relationship help?

CH27

Steroid abuse was part of the Roaul Mort story.

dom300186

well i went out last night had a great time bowling with my friend and went off to nandos didnt get home till half 11 which is late for me, he was waiting up for me and wanted to know if i had a good time what i ate etc so its gaining his interest, but i have spoken to him and said if your attitude does not change to me & his son we wont be going any futher, i also told my friend if he continues to take them il be showing him the door as its not fair on us.

sashadesade

dom300186 wrote: »

well i went out last night had a great time bowling with my friend and went off to nandos didnt get home till half 11 which is late for me, he was waiting up for me and wanted to know if i had a good time what i ate etc so its gaining his interest, but i have spoken to him and said if your attitude does not change to me & his son we wont be going any futher, i also told my friend if he continues to take them il be showing him the door as its not fair on us.

Just make sure you're watching out for signs that it's normal conversation/curiosity and not controlling behaviour. You say the drugs have changed his personality, if he sees you doing things you don't normally do it's possible he could jump to the wrong conclusions.

dom300186

yup i know hes agreed to come off them when the course ends in 2 weeks, so thats hope in him wanting to try and save our relationship, ive sent off for a renewal passport and we have decided to go on a mini break just the two of us as we rarely have time alone together not since our son was born, so when my passport arrives we are going to be looking at a nice break somewhere, then we will go on a family winter sun holiday in november.

Errata

Why doesn't he want to stop right now and flush whatever is unused down the lav. ?

dom300186

because i believe it has to be done right im not an expert but im giving him the 1 week remaming now which i told him then thats it, but i want him to finish them proparly and we will see how he is, if he changes/ morphs back into himself then we will be happy again if not i know its his whole attitude and ego, but i know its the crap hes putting in his system.

DitaVonTee

I'm afraid whether he comes off them today or next week, he's more than likely going to need help getting off them it's not going to be as easy as either of you may think.

I'd call the helpline and have a chat with one of their advisors

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