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Uni's going to try and change her life for the better.....

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  • Lemon_Tree
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    tired Uni and you? got to get up and make a salad for work ready for tomorrow because i'm really struggling on a morning at the moment. should turn off the puter as well so i can get to bed earlier than usual as well.
  • Uniscots97
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    I'm tired too LT, I'm finding even if I do turn the tv/computer off then time seems to disappear and I'm in bed not earlier.

    I have to work this weekend so it means I'll miss thw craft fair.
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  • Uniscots97
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    Big row with OH as I have to work this weekend. He knows he's being unreasonable. He's now saying he might change his mind about a baby all together because I said I wanted to wait. I'm glad he's working tonight, as when he's in one of these stupid moods I'm made to feel 2 inches tall. Life was so much simpler when it was just me and the dog.... I just didn't appreciate it.
    CC2 = £8687.86 ([STRIKE]£10000[/STRIKE] )CC1 = £0 ([STRIKE]£9983[/STRIKE] ); Reusing shopping bags savings =£5.80 vs spent £1.05.Wine is like opera. You can enjoy it even if you don't understand it and too much can give you a headache the next day J
  • Lemon_Tree
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    oh sending you hugs my friend, sorry to hear your OH has been a complete 't' glad you've got the evening to yourself. what are you going to do tonight so you can forget what he's been saying?
  • Keiss_21
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    Lots of (((((hugs))))) Unix xxx


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  • Uniscots97
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    An early night LT. Just so angry, everything is always about him
    CC2 = £8687.86 ([STRIKE]£10000[/STRIKE] )CC1 = £0 ([STRIKE]£9983[/STRIKE] ); Reusing shopping bags savings =£5.80 vs spent £1.05.Wine is like opera. You can enjoy it even if you don't understand it and too much can give you a headache the next day J
  • ZTD
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    unixgirluk wrote: »
    Big row with OH as I have to work this weekend. He knows he's being unreasonable. He's now saying he might change his mind about a baby all together because I said I wanted to wait.

    Woah there... It should be *you* that should be changing *your* mind. I think he imagines he's some kind of stallion, but actually his form is that of a no-legged donkey with pictures of 3 legs...
    unixgirluk wrote: »
    I'm glad he's working tonight, as when he's in one of these stupid moods I'm made to feel 2 inches tall. Life was so much simpler when it was just me and the dog.... I just didn't appreciate it.

    He should not be making you feel small. That's what your enemies do.

    :grouphug:
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  • Uniscots97
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    Morning All, OH is still in a strop. I got a couple of texts then nothing after i got to work. My car wouldn't start at all, had to push it off the driveway to get SS car out so he could go pick OH up. Will have to call AA when I get home, joy. So have the other car with me, nice to drive but a bit of a gas guzzler.

    Sent my Mum a text this morning apologising that I couldn't go to the craft fair. Would have preferred to be there today.

    Have paid of a bit more of my debt, not a lot just a few pounds.
    CC2 = £8687.86 ([STRIKE]£10000[/STRIKE] )CC1 = £0 ([STRIKE]£9983[/STRIKE] ); Reusing shopping bags savings =£5.80 vs spent £1.05.Wine is like opera. You can enjoy it even if you don't understand it and too much can give you a headache the next day J
  • Lemon_Tree
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    heck Uni you've enough going on without OH acting like 2 year old and i'm sure your mum understands that you would much rather be spending time with her than at work.
  • Uniscots97
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    edited 12 March 2012 at 12:25PM
    OH did apologise, we even went out for a meal last night. Then he hits me with the fact he is maybe having a change of heart about a child. I'm not sure I believe him, I think he's just doing it to make me see how I made him feel when I put it off last year because he was behaving like a !!!!. It hurt though it really did.


    OH also invited one of my friends over this week without asking. Now I don't really mind but wasn't impressed at said friend taking a strop with me as said to her 2 weeks ago we couldn't go for dinner at hers on saturday there as we would have been other side of the country at the craft fair (sorry but I'm fed up driving here, there and everywhere). So when I said we weren't going to the craft fair she said great you can come for dinner. Explained that I was working and difficult to know what hours I would be doing. So she said you can come over on Sunday instead, explained I was working both days and would probably be knackered. I knew she'd gone in a huff. Now on saturday (whilst I was working) she rang and rang and rang, Me: hello; Friend: Hi, what you up to?; Me: working; Friend: oh, you never said. :mad: ...... and guess what she phoned yesterday as well, except she phoned OH. Asked what we were up to. OH explained I had a short break so we were nipping to the nearest town for something to eat. She wasn't impressed, said why didn't you come here? OH explained, and then roped us into my friend coming on wednesday and helping her out next saturday without asking (I had hoped to see my Gran next saturday as not seen her for 2 weeks).
    CC2 = £8687.86 ([STRIKE]£10000[/STRIKE] )CC1 = £0 ([STRIKE]£9983[/STRIKE] ); Reusing shopping bags savings =£5.80 vs spent £1.05.Wine is like opera. You can enjoy it even if you don't understand it and too much can give you a headache the next day J
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