Depression

Tiff_2

Hah! You thought I'd gone huh?!


Just wanted to say please bear with me if I'm a bit slow replying for a few days. It's not that I don't care - just taking me a bit longer to do things right now.;)
Also, jeppy!

Huglets to all!
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

beer2006

Tiff, I honestly don't know what to say, you are always here for other people, you write so well, that is actually a lovely post, the long one....
I just want to give you this :kisses3: and these :grouphug:

Life is a funny thing, always changes when you least expect it, you hang in there, you sound a wonderful person to me and I would expect you to meet a wonderful person as well.
Try taking up a fringe kink, that always gets them in

learning_to_drive

God bless you Tiff, you were in my thoughts yesterday as I went to sleep at 7:30:eek: (21 years of age, Saturday night, and in bed for 7:30!!) and woke up again at 8:30 :rotfl:

I'm glad you have posted, most of that stuff people wont ever have the misfortune to be involved in a lifetime, (hostage thing etc) but you have come through it and had a rough old time. But you are back for us now, and we are all here,

I think you have been amazed at the level of support / feeling for you, but its true, we all feel the same way for you, Sazzy, Ethel etc, because you all take time to reply to us, certainly on my other thread when I first encountered problems you posted a massive reply and it really helped me to focus and certainly on here (along with others!!) you have posted and we have all kept each other going.

It's near Harrogate. Anyone been there? Things to do?

Where specifically near Harrogate is it? Harrogate is a really lovely town, spa town, very select and posh!!! Plenty to do around there,

learning_to_drive

And with regard to the finding someone, well, we cant ever say when we will meet someone, I mean one of my biggest worries when I was down was if i split with my g/f (which i did) i would never find anyone else because i never had any money to go out etc. All silly worries but they mount up in our depressed mind before we convince ourself that that is the truth.

Ive met a really great girl, but there are others too, so its a case of finding a balance, im just enjoying life at the minute (some days!!!!) I just want to get a normal day job somewhere so I can have normality back!

jeppy

Thank you everyone, feeling so much better!!!

Its a lovelly day and I am going to buy some fitness equipment!!!

jeppy

I am going to tell everyone your jokes and cheer them up to.

elona

Tiff

Yorkshire is lovely and Harrogate is a lovely civilised place.
We are about ten miles from York and about the same distance from harrogate and Leeds.

You do so much to encourage and help others - you have a lovely way with words a warm heart and a generous spirit.

You deserve better and I really hope that you get it eventually.

Consider yourself given a massive hug and we are all thinking of you pet.

Tiff_2

Hi l-t-d! :hello:
Thanks for your humbling reply angel.
Actually, I've just edited the long, long version to just a long version:D because I knew Saz et al,;) would be getting up around now and didn't want to put them off breakfast. When I read it all back, it sounded like I was just whining and that ain't who I am.:rolleyes:

learning_to_drive wrote:

God bless you Tiff, you were in my thoughts yesterday as I went to sleep at 7:30:eek: Hun, they're called nightmares not thoughts!
(21 years of age, Saturday night, and in bed for 7:30!!) and woke up again at 8:30 :rotfl:
I'm glad you have posted, most of that stuff people wont ever have the misfortune to be involved in a lifetime, (hostage thing etc) but you have come through it and had a rough old time. But you are back for us now, and we are all here,

I think you have been amazed at the level of support / feeling for you, but its true, we all feel the same way for you, Sazzy, Ethel etc,
- they are all so wonderful!
because you all take time to reply to us, certainly on my other thread when I first encountered problems you posted a massive reply and it really helped me to focus - No angel, it's called hypnosis, if you make a post long enough, people fall asleep and then when they eventually wake up, they've forgotten what their problem was!:D -

and certainly on here (along with others!!) you have posted and we have all kept each other going.
I have been amazed and it's a lovely thing to hear and I appreciate it guys.

Where specifically near Harrogate is it? Harrogate is a really lovely town, spa town, very select and posh!!! If I faint again, I'll do it all ladylike - will brush up my posh phone voice too!;)
Plenty to do around there,
It is actually Harrogate - well, a 10 minute walk away apparently. Huge manor house set in it's own gardens I've been told. Horses?:rolleyes: Nearest beach? :rolleyes: BINGO?!:rotfl: Would love to know what's on there.
I've googled but it's all ad-related and I didn't have the patience tbh.

Anyway as you see guys, there's some bounce back in the Tiffster.:D
Sorry for subjecting you to all that but thank you so very much for all your help. :T :A
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

Tiff_2

Hey beer!:hello:

beer2006 wrote:

Tiff, I honestly don't know what to say, you are always here for other people, you write so well, that is actually a lovely post, the long one....
I just want to give you this :kisses3: and these :grouphug:
Bless you for the kind words. Duly received and greatly appreciated hun.:T Thank you beer.

Life is a funny thing, always changes when you least expect it,too true beer! you hang in there, you sound a wonderful person to me and I would expect you to meet a wonderful person as well.
Should we warn them first?:D

Try taking up a fringe kink, that always gets them in
Ok remember I'm 42 beer, and now break it to me gently hun - what exactly is a ' fringe kink'? Is it legal? I bet everyone else knows and is laughing at me now!:rolleyes:
Bless you for giving your time and kind words hun - much appreciated as I say, especially from people with such real problems themselves.:T
Take care angel.
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

beer2006

Tiff wrote:

Ok remember I'm 42 beer, and now break it to me gently hun - what exactly is a ' fringe kink'? Is it legal? I bet everyone else knows and is laughing at me now!:rolleyes:

OK I'm 36, so I'm not exactly a spring chookie.

Sorry I tend to talk in a language of my own :rolleyes:
You know fringe kink, like :rolleyes: oohhhh foot fetish's or something, or reading newspapers in a bath of custard.