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LiT - starting from the beginning and rebuilding my life

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  • Oh dear

    Like you say tomorrow is another day don't beat yourself up about it,it's just a blip ;)
    Emergency fund £0/£300
    Total debt 120/£10,750

    If you think you can you will,if you think you can't you wont
  • Woken up this morning feeling tired. Tossed and turned all night. KH phoned DD last night and asked her if she wants to go and live with them. She said she might do when she leaves school next year! I dont know how I feel about that but if she wants to go then I cant stop her. On the plus side my house wouldnt get trashed when she was on 1 and the boys wouldnt have to listen to her !!!!!! or the arguments or the boom boom boom coming from her room. The downside to this is I would probably have to find somewhere cheaper to live. my rent is £650 a month for a 3 bed house. DS 19 has left college so i no longer get any money for him then if she leaves I wont get money for her (and will probably end up paying maintenance!) so that leaves 1 child I would receive benefits for, so I either need to learn some new skills so I can up my income, win the lottery or find a sugar daddy lol

    Anyway today is another day and I have been looking at OU courses. I fancy doing bookkeeping and accounts so will look into it. I would of preferred to do a college course but as most of the courses are in the evening this is not an option as I would have to carry on working.

    Re the smoking, ive slapped on a patch and so far so good.

    Anyway rant over im off to do some cleaning
    Sealed Pot Challenge member #982
    In 2012 I pledge to:- Save £1 a day, meal plan, be more organised, have NSDs, set myself a budget AND STICK TO IT, throw all loose change into Sealed Pot and not open it till 29th November.:money:
  • Hey lovie, dont beat yourself up over the cigs today is another day, baby steps and all that. And you only had 7 not a whole packet ;).

    DS will probably change her mind anyway. Maybe once you find out what is happening you may qualify for rent assistance or something so wont have to move.

    I really must get off my @r$e and do some work!
    One small step for ME, one giant leap for my family!


    2015 - my Amazon Gift Certificate mini challenge - saving to buy small household electrical items.
    Total £9.12
  • In my frustration ive been and bought some paint!!! When I say paint I mean enough to paint the whole house!!! Every where will be magnolia and I will spruce it up with colourful furnishings. LL wont let me have wall paper or funky colours so it was either magnolia or cream and with my kids I didnt think cream would be a good idea! Anyway im off to mask the walls. Have a good day everyone.
    Sealed Pot Challenge member #982
    In 2012 I pledge to:- Save £1 a day, meal plan, be more organised, have NSDs, set myself a budget AND STICK TO IT, throw all loose change into Sealed Pot and not open it till 29th November.:money:
  • Well thats the downstairs loo had 1 coat of paint it will need another when its dry. Tired now but need to make the kids their tea. Vegetable risotto with some left over chicken thrown in for good measure haha. They did want chicken fried rice but I dont know how to make that lol. Might have a look on the freds to see if I can find a recipe.
    Sealed Pot Challenge member #982
    In 2012 I pledge to:- Save £1 a day, meal plan, be more organised, have NSDs, set myself a budget AND STICK TO IT, throw all loose change into Sealed Pot and not open it till 29th November.:money:
  • Cant beat a bit of decorating - that reminds me, I have the paint for the bathroom!
    One small step for ME, one giant leap for my family!


    2015 - my Amazon Gift Certificate mini challenge - saving to buy small household electrical items.
    Total £9.12
  • wooohooo I made chicken fried rice!!! hahaha kids enjoyed it and scoffed the lot!

    Will load the dishwasher then back to give the downstairs loo another coat of paint.
    Sealed Pot Challenge member #982
    In 2012 I pledge to:- Save £1 a day, meal plan, be more organised, have NSDs, set myself a budget AND STICK TO IT, throw all loose change into Sealed Pot and not open it till 29th November.:money:
  • Wont be doing any more painting tonight as those energy saving lights are pants!! Will have to do it tomorrow in daylight now!

    Never mind will crack on with some housework instead.
    Sealed Pot Challenge member #982
    In 2012 I pledge to:- Save £1 a day, meal plan, be more organised, have NSDs, set myself a budget AND STICK TO IT, throw all loose change into Sealed Pot and not open it till 29th November.:money:
  • Downstairs loo is now all freshly decorated, shephards pie made and eaten, now just to load the dishwasher, have a quick shower then off to visit a friend who has just come out of hospital.
    Sealed Pot Challenge member #982
    In 2012 I pledge to:- Save £1 a day, meal plan, be more organised, have NSDs, set myself a budget AND STICK TO IT, throw all loose change into Sealed Pot and not open it till 29th November.:money:
  • Downstairs loo is now all freshly decorated, shephards pie made and eaten, now just to load the dishwasher, have a quick shower then off to visit a friend who has just come out of hospital.

    hi! it *astounds* me how much you get done every day. (that's all i wanted to say.)
    YNAB trialler. Debt at 2nd LBM, Sep 2015: £24,162. <swear>

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