Depression

Twinny99

Tiff wrote:

Hi twinny hun!:hello:
How are you angel?
Sweetheart, I just want to say to you first that IN NO WAY has ANY of this got ANYTHING to do with YOUR post angel - it was a great post!:T
Thank you for saying that you weren't being told off. I read back through my post just now because I was worried that I had offended you somehow. I'm not like that honestly. I know all about the Seroxat debate and I meant my post to be reassuring and a little humourous to you hun, because it is a scary topic and you were so worried.
You are so very welcome here hun. That's really important to remember. Thank you for having the decency and courage to return your thoughts angel - I'm so glad you weren't offended by me. I hope you'll stay here and that you'll feel you can post anything, any time - I know your input will be a valuable contribution!
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

How lovely Tiff thank you

I wish Feelie would reconsider - she is a huge part of all of the threads that I visit regularly and I have never seen her post anything nasty. She seems like such a nice person.

Anyway, if you happen to read this Feelie please come back - you will be so sadly missed otherwise....

Tiff_2

Hello everyone!:hello:
Well I must say cc, that was the best fight I've never been in!!! :rolleyes:
If I'm the Mommy on the thread, who's the Daddy?:D

Thank you very much to the people who kindly spoke up for me and I am sorry for the nasty remarks that you received for doing so.
What follows is not meant for anyone else guys, so I'm sorry if I upset anyone, but I feel 'the accused' has a right of reply. I'm not asking anyone to take sides -that's wrong and I'm way too old to be in the playground - and more than anything, I'm sorry that somehow I seem to have inadvertently caused the thread some anxiety. The last thing I'd want to do is hurt anyone's feelings and I think it's a shame that this situation might deter someone from staying or joining - I'd rather go than to have that happen.

Inspite of my jovial start, when I saw your posts this morning cc, I was shocked and hurt by the nastiness that you seem to harbour for me.
What is it that you don't like about me cc? Why do you seem to resent me so much?

You did this same thing to me not so long ago on the old thread, when I was defending someone that you had been unnecessarily very nasty to. I put it all to one side then even though I was very upset, but it seems that you refuse to show any sensitivity for my feelings and I will not stay quietly in the background while you disrespect me in this way. You see hun, I'm not afraid of you or your growl and I can growl as much as you want me too. What I won't do is make !!!!!y or snide comments if I can help it.

As you say, everyone has the right to an opinion, but they do not have the right to belittle and insult someone with it. I would hope that if I have ever accidentally upset someone on this thread, that they would please raise the point nicely. I would never make anyone feel how you've made me feel this morning - it lacks dignity and common courtesy and what you did was nothing short of bullying.

I did not deserve this attack from you. It was nothing short of spiteful. I am no better than anyone else and I have not appointed myself as anything! I have not been the only poster recently to talk about the ground rules to somone new. Ironically, it appears that you have appointed yourself judge and jury just for me! :rolleyes:

I actually do feel sorry for you cc. You complain how awful everyone in your life is, how everyone treats you badly and how nothing is ever right and you do it all in the harshest of manners. If I could help you feel better in any way, I would. You mention your issues with bullying. Believe me, I've had more than you can possibly imagine in the way of bullying and that helps me to recognize it when I see it hun. But cc, it is not an excuse to do it to others. I'm sorry you have so much anger and bitterness inside you and I don't know what you've been through in your life angel, but you shouldn't, imho, treat anyone the way you have treated me, and some of the others, with no thought to their feelings.

I've also picked up on your references to 'people clumsily making their points' - as you accused me of last time - so I will be more than happy to dumb it down for you if you are having any problems with it. Ok - maybe I'm allowed the one snide comment in my defence.:o
I would therefore ask you please, respectfully cc, to get the 'fluff' off of my tail!
Wishing you a better day.
Here's hoping we can now get back to what this thread is really here for.
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

learning_to_drive

Guys if I could play peacemaker for a moment, and request that we dont post anymore to each other via the thread.

If CC and Tiff have a grievance, I'm sure people will be on either sides of the fence with it, if we could do it via PM's?

CC has had her say, and Tiff has responded, I feel that any further correspondence between the two should be done via PM and not in the public arena

Cheers y'all!

EthelBloggs

*pokes head up from behind the sofa* is it safe to come out yet?

Mornin peeps..

Hugs for everyone and extra special ones for Tiffy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

elona

Is it safe to say "Hello?"

Feeling good

I did not see you say or do anything nasty and you seem to be very hard on yourself. You do not deserve it.

Just about to go out to stock up the cupboards so see you all later.

Hugs to all

CarolnMalky

I have been away, so I dont know(or want to know) what has gone on to be honest.
The problem with our illness is that we are paranoid, and the slightest thing can trigger our defence mechanisms.

I love this thread, and one day I will post all my problems, at the moment I am happy coming in and saying hello and offering my shoulder for folk to cry/lean on.

Carol xxx

learning_to_drive

Heads up girls and boys, lets continue to make this thread the wonderful thing it is and provide support and understanding for those that need it. We are all here for each other.

gillette147

This place is a room to yell in, a place to receive sympathy and a place for a hug. If this thread wasn't here I would, by now, just come in MSE for the odd bargain and that is all.

I share my life on her so that I am not a stranger to you all (rather than for any help it actually gives me). A hug from someone you feel you know is worth more than some faceless person (or someone with no problems of their own). This thread is the most important thing on MSE to me. It was here when I needed it and if I can help anyone on here I would/will.

We all basically are here to offer and receive the same things. Can we please move on and get back to the business in hand - taking it in turns rowing the lifeboat.


PERSONAL PLEA TO FEELIE:
I have met you several times (so I do know) and I think you are intelligent, funny, kind and very, very special. You do not have to leave as far as I am concerned. But real life is more important than this thread - so take care and do whatever brings you the most happiness xxx

CarolnMalky

Tiff_2

Hi ethel hun!:hello:

EthelBloggs wrote:

*pokes head up from behind the sofa* is it safe to come out yet?

What are you asking me for? I'm hiding behind you!!! :rotfl: :rolleyes:



Mornin peeps..

Hugs for everyone and extra special ones for Tiffy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Any chance of a bowl of milk too, maybe some catnip?
Hoping you're hanging in there angel. Glad you had a good weekend sweetie.
Much Love,
Tiff xxx