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I don't know what to do..( about OH)

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  • He may be great with his own child, and that child may adore him, but that is no reason for you and your daughter to live miserably because of him.
    He can still be a fantastic dad who lives somewhere else. If that is what you want.

    You need to think about your daughter, I know exactly how it feels to be in her situation,
    She needs you to stand up for her.
    You will regret it for the rest of your life if you let him drive her away.
    I know my mum does.
  • liney
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    Yes, the middle one quite often. They actually get on pretty well, as middle child is turning out to be a bit of a high flyer, works hard etc, and so my OH respects them more...although he did complain like mad over easter that we'd be eaten out of house and home... yet MChild only stayed here 4 days!
    Both the ones who are at Uni have said they think it's good we are still together, as it means theor little brother won't grow up without a father like they did.:huh:

    So he behaves differently when they are around? Why do you think that is; are they male?
    "On behalf of teachers, I'd like to dedicate this award to Michael Gove and I mean dedicate in the Anglo Saxon sense which means insert roughly into the anus of." My hero, Mr Steer.
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