Going to live my dream life

Kimsmum

Thank you for the welcome.
Still feel very tired my aunt says the same as the OH I do too much.
So I am going to write a plan up for the week of what I do around the house each day and then try and break it up abit.

Hovel_lady

A plan is a very good idea.
I do the same so I don't overdo it one day. My illness is a bit unpredictable so sometimes I have to change it but generally it works really well.
xx

Kimsmum

Well I sleep from 8.30pm last night to 7.30am this morning so I feel alot better.I also think I have been getting alittle stressed about this debt
as it has been on mind alot over the last few days,

My spending diary is working very well also makes me think before I buy anything.
Today I need to go into town to go to the libary for OH he books on line what he wants and pick them up on friday, then he has books for over the weekend. Also need to do some food shopping so I have a list ready
Will be back later.

Hovel_lady

Glad you're feeling better. I always feel worse if I don't sleep well and it makes even little problems seem huge when they're not.
I'm also off to the library today.
Glad the spending diary is working for you.
Have a lovely day xx

Kimsmum

Had a lovely day out first to the library, then shopping.
Then sat in a cafe with a coffee for awhile,doing my spending diary it was lovely.Friend of OH came over and sat with him while I was out so I didnt have to rush back.
Tomorrow will list more items on ebay.

Hovel_lady

Really pleased you had a nice day xx

Kimsmum

Its clear sky and sunny here this morning.
Going to put lots on ebay this weekend as its free.
So far have been able to put £30 off my vanquis CC from ebay not alot but it all helps.
Need to focus on being more postive and doing more postive things in my life.:D
Will be back later

Kimsmum

OH is feeling very tired today so has stayed in bed and sleep most of it.

Sometimes I do get fed up and tired with how my life is.So when a friend called in for a coffee she amazed me when she says she thinks I am doing a wonderful job with my OH.She said she could not do it.
So I have been sitting here thinking about it, so what we are in debt and owe money. We are paying it back and it wont be forever just four years.
I am now going to focus on the only good things in my life, my OH is disabled but at least I have him here with me some people dont get that chance. I am going to make a couple of night during the week special.
One night will be a date night and I will cook a special meal with candles on the table.
Another night will be movie night HM Pizza and popcorn.
Also going to do more things at night that involve him,
like jigsaw puzzles and some board games.
Also going to limit the amount of time on here.:D
My life might not be perfect but its the only one I have so I am going to start and enjoy it.

needingaccountability

You said this morning you were going to change the way think :T

Kimsmum

Beautiful morning here nice sunny.
Well we had our movie night last night
Hm Pizza, Popcorn and a dvd.
Friend has lent me a few dvds so we have enough for about 8 weeks.
Going to start listing on ebay after lunch.
Washing is on the line so it should be dry soon.
Also trying to think of a few things OH can do to keep him busy.
I asked him does he get bored some days and he said yes.
So I am going to think up a plan for each day to include him in most things.
Will be back later with that.