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  • benbenandme
    benbenandme Posts: 12,372 Forumite
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    :j:D:j:D Guess who has a second date ??? :j :D :j:D
    Mortgage Total: £50,720/ £75,000
    Mortgage Overpayments Pot £1587
  • pinkladyof66
    pinkladyof66 Posts: 1,829 Forumite
    benbenandme wrote: »
    :j:D:j:D Guess who has a second date ??? :j :D :j:D

    No really tell me more quick I NEED to know !!!

    Hurry up I am so excited tell he how it all came about in detail please

    :beer::j:j:j:j:j:j:j:T:T:T:T:T:T:T:T:T



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  • Double_Trouble
    Double_Trouble Posts: 4,375 Forumite
    benbenandme wrote: »
    :j:D:j:D Guess who has a second date ??? :j :D :j:D

    You have to spill the beans .........................

    BTW :j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j

    DTxx
  • benbenandme
    benbenandme Posts: 12,372 Forumite
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    So .......

    I saw him briefly in the corridor this morning, almost bumped into him and he just smiled and muttered hi, looked very pre-occupied and not himself. Decided to myself that he was feeling awkward cos of the text I sent on thursday so wasn't feeling great ...

    Anyway, later on I was wondering along and saw him coming towards me in the corridor. He gave me a big smile and I said hi and asked if he knew when he needed me to do the witness statement thing he mentioned last week ... He stopped and said he wasn't sure I needed to do it still, he's spent 4 days working on this report and found out this morning he may not have needed to do it after all, hence explaining the moody look earlier. He said he should know by tonight and will let me know one way or the other. Just as I started to walk away he said "Oh, and I got your text ... I can't do this weekend as I'm on the school trip but I'm free next weekend if you are??" OH YES I'M FREE ;):D:D:D

    Absolutely made my day :j :j I actually think it hadn't crossed his mind at all to reply by text, he doesn't seem very au fait with texting so maybe he just prefers to talk face-to-face, but he doesn't seem to understand how confusing that can be in dating terms :o:o But however, he did seem very keen to go for another drink :T That weekend is the one we break up so we will all be out on the friday anyway for end of term night, so not sure whether that will be when I see him and/or whether it will be some time over the weekend, sooo bloody excited though, and after a weekend of eating crap I can now say the diet is very much back on :D:D
    Mortgage Total: £50,720/ £75,000
    Mortgage Overpayments Pot £1587
  • pinkladyof66
    pinkladyof66 Posts: 1,829 Forumite
    Oh ben i am so pleased for you you must be so excited see you were worrying over nothing and he is keen - I cant wait to read your updates every day it sort of keeps me going - and i was hoping that you were going to come up with some good news !!



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  • benbenandme
    benbenandme Posts: 12,372 Forumite
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    Aww thankyou PL, I couldn't wait to get home to update on here today too :D I did nip into the ladies loo and call Crouchy straight away, he was dead chuffed for me :)

    I think he may be interested then after all, just madly preoccupied with school stuff :)
    Mortgage Total: £50,720/ £75,000
    Mortgage Overpayments Pot £1587
  • alibob30
    alibob30 Posts: 174 Forumite
    Really pleased for you :j:j:j
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,612 Ambassador
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    Good things come to those wh o wait :j
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  • amber03
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    Happy 2nd date to you,,, :D:D:D hope all goes well.xx
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  • immoral_angeluk
    immoral_angeluk Posts: 24,506 Forumite
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    benbenandme wrote: »
    So .......

    I saw him briefly in the corridor this morning, almost bumped into him and he just smiled and muttered hi, looked very pre-occupied and not himself. Decided to myself that he was feeling awkward cos of the text I sent on thursday so wasn't feeling great ...

    Anyway, later on I was wondering along and saw him coming towards me in the corridor. He gave me a big smile and I said hi and asked if he knew when he needed me to do the witness statement thing he mentioned last week ... He stopped and said he wasn't sure I needed to do it still, he's spent 4 days working on this report and found out this morning he may not have needed to do it after all, hence explaining the moody look earlier. He said he should know by tonight and will let me know one way or the other. Just as I started to walk away he said "Oh, and I got your text ... I can't do this weekend as I'm on the school trip but I'm free next weekend if you are??" OH YES I'M FREE ;):D:D:D

    Absolutely made my day :j :j I actually think it hadn't crossed his mind at all to reply by text, he doesn't seem very au fait with texting so maybe he just prefers to talk face-to-face, but he doesn't seem to understand how confusing that can be in dating terms :o:o But however, he did seem very keen to go for another drink :T That weekend is the one we break up so we will all be out on the friday anyway for end of term night, so not sure whether that will be when I see him and/or whether it will be some time over the weekend, sooo bloody excited though, and after a weekend of eating crap I can now say the diet is very much back on :D:D
    You saucy minx.

    My question is... IS HE CUTE??
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    Que sera, sera. <3
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