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Please help, seriously need some advice(updated)

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  • sharpee
    sharpee Posts: 671 Forumite
    I can't believe they did that to you!

    Lumley Castle is one of the leading wedding venues in the North-east!

    I did enquire about having our Wedding there but as soon as we mentioned we were only having 18 guests they weren't interested!

    I would write a letter, striaght to the point no waffling and send it to the Manager. I would definately be looking for something to recompense you for all this, even if it is only a bottle of bubbly

    Please don't let it spoil your Big day
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  • sammy_wheeler
    sammy_wheeler Posts: 2,351 Forumite
    any news lupyloo?
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  • lupyloo
    lupyloo Posts: 941 Forumite
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    No news yet, someone from here very kindly offered to help with wording for the letter, they are busy though so just waiting for that really. I feel a lot calmer now though I must say, had time to put things into perspective and realise that worse could have happened. Thanks for thinking of me though x
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  • sammy_wheeler
    sammy_wheeler Posts: 2,351 Forumite
    any news yet? hope u ok
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  • dom300186
    dom300186 Posts: 342 Forumite
    id try and get all my money back and go else where if possible?
    Trying to make big cut backs!!!

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  • Scotsbride
    Scotsbride Posts: 960 Forumite
    I hope that you've got a reply from them by now.
    :kisses3: Married 29th September 2012:love:
  • lupyloo
    lupyloo Posts: 941 Forumite
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    Hi Scotsbride, yeah Im okay just busy at work so not been on here lately. I have wrote my letter and sent it to 3 people in Lumley, owner, manager and team manager. The manager has just phoned and asked us to go through on Monday after work, we will see what happens.

    @dom I really love the location so I am secretly hoping that I get something off them as family have already booked rooms, so would be a nightmare cancelling a ll of the accomodation and get refunds etc. But im not telling them that lol

    Just a thought, if they do offer compensation what do youo think would be fair and right in this situation? x
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  • LegalBlonde
    LegalBlonde Posts: 1,183 Forumite
    To be honest as a goodwill gesture or something they might give you some bubbly, but compensation to put you in the position you were before they did it, apart from getting the £100 back and the time and stress of phonecalls etc, how have you been put out of pocket?
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  • lupyloo
    lupyloo Posts: 941 Forumite
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    Thanks for the reply, just feel that for all the stress I have been put under, through someone elses greed, I deserve more than a bottle of bubbly. Obviously I am biased lol so was just wanting others views on it. But if it is a bottle of bubbly, its something I suppose x
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  • Scotsbride
    Scotsbride Posts: 960 Forumite
    I would say a bottle of bubbly and a sizeable discount off catering
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