Playing a game ? Or being serious ?

Apricot

She's playing a game with you. She either doesn't know what she wants or wants the best of both worlds.

Either way, I would move on. She seems like far more hassle than she's worth. If it's meant to be maybe you'll meet up again in a few years and she will have matured.

DVardysShadow

She is using you to practice her skills. She means a whole lot more to you than you do to her. Not worth the bother.

Tropez

She's a teenage girl. That's what some of them are like. She will play silly little games until you finally get p/o'd enough to ditch her completely.

If you think that this relationship has a chance of working out in the long term with someone who is so utterly immature then you're going to have a shock.

Elle7

Oops, I didn't mean to make anyone feel old. Sorry!

Micheal, you seemed to have worked it out for yourself anyway. It should be easier to walk away now you can see what she's doing...no one wants to be played. And youll be free to find someone who is worth your time, and gives you 100% too

sarahs999

the guy who 'supports' her? Yeah right. No guy 'supports' a girl whose knickers they aren't interested in getting in to...

sashadesade

Why does anyone want to keep a relationship secret? You've already listed the possible reasons yourself. If everyone knew you were together then her other guy might back off, and she obviously wants to keep both of you on reserve.
I could tell you yet again that this relationship isn't worth holding on to, but you seem determined to keep dancing to her tune whenever she feels like playing for you!

Jo.1981

Hello

i went through something similar at you're age, I had a on and off again relationship with a guy for about 4 years. I look back now and see we went way to fast in the first place. It's always easier to stay together then to admit there are problems. From reading your other posts I think this girl is very confused she doesn't know what she wants but I reckon she doesn't want anyone else to have you (at your age there is nothing worse then finding out the person that you dumped is getting over it faster than you!). Take a step back and ask yourself if your willing to put up with all this rubbish.

Ivrytwr3

She's getting it on with your mate/brother and doesn't want them to know she's still getting it from you too.

January20

Michael, as said in post #10 (which you ignored spectacularly!) you have been given advice before on this girl, and you've ignored it. You are asking basically the same question and you are expecting us to say it's all going to be ok and she really loves you and wants to spend the rest of her life with you. Well, we are not going to. We are looking at your situation with objective eyes and with the weight of all our knowledge. You could write 50 threads about her on here, the answer would still be the same: you are just a toy she is amusing herself with until somebody better comes along. It now looks like you are going to be her dirty secret too!

Sorry to be harsh but it is slightly irritating when a poster who doesn't get the answers they want posts another thread on the same topic a couple of days later. (which brings me to the point that cutting contact with somebody for a whole 24 hours is NOT giving them breathing space!)

DVardysShadow

January20 wrote: »

... It now looks like you are going to be her dirty secret too!

And when the secrets are broken, she gets to find out whether 2 blokes will have a punch up over her. Ooh the excitement she will have. If you will let her.