Wedding Diet Thread....

Chrissy1981

Oh codemonkey, I'd be exactly the same! But if you think about it logically, why would he cheat with girls he knows? My OH's stag is held in a hotel with it's own club that doesn't admit male outsiders -- only the girls! So it'll be full of local girls looking for stag parties! Going to have to really distract myself that weekend!

Had a really nice dinner and had enough points for a WW cheesecake dessert but it was rank! 5 points wasted! Going Chimichanga's tonight and wondering what the lowest-point foods will be...

johannalf88

Code, when u have a migraine u HAVE to eat! I actually get them when I don't eat enough. Then u need to eat enough to keep down the painkillers, so seriously do not worry about it! It is just one of those days u have to do, but now sweep it under the rug. Not eating woul of made it worse, and I know when I have a migraine I only want to eat certain foods. Hate to quote hitch-hikers but "Don't Panic!"

Don't know what to suggest about the stag night. I don't think u r being unreasonable, I would turn up if my OH invited girls to his. It is meant to be a STAG night. It's not that I would think he would do anything, it just defys the point for me. I would make it a joint do as he has "stolen" my (ok our) friends bcos they all happen to male! I think i would be putting my foot down, and wouldn't care if it seemed controlling! I actually don't know why it would bother me so much, I guess it would seem to me that he is saying I don't want u there, I would rather have xxxx. I know that's silly, but it would pxxx me off! So u are doing very well holding it in code!

codemonkey

I think I'd actually be more ok about it if he hadn't gone about it in such a sneaky way. He was chatting away about being on the internet and looking at stag nights and he'd come across posts from women saying that they weren't going to stand for women at the stag and those women were obviously really controlling and horrible and didn't trust their husbands and then he went "by the way, I'm inviting these girls". So I couldn't even express an opinion without it seeming like I was the evil one. I had no idea he was so manipulative! Plus one of the girls is the one that's never been nice to me because she fancies him! Arrgh. I'm going to be totally on edge the whole night.

As for the food, nothing I can do now I guess, but that doesn't stop me from feeling like a horrible glutton. Sigh. I'll just have to try to be good.

Thanks girls. I'm so glad you understand x

johannalf88

Oh that was sneaky! Well at least he told you, he was prob really worried about telling u incase u put your foot down, but felt guilty about keeping it from u. In that case I would tell him that I wasn't happy about it, but i trust him and won't interfere. That way he will feel a little guilty! (I am mean, I do wonder why OH wants to marry me!)

You NEED to go out with friends that evening code, take ur mind off it. Do not stay at home alone, it will drive you crazy!

Chrissy1981

That IS sneaky! Just make him feel really really guilty!

codemonkey

Hehe and have my photo taken with lots of hot men . I like the way you think Jo. I just kind of shrugged and went "ok, whatever".

Rups32

ah codemonkey i feel your anger! that would annoy me too! and yep yuo need to go out.. if yuo stay home you will go mad!!! that normally happens to me so i am planning already to go out when he goes off for his stag do!! i really hope he is not inviting girls, as like it was mentioned, it is a STAG do.would they be happy if we had men? well my OH prob say he doesnt care as he trusts me but its not the trust thing here is it?? hmm i agree that maybe talk to him about it. it was def sneaky. dont get stressed and maybe think of it rationally, and go with the fact that he is marrying you, he is marrying you! stupid girls, who are planning on going!!! grrr

hope ur head is ok today code.. its prob all that stress. just relax and eat whatever till you are back on form, and dont stress about being bad!

codemonkey

Arrgh, and now my brother is kicking off because I haven't invited his son who I've only seen once in 15 years.

Rups32

oh dear!!! ignore him now code otehrwise you will endup in a mess today and you dont want a stress headache.. take time out and later explain to him, you cant everyone there esp who you havent seen. use cost if you have to as thats what EXACTLY i did with my mum. i got the tears, the blackmail etc but i said we want it small and the cost wont allow us to. so that kept her quiet!

codemonkey

Tried that one. He's still giving me hassle. Arrrggh. Families. And he's going to go totally mental when he finds out my cousins son is invited.