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benbenandme

Well done on the weightloss Tigz :T I don't blame you at all if you don't want to see us again, its not fair on dd, he was horrible today He has been quiet but lovely ever since, and when I told him what the consequence was he was even quieter, and then about 20 minutes later said "I think I deserve worse than that, I think we shouldn't go swimming on friday either as I really wanted to do that", so now we're not going swimming either. I'm so so sorry

vasseur

benbenandme wrote: »

and then about 20 minutes later said "I think I deserve worse than that, I think we shouldn't go swimming on friday either as I really wanted to do that",

Ah bless....he may have meltdowns sometimes (and you know the reason for that) but he has the right values.

tigzem

Ah that shows he knows he was wrong and that he's growing up.

We're catching a bus to Brockenhurst today and a train back

benbenandme

Lol Tigz, this transport lark is obviously catching He is being lovely again this morning, has gone in the bath with no arguing at all :eek:, put his pj's in the washing pile without being asked :eek: :eek: ... benben begins to get suspicious as to his motives

benbenandme

A nsd here today, have been at my aunts all day sorting stuff for Dads book, the rough version is now done, tomorrow I need to stick in bits and organise the proper one. I also need to go and get several photos printed out.

Ds has been lovely all day today, especially as we've been busy and he's had to amuse himself in someone elses house, no whinging whatsoever, if only he could have been like that yesterday too :cool:

benbenandme

Tonight:

• [STRIKE] Pay ds drama fees[/STRIKE] DONE
• [STRIKE] Start planning layout of Dads book [STRIKE] DONE
• [STRIKE] List anything else I can find on ebay [/STRIKE] DONE
• Monday:
• [STRIKE]Ds Camhs appointment[/STRIKE] DONE
• [STRIKE]Buy friends leaving present[/STRIKE] DONE
• [STRIKE]Collect dress[/STRIKE] DONE
• [STRIKE] Pay for IOW trip [/STRIKE] DONE
• [STRIKE] Call mortgage company [/STRIKE] DONE
• [STRIKE] Speak to mediation company[/STRIKE] DONE
• [STRIKE] Deliver a parcel[/STRIKE] DONE
• [STRIKE] Buy brown paper / tape[/STRIKE] NOT NEEDED ANYMORE
• [STRIKE] Post ebay items [/STRIKE] DONE

Tuesday:

• [STRIKE]Bus day [/STRIKE]:cool: DONE

Wednesday:

• [STRIKE]See Tigz[/STRIKE] DONE
• [STRIKE]Weightwatchers[/STRIKE] DONE

Thursday:

• [STRIKE] Dads memory box day [/STRIKE] DONE

Friday:

Saturday:

• Friends 40th party

Sunday:

• Dads birthday lunch
• Banking update

Other bits not yet assigned a particular day:

• Ice skating
• Mend oven
• Clean car inside and out
• Ds Russia project
• [STRIKE] Visit friend and new baby[/STRIKE] AFTER HALFTERM
• Ds haircut
• Drinks with work colleague
• See Crouchy
• [STRIKE]Ironing mountain[/STRIKE] DONE
• [STRIKE] Food shopping[/STRIKE] DONE

Still plenty to get done, today is mainly an indoor day, I need to get dads book done in neat, ds needs to do some of his project, I need tog o to my aunts again to get some pics onto a memory stick then print them all out, baths all round, guinea pigs need cleaning, washing mountain has reappeared, the list goes on ...

pinkladyof66

I take it you havent heard anything from cutie for a while in respect of meeting up ?

pixiechick99

You've had a very productive half term so far:D And you have some lovely things to finish off the week - evening out and birthday lunch sound good to me:)
Is Sunday your dad's actual birthday and will he get the book then? I bet it looks amazing, you've put lots of work into it, hope you're proud of it:T

benbenandme

PL - haven't heard anything since last week, he did say this week wasn't good, so don't expect to hear anything for a while yet

Pixie - yes, sunday is his birthday, I will give it to him at the meal, I'm really pleased with it so far, still lots of work to go .... The saturday night may not be happening now, Mum was coming here to babysit but had forgotten and has now arranged to collect dad from his home on saturday afternoon so wont be able to come here, ds may go to hers for a couple of hours and I may go along and show my face, but its quite a way to go just for one (non-alcoholic) drink, we'll see

2 loads of washing done so far, beds made, clean washing folded ready for ironing, suppose I ought to get dressed soon

mummymandy

hello BenBen, what's up with your oven? Is it something you can fix yourself?:)