Depression

Sazbo

EthelBloggs wrote:

What sazbomb said goes for me x 100 oh.. and I'm wayyyy better trained than she is!! take meeeeeeeeeee!!!!

Oi! Nice try ethel hun! How's about the three of us go?! Party in Harrogate, yay! :dance: Poor tiffy, she'll be going back home for a rest!

How's you today hun?

Sazbomberxxxxx

Tiff_2

Hi sazzy hun!:hello:

Sazbo wrote:

Tiffy. There is obviously something I need to point out to you. You have the biggest heart and the kindest spirit of anyone I know. We all have a tendency to define ourselves (and for others to define us) by our experiences, rather than by the fact that we are stronger people for having overcome them. Which is not to belittle what you've been through in your life, far from it - very few people, myself included, would have emerged the other side of that, and not only that, but to do so and still dedicate yourself to helping others and be so selfless. Those qualities are as humbling and rare as they are beautiful. Someone special will see those qualities, just the same as we have.
You've got this uncanny talent for knowing the nicest things to say saz, bless you.:A You're right hun, I shouldn't be judged on my past - I think that's what scares me. All of the people on here are unbiased in their friendships and have endured - and are still doing so - great hardships and yet they still care.:T :A

So I for one will not be writing you off quite so hastily! Got that Tiffy? I don't think the world will be breathing a sigh of relief any time soon - you ain't finished yet my girl! :eek: :rotfl:
Got it sazzy!;) I knew you wouldn't give me time off - not even for good behaviour!:D

But more important than all of that stuff - 42 is not old! (well ok I would say that:D). I think I'd better warn the good folk of Harrogate;) :rotfl: Tiffy on the prowl! They don't know what they're letting themselves in for do they hun?
There was no need to go this far!:D




But a two-week break sounds like just the ticket... hmm, in fact, any room in your suicase for a house-trained sazzy?! :think: :dance: :beer: We could go on the pull together hun!
Aah, I can see it now...shopping...



...a spot of lunch...



...with a fine wine for you...



... then we could go dress up and go out in the evening to indulge in a spot of high culture - or on the 'pull' as you southerners say...





I won't tell them which one you are!:D
You're worried? See what beer has done to me? :eek:
Incidentally, the only leather I like comes in the form of a handbag!:rotfl:

I reckon it'll do you the Er, ok, praps not! Seriously though power of good. You just want to get to carol's brother first!:D

In the meantime, don't forget we all care about you very much. Take
all the time you need, focus on you for a change. We're here for you anytime.
We love our Tiff! :j
Sazzyxxxxxx

Seriously everyone, I don't think I've ever met such a great group of people and ever had such warmth and loving advice. Thank you for being there for me.:o
Tiff loves you all too.
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

EthelBloggs

beer2006 wrote:

OK I'm 36, so I'm not exactly a spring chookie.

Sorry I tend to talk in a language of my own :rolleyes:
You know fringe kink, like :rolleyes: oohhhh foot fetish's or something, or reading newspapers in a bath of custard.

errrrrrrrrrrr.. same age as me........ VERY much a spring chookie!!! at least thats what I keep telling meself!!!!

although you're on your own with the custard......... :eek:

Tiff_2

Originally Posted by beer2006
You know fringe kink, like :rolleyes: oohhhh foot fetish's or something, or reading newspapers in a bath of custard.

Sazbo wrote:

:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: ok now I'm worried!

I didn't know whether to be worried or excited!!!:eek: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

EthelBloggs

Sazbo wrote:

Oi! Nice try ethel hun! How's about the three of us go?! Party in Harrogate, yay! :dance: Poor tiffy, she'll be going back home for a rest!

How's you today hun?

Sazbomberxxxxx

I'm good.. b/f has gone to his parents for a few days....... he left like 10 mins ago.. cos he's got nearly 2 weeks off work :eek: but he has been really good these past few days.. we had a big talk the othe night and I was honest with him about my feelings and my depression and stuff.. not something I usually talk about, and it seems he took it on board - he's struggling to understand but he is trying which is the main thing innit?

That's an idea tho sazbomber.. I'm sure we could find a way to visit tiffy at some point..... I'd love to see her and give her a big hug and hear some of that tiffy wisdom first hand

*goes to hunt out overnight bag*

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EthelBloggs

Tiff wrote:

Originally Posted by beer2006
You know fringe kink, like :rolleyes: oohhhh foot fetish's or something, or reading newspapers in a bath of custard.




I didn't know whether to be worried or excited!!!:eek: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

Rice pudding generally works better

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Sazbo

Tiff wrote:

I didn't know whether to be worried or excited!!!:eek: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

EthelBloggs wrote:

Rice pudding generally works better

Ok now I'm REALLY worried!!!! :rotfl: _pale_

*Saz backs out of the room...*

Tiff_2

Sazbo wrote:

Well done our Tiffy!

1,000 posts!!

:beer: :j :T :beer: :j :T :beer: :j :T

Oh wow!!!:j
Does that show I want to help or that I've got no life?! :rotfl:
Thank you saz !:T
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

Sazbo

EthelBloggs wrote:

That's an idea tho sazbomber.. I'm sure we could find a way to visit tiffy at some point..... I'd love to see her and give her a big hug and hear some of that tiffy wisdom first hand

*goes to hunt out overnight bag*

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Sounds like an excellent plan ethel! I'm in!

S'bomberxxxx

EthelBloggs

Tiff wrote:

Hi sazzy hun!:hello:


Seriously everyone, I don't think I've ever met such a great group of people and ever had such warmth and loving advice. Thank you for being there for me.:o
Tiff loves you all too.
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

You know what tiffy.. I don't think I've ever encountered such a warm, giving person as you.. and the courage that you use every single day.. you put me to shame! I know that if I'd had some of the experiences you had, I wouldn't be here to tell the tale.. I'd be sitting in a padded room somewhere in a strait jacket and I'm not kidding!

When I feel low.. I say to meself.. what would tiffy say/do in this situation and it makes me pull meself together and get on with things.

Be very proud of who you are and what you've achieved, and tell those bloody relatives to go forth and multiply! jeez ppl like that make me sick! send em to me.. I show them what;s what!! You're still a young woman and you've got years and years ahead of you.. don't allow yourself to be written off just yet.. that made me sooo :mad: reading that. None of us know what's around the corner... I had thought I was gonna be single for the rest of the duration and along came b/f... he saw thru my issues and saw me and while things aint perfect.. we're trying to work on it.

You're a marvel Tiffy.. and as well as having a helluva lot of love for you.. I've got an awful lot of respect too. You are truly one of the greats xxxx