Nice people thread part 4 - sugar and spice and all things

michaels

Once my score dropped below 9 I took mine off, it was too demoralising.

lostinrates

I have a question about looks/vanity. I have one picture of me in the last ..almost decade...since I got ill that I tolerate. Its quite ok really. DH thinks that because we both like it we should put it in a frame upstairs....actually he wants in blown up onto canvas. I don't like it enough to make it bigger, or print out on canvas, but it is a morale booster these days. Is it weird to put pictures of your self out? (I'm not dressed in the picture, but neither is it rude....I'm laying on my tummy)

vivatifosi

lemonjelly wrote: »

As a single male, my confidence is far too fragile to deal with the potential consequences & barbed comments which may appear as a result of my putting my picture on such a website & inviting such comments Viva.:o

Just wondered.

A gentle reminder: you were the one that recommended it;) (the book that is).

lostinrates

tbh, IMO LJ could look frightful and he'd still be attractive because he's lovely. out,

nb: I have found some weird people attractive. List includes Ian Hislop and since the televised thingy with the flour bomb, Murdoch. Not sure what that's about...money and power probably.

vivatifosi

lostinrates wrote: »

What is your best feature LJ?....mine is my ears. Maybe you should show the nice women and we can boost your confidence...or...failing that, suggest things that might help

Sorry to barge in. When I was much younger, much thinner etc I had my make up done by a very camp man who did make up for models. He said "you have good eyes, world-class lips, but you'll never make a model as you have no bone structure whatsoever, plus your ears are horrible." I don't know how people can do modelling, you would need to have rhino-thick hide. So if you ever meet me, I'll be the one walking around pouting and hiding my ears under my hair:o.

vivatifosi

lostinrates wrote: »

I have a question about looks/vanity. I have one picture of me in the last ..almost decade...since I got ill that I tolerate. Its quite ok really. DH thinks that because we both like it we should put it in a frame upstairs....actually he wants in blown up onto canvas. I don't like it enough to make it bigger, or print out on canvas, but it is a morale booster these days. Is it weird to put pictures of your self out? (I'm not dressed in the picture, but neither is it rude....I'm laying on my tummy)

I bet you're gorgeous really lir. In my mind you're drop dead gorgeous with "Flake advert" hair.

Sorry, on reflection, that may sound a bit creepy. For which I apologise. Maybe I should get back to not being here:o.

lostinrates

vivatifosi wrote: »

I bet you're gorgeous really lir. In my mind you're drop dead gorgeous with "Flake advert" hair.

Sorry, on reflection, that may sound a bit creepy. For which I apologise. Maybe I should get back to not being here:o.

I'm ok....but well wrapped under a disguising layer of insulation ;)

I'm not drop dead gorgeous..I was very pretty and used to have a good figure, which is all one can ask for. fwiw, my features are ''ok'' all in the right place, but nothing special...but they go together ok. I'm not a fan of my nose, its a bit pug. :o It looks worse with weight though, for some reason. My body, under the padding, was ok too...the figure a man wants a woman to have, not that a woman wants....but I was happy with it. It worked, amazing how you take that for granted!
My hair is good when its in good condition (its in a scrappy pig tail atm).

Now I settle for looking friendly

edit: don't think it sounds creepy at all. After all, I've told you in my head you look just like snow white.....fits...gorgeous eyes and mouth,

lostinrates

LJ, even if it were the best gravy place you know, I don't think we can do it. DH and I have had water, cranberry juice...he's has a cider and now we're trying tea...we can't quench the thirst.

Doozergirl

lostinrates wrote: »

tbh, IMO LJ could look frightful and he'd still be attractive because he's lovely. out,

nb: I have found some weird people attractive. List includes Ian Hislop and since the televised thingy with the flour bomb, Murdoch. Not sure what that's about...money and power probably.

Is now a guilty pleasure moment? Where we all post pictures of people we fancy but shouldn't? :j

lostinrates

Doozergirl wrote: »

Is now a guilty pleasure moment? Where we all post pictures of people we fancy but shouldn't? :j

go'on then,....I shared mine.