Wedding Diet Thread....

Rups32

ah they sound good too. Hon its not just you. i am the same and yesterday, after my outburst, i did look at OH and think, how does he put up with me? i sometimes think there is somehting wrong with me, esp when i get so irrational and have a go at him. poor men hey? I do put my hands up and say I am such a nightmare esp with the mood swings and boy do i get insecure when i see him staring at another girl. grrrr

johannalf88

Hi guys, training today so can't check in as often. I don't think I get too bad, and can't be as bad as H2B when he is hungry anyway! He turns into the incredible hulk! I have to make sure he eats or he will bite off my head! He is like a small child! Luckily I very rarely catch him staring at someone else, he is either very good at it, or just very good! Don't know how I would cope with female friends though, he has never really had any, but can't really be to possessive as all of my friends are guys!

Rups32

lucky you Jo,:0) When OH told me he was taking up running with some girl from work, i was the green monster. I have issues though and i know he is with me and i should be aware of that, but when it is the time of the month, or any irrational mood swings, all the common sense goes out of thr window.. You see if he did stare (which i think is normal for both men and women), he should be subtle but when i see it, i go mad. lol. i have issues... so i need to sort out my food issues too. need to image someone slim and sexy in my head so when i go and stuff my face, that should stop me!!! haha.

i get like the hulk when i dont get food on time. :0)

codemonkey

Hehe Rups are you me? Totally similar issues. For example h2b said that he thinks a girl who lives next door is hot, so now of course, I'm convinced that he wants to sleep with her and I have to stop myself from giving her evils everytime I see her, because its not her fault if he fancies her. In my case, its because before h2b I was in a long term thing with a guy, and he cheated on me, and even though I know h2b wouldnt, there's a just a teensy part of my head going 'yes he will, because you're too fat. Have some cake fatty' Last night I got a bit upset because he was drooling over ninja from the go team and had to give myself a mental slap. When I'm not hormonal, I never think thoughts like this and I'm not averse to a bit of perving myself. Its ok when I do it though :rotfl: I've just read this back. Please don't section me!

I get very grumpy if I do not get fed and watered regularly.

Rups32

i wont section you hon.. i think its a woman thing. I have spoken to a few girl friends who have the SAME issues. I know (when i have a stable head) that it is OK to check out other men and women, but I know for a fact that we just look and think, hmm he is nice and that is it!!! I think men go a bit far with their thoughts. Thats what i think anyway. I have been brave to ask OH about it and it has often resulted in massive arguements as he said, if he didnt want to be with me, then he wouldnt. so whenever i want to give a girl evil looks, i try and think that, but i have told him to look when i cant see him otherwise its just upsetting!!! men!!!!

I totally know what you mean though. Even though we know our OHs wont cheat on us, we still go there. My dad was a womaniser and the way my mum used to feel was so sad and i thinki keep having that fear. i know my OH wont do it, but i dont knw what it is.???? my head i guess.

saying that there were a few girls in the office, who i knew and they did not care if a guy was taken and i have seen it with my own eyes that one girl fancied a gut who had a gf, but she did not care and stuff happend at the xmas party etc etc, and i judged that girl a lot! yes i admit it. :0) she then played around here and then went back to her ex who was waiting for her with a ring! weird hey?

Rups32

ps. i do the same with the evils. lol what are we like?? and yeah sadly food offers a good companion doesnt it? i wish i was those people who could not eat when stressed.

codemonkey

I know girls like that too Rups. In fact, my moh is a bit like that. I can't think of one boyfriend she's had who wasnt married/with someone else when she met him. She seems to have settled down now though, so hopefully, all marriages are safe,except maybe Randy Orton's.:rotfl:

I also have a friend who slept her way around all our mutual male friends when she was engaged. When the vicar got to the being faithful part of the vows, we were all choking, trying not to say anything.

Weirdly, I have no problem with h2b watching dodgy videos or anything, and I can deal with all his female friends but one, and that's cause she flirts with him and doesn't bother talking to me. I think maybe she fancies him.

Rups32

hmm yes those types too. i hate it when female friends who OH knew before me, and when they do not include me in conversations, i feel weird too. As much as i try and stay quiet about it, I end up blurting it to OH as soon as we are on our way home or somehtnig. sometimes men do not get it and are thick, or they may enjoy the attention. ok who doesnt? lol

i know its having the trust and i do, dont get me wrong. Sometimes though, its just other people i dont trust and he says the guy should be a strong man to know where to draw the line. oh well. sometimes i tire myself out thinking too much but sometimes i just cant take it. lol think we have to just think we are very sexy and yes he does want to be with me and not her....(they dont make it easy though do they?)

Randy Orton. ;-)

codemonkey

I think its all very normal. I trust h2b not to do anything, but that doesn't mean that occasionally I dont worry that he'll find someone better who won't eat all the chocolate. :rotfl:

You can keep Randy. I'll have Christian and HHH.

Rups32

YES!!!!! I got offered a second interview!!!! :0) *big smile*