He's just not that into you - real life examples

VfM4meplse

You seem to be getting on really with a new b/f and suddenly they stop calling, responding to txts etc for reasons unknown.

Or is it just me?

Are there any more tales of woe out there, and did you ever work out why it was it ended for no reason?

GlasweJen

I was seeing a guy, only met him about 10 days ago but it's not going anywhere ever. Simply because he's too clingy, constantly texts me and if I don't reply within 10 mins he texts again to make sure I'm ok.

Clingyness is definitely off putting.

ska_lover

Oh gosh, dontcha just hate it when a new boyfriend goes cold on you, and you aren't given the reason? It sure does screw your mind up

Empty_pockets

Thats because they're not a boyfriend...it was just a bit of fun.

I've been with wor lass about 2 or 3 years and still don't consider her to be a 'girlfriend', always just refer to her as wor lass and let her hang round the place.

mandi

Speaking from experience VfM4meplse Don't send any more text .

I may be wrong but " treat them mean to keep them keen " is my motto

Running_Horse

I had forgotten how depressing the whole singles and dating scene can be.

Get over it. Move on. Plenty more fish, etc.

marywooyeah

what dos "wor lass" mean?!

January20

marywooyeah wrote: »

what dos "wor lass" mean?!

"my woman" in this case, I think it's what he means - although I've also heard it used mostly to refer to a wife, so to me Empty Pockets sounds as detached as he would like us to believe he is

make_me_wise

I thought he just couldn't spell and had left out an h and an e

abacus73

VfM4meplse wrote: »

You seem to be getting on really with a new b/f and suddenly they stop calling, responding to txts etc for reasons unknown.

Or is it just me?

Are there any more tales of woe out there, and did you ever work out why it was it ended for no reason?

Hate to say it but maybe their other g/f, fiance or wife found out!

Or they just decided for whatever reason that it wasn't quite the relationship for them. To be honest ive been in relationships that just didn't do it for me and just cut contact. Maybe not the best way to deal with things but what good would telling someone why you dont want to go out with them anymore really do. To messy.

Chalk him down to experience and move on is my advice.

skypie123_2

Empty_pockets wrote: »

Thats because they're not a boyfriend...it was just a bit of fun.

I've been with wor lass about 2 or 3 years and still don't consider her to be a 'girlfriend', always just refer to her as wor lass and let her hang round the place.

WTVF? And she is cool with that is she?
What is the point of spending 2 to 3 years with someone in that way?
What a waste of time, and you sound like you've got a really healthy attitude to relationships! What a lucky girl eh!