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millionaire_in_training

She's not replying? I'm going to PM her and see if she gets that

LondonGirl252

JB

Ive been away and just caught up on your thread. I hope you're OK, let us know how you're getting on when you can xxx

princesst84

Im a lurker mostly but just catching up on our diary. Hope you are ok x

jellybean39

Ty everyone for your messages. been a bit of a mad 8 weeks. Had my ct scan and it was clear but have been collapsing all over the place.
have been left with a numb head and part of my arm, lucky underneath as being a hairdresser would be a nightmare. Also have really bad lateral vertigo so when i read or compter work been a nono as want to chuck up. They say they think it is neurological disorder bought on my stress or trauma ie pain from neck, just the bodies way of telling you enough is enough.
Anyway some good news we have sold our house at a good price bought a 3 bed detatched with 70ft garden and drive for four cars for 230 which down here is amazing!!!! so mortgage will be 50k less and debts aprat from mum will be partly sorted. We will be 1800 a month better off. going to sign contracts on wed so hopefully with 3 in the chain all systems go!!!!

asparagus1968

thanks for the update:)
great news on the house,hopefully when you are in and settled and a bit more sorted on the debt front the neurological symptoms will fade away.
isn't it amazing how your body will tell you when its had enough even if you are pushing yourself forward all the time?
good luck,love,health and happiness in your new home x

princesst84

jellybean39 wrote: »

Ty everyone for your messages. been a bit of a mad 8 weeks. Had my ct scan and it was clear but have been collapsing all over the place.
have been left with a numb head and part of my arm, lucky underneath as being a hairdresser would be a nightmare. Also have really bad lateral vertigo so when i read or compter work been a nono as want to chuck up. They say they think it is neurological disorder bought on my stress or trauma ie pain from neck, just the bodies way of telling you enough is enough.
Anyway some good news we have sold our house at a good price bought a 3 bed detatched with 70ft garden and drive for four cars for 230 which down here is amazing!!!! so mortgage will be 50k less and debts aprat from mum will be partly sorted. We will be 1800 a month better off. going to sign contracts on wed so hopefully with 3 in the chain all systems go!!!!

Lovely to hear from you JB Pleased the CT scan was clear, not so pleased you arent back to full health. The body is a funny thing isnt it, even when you try to push on through it really does make you stop.

:T:T Great news on the house selling and the new house purchase :T:T Hopefully when the move has happened a few of the symptoms will ease, especially with having more money freed up

Wishing you well x

Skint_but_Optimistic

Glad you are making some progress but please dont neglect your health and keep on at the doctors til they sort you out.

All the right things are happening with the house, thats fabulous. x

LondonGirl252

Jelly, so pleased you managed to come back on and update us.

Make sure you look after yourself and listen to your body hopefully that will be much easier once the house is sorted.... which is fabulous news, congratulations! I hope it's a new start for you full of good health and happiness

LG xx

jellybean39

hi everyone been along time.

Where do i start????
Well we moved house, thankgod we did or we would have been up th creek.
Hubby and i went through a really bad patch and nearly split up.
We ok now but was touch and go. Had some more tests done and turns out have reallly bad arthritis in neck which cause all my problems, been 9 months to get docs to listen to me, i ended up with left handed fibromyalgia, neurological disorder bought on by stress and migraines and none were right lol.
Last few months have been horrible. My mum got diagnosed with breast cancer just after we moved, she finished her radiotherapy on friday but looks so poorly i want to cry. Last weekend we lost my husbands dad which was really sudden, even though he had problems with breathing (enphasyemia) sorry cant spell it, he had been using to much oxygen and cause his skin to split as carbon dioxide build uo and circulation wasnt working, got cellulitis and then septicimia. Got taken in last sat at 2 and passed just before midnight.
In between all that i then found a lump got referred quick cause of mum but luckly mine was just a bunvc of beningn cysts.
So the last few months have been awful and have lsot the plot with finances have managed to pay and save for daughters wedding and thought we were foing to get on top of debts, now it looks as though there is no money for hubbys dad funeral as his sister hasnt got any money. So my hubby went and out 1k on his cc and now we have no back up for anything. Dont think he wants to ask his mum for the money which i understand, but if we had it that would be fine but we havent and dont know what to do.
Going to go and redo snowball so can get back to where i was before last year happened.
Hope you all ok and thank you so much for all your support when i hadnt been on keep the debts down peeps. xxxx

asparagus1968

god bless you!
you have been through the mill haven't you? so sorry to hear of your troubles.
wishing you strength to get to get through.
and you know your buddies on here will bw glad to rally round