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Wwyd- re ebay and wedding item

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  • marywooyeah
    marywooyeah Posts: 2,672 Forumite
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    I'd take that as proof in itself that they're not damaged then
  • mildred1978
    mildred1978 Posts: 3,367 Forumite
    I'd take that as proof in itself that they're not damaged then

    Really? Perhaps they are away/busy/otherwise engaged!

    OP, you cannot impose your own terms re payment/return etc if selling though eBay. I'd have been narked to receive more than 1 invoice in less than 2 days from auction end. You are required to send the item within 7 days of the buyer buying, and they have 7 days in which to pay. You should bare that in mind when selling things close to holidays/weddings and so on.
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  • Hollie84
    Hollie84 Posts: 2,428 Forumite
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    edited 26 July 2011 at 12:38PM
    Sammy stated payment needed within a few days,u can state when auctioning stuff payment within 24hrs or payment immediately and so on unless you state 7 days which sammy didnt.when i auction stuff i state 2-3 days, after that they get another invoice and again another invoice if nothing after 2 days of sending the 2nd.its very frustrating especially if your not close to a PO or dont go out alot to have to post a parcel a week after bidding has finished and payment made
  • USM
    USM Posts: 317 Forumite
    still havent heard anything back- maybe they just thought i would refund them no questions asked!

    Wow you sound like a complete pain in the !!! eBay seller! If the item is broken, the buyer is entitled to a full refund - end of.

    It's your job to get them to the buyer in perfect condition so if they have been damaged in transit that's your issue and you need to refund the buyer than pursue a claim against the courier or postal service yourself.
  • aworbey
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    No need to get personal, she came asking for opinions, not to be flamed!

    I agree the buyer is entitled to a full refund if the item is damaged and not as described, but at the same time she needs to confirm that they are genuinely broken and not just a buyer changing their mind now they've seen them in the flesh.
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  • sammy_wheeler
    sammy_wheeler Posts: 2,351 Forumite
    aworbey wrote: »
    No need to get personal, she came asking for opinions, not to be flamed!

    I agree the buyer is entitled to a full refund if the item is damaged and not as described, but at the same time she needs to confirm that they are genuinely broken and not just a buyer changing their mind now they've seen them in the flesh.
    exactly!!!!!
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  • LEJC
    LEJC Posts: 9,618 Forumite
    You could always offer the buyer a full refund less thr postage it costs to send the item back to you....you may find that they suddenly find an excuse not to return the item and its not really that bad...

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  • shellsuit
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    Hollie84 wrote: »
    Sammy stated payment needed within a few days,u can state when auctioning stuff payment within 24hrs or payment immediately and so on unless you state 7 days which sammy didnt.when i auction stuff i state 2-3 days, after that they get another invoice and again another invoice if nothing after 2 days of sending the 2nd.its very frustrating especially if your not close to a PO or dont go out alot to have to post a parcel a week after bidding has finished and payment made

    You can state what you like, but it doesn't mean buyers have to abide by your rules, just eBay's rules.
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  • shellsuit
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    aarchk wrote: »
    Get them sent back so you can see for yourself. I wouldnt refund without doing this.

    Also a word about paypal, unless the buyer gives feedback on ebay you wont be able to upload the money to your own account.

    That's only in certain cases ~ people new to selling I think.
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  • marywooyeah
    marywooyeah Posts: 2,672 Forumite
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    Really? Perhaps they are away/busy/otherwise engaged!

    OP, you cannot impose your own terms re payment/return etc if selling though eBay. I'd have been narked to receive more than 1 invoice in less than 2 days from auction end. You are required to send the item within 7 days of the buyer buying, and they have 7 days in which to pay. You should bare that in mind when selling things close to holidays/weddings and so on.

    They could be, but the cynic in me shouts scam! I've been burned on ebay far too many times!
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