pry. Please don't feel you have to answer these questions.

Are you happy in your current relationship? Are you still in love with your OH?

Have you ever tried some kind of family counselling. Perhaps that might help.

I think I love him but when I keep getting hurt, I do wonder if it is healthy?

We had counselling but he kept ranting whenever mentioned my issues with him. The counsellor didn't manage to keep him under control and it was horrible.