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Weekly Flylady Thread 8th August 2011

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  • vanilla
    vanilla Posts: 3,277 Forumite
    Well KH has signed himself out of hospital and is in some druggie den somewhere. I swear i didn't think he could break my heart any more but he has. He's parents offered him a bed at there's (which was really hard for them) and he said it wasn't the right time. So he gone for good. We all think we'll get a phone call in a few days to say he's dead. He brother is ready for coming down and knocking him out. I'm just completely gutted, i thought he might put some effort in. :(:(:(:(

    So i've hade a few drinks and a long soak in the bath. My plan is to not answer any phone call or messages from now on. Oh boy if i had more drink, i wish i had flipping more drink..
    Sometimes it seems that the going is just too rough.
    And things go wrong no matter what I do.
    Now and then it seems that life is just too much.
    But you've got the love I need to see me through.
    :j :j
  • Triker
    Triker Posts: 7,247 Forumite
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    Vanilla love...just hang on in there. xxxxxxx
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  • Mumto5
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    Vanilla - so sorry sending you a virtual vat of your favourite alcoholic tipple. Hope you can get some sleep tonight xxx
  • wendywitch
    wendywitch Posts: 1,304 Forumite
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    Biggest hugs ever to you Vanilla :grouphug:
  • lil_me
    lil_me Posts: 13,186 Forumite
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    edited 14 August 2011 at 12:22AM
    Vanilla big hugs xxx My first thought, let his brother if you think it might help. Put you and those little ones first and take care of yourself. He's made his choices and now must live with them xx trust me the hang over probably wouldn't be worth it.

    Triker I hope that the CCTV proves useful in catching those thugs
    One day I might be more organised...........:confused:
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  • JennyJewell
    JennyJewell Posts: 1,574 Forumite
    Hi all :)
    First of all - sending massive virtual hugs to vanilla ((((((HUGS))))))) Be strong love xxxxx

    I will be back in on Monday - have been keeping things relatively good on the cleaning side but have some major frogs to clear as well as keeping on top of what I have achieved :)
    Will put a quick post on here tomorrow if I get chance :)

    Love and hugs xx
    Jen x
    Everything happens for a reason :)
  • msgnomey
    msgnomey Posts: 1,613 Forumite
    Oh dear Vanilla Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx sending you hugs and prayers

    Well I can't sleep. The sodding cat was bleating under the bedroom window, sooooooooooooooo loud I had to go and get her in, she then ran off down the drive and I had to nab her whilst wearing nothing but a t shirt and undies, It's cold out there so now I am wide awake. :( have made a hot chocolate and will surf for a while and then hopefully get some sleep. The cat ate all her nosh and went straight back out ......
    Go hopefully into each new day, enjoy something from every day no matter how small, you never know when it will be your last
  • JennyJewell
    JennyJewell Posts: 1,574 Forumite
    Ok I'm putting a quick post on here now - just spent about 40 mins on here reading over posts to catch up and really do need to put a couple of things on here x


    Jojo - whoo-hoo big congrats on your fantastic win :j Enjoy spending, reindeer sounds fab :)

    Belated birthday wishes to Neveah :bdaycake: Hope you had a lovely one :)

    Welcome CherryBerry :) - this is a very helpful thread with really lovely, supportive peeps :)

    Triker - (((((HUGS))))) to you, your DD1 and her boyfriend hunny xx What horrible, barbaric thugs those men are - I hope the police find them and they are put away for a long time.

    Will post tomorrow,meanwhile sweet dreams all, especially you msgnomey - hope you can get some sleep soon now the cat is sorted :)

    Nos da all, hugs to you all xx
    Jen x
    Everything happens for a reason :)
  • mummyroysof3
    mummyroysof3 Posts: 4,566 Forumite
    woo hoo...i have a very posh living room and will not be bringing all the plastic tat belonging to the kids back in...only stuff that fits in sideboard or can be hidden in corner. Next job is convinsing hubby i need new tiles in kitchen and an american fridge freezer...wish me luck

    hugs to those that need them xx
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  • kazwookie
    kazwookie Posts: 14,273 Forumite
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    Vanilla~~ words just about fail me, so have this instead 4.gif and hugs to the kids as well, your KH has thrown everything back in the faces of those that did care for him, his choice, maybe the brother can talk some sense into him, it seems no one else can.

    I've fed the cat
    Washed up bits
    Opened the curtains & some windows
    Grabbed lappy and chager and gone back to bed
    1st time for ages I've not got up at 4 am and gone car booting! so going to do not a lot today except gardening.
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