Men!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

THE_LONE_RANGER_4

good for you and i should hope you are working being divorced and a single parent is no excuse not to work , i must admit though from the tone of your answers to me anger seems to be an issue

djdido2

i'm not divorced. never married. anger is an issue but only on the subject of the absent ex who does not assist financially or emotionally (for ds).

apart from that i am happy as larry and cant be angry like the OP as i dont even have a partner.

the perception that us mums sit on our !!!!!s all day is just prehistoric drivel from men whose mums still probably wipe their !!!!!s!

achtunglady

ringo_24601 wrote:

Blimey, it's like an episode of Trisha.

Maybe you people in dysfunctional relationships might both want need a bit of therapy to live in harmony.

Yeah, relate charge £45 quid an hour, you gonna cough up for a course of 10 hour sessions???????????????

THE_LONE_RANGER_4

djdido2 wrote:

i'm not divorced. never married. anger is an issue but only on the subject of the absent ex who does not assist financially or emotionally (for ds).

apart from that i am happy as larry and cant be angry like the OP as i dont even have a partner.

the perception that us mums sit on our !!!!!s all day is just prehistoric drivel from men whose mums still probably wipe their !!!!!s!

well i hope your anger and foul mouth is not seen by your child your attitude is exactly what david cameron is talking about when it comes to broken familys

djdido2

i had the courtesy to blank the word bum!!!

is it my fault that daddy can't/won't be daddy? what makes you think i stand and talk to my 3 year old like that?

david cameron is a pompous twit and has never lived in the real world. probably a good thing you lost your job as a support worker cos you don't sound very supportive at all.

i couldnt make him marry me and thank god he didnt. i couldn't make him stay with me either. best thing i have ever done having my kids. they are loved FIRST!!

Noctu

I can't say I'm surprised that this thread turned out like this, lol!

THE_LONE_RANGER_4

i never lost my job i improved my life and standard of living three fold from working along side my wife bloody hard and now get the rewards david cameron doent live in the real world ?theres a load of broken homes and along with this comes kids who have different fathers no stability haveing a mother at home and not working full time when she is the main provider just breeds lazy children and children starting of in petty crime and drugs .no not all children from broken homes end up dregs and no not all single parents are lay abouts but theres a lot out there on benefits and that has to stop as there is a lot of these lay abouts with so called illnesses like, me, bad back , neck work related stress bone idle is a more appropiate word

hobo28

THE_LONE_RANGER wrote:

well i hope your anger and foul mouth is not seen by your child your attitude is exactly what david cameron is talking about when it comes to broken familys

If you've never been a single parent, its very easy to criticise. I used to subscribe to the stereotype until one day I became a single parent.

Once the shock had died down and we got into a routine, to be honest it was easy. One thing that did shock me though is how many full time single dad's there are out there who just get on with the job in hand and don't draw attention to themselves.

C_Ronaldo

THE_LONE_RANGER wrote:

HAVE YOU THOUGHT PERHAPS YOU MAY BE A BIT LAZY ? DOING A BIT OF HOUSE WORK, COOKING THE DAYS FOOD YOU HAVE TO EAT AS WELL YOU NO, SO WHY MOAN ABOUT IT PUSHING A BUGGY UP HILL FOR A MILE WOW WE TAKE IT EASY YOU MIGHT HAVE A HEART ATTACK .......AS FOR GOING TO COLLEGE YOU SHOULD OF WORKED HARDER AT SCHOOL THINK YOUR SELF LUCKY YOU HAVE A HUSBAND WITH THAT ATTITUDE

just coz someone is at college it doesnt mean they didnt work hard at school, im at college and i worked hard at school, dont make assumption lone ranger, you post wasnt and isnt very helpful for this topic,

djdido2

so why you having a pop at me then. i am a WORKING single mum and i too have worked bloody (oops foul mouth again lol) hard without any help from the sperm donor.

i own my own house and all my bills are paid and i have acheived that all on my own. i am proud of myself and also proud of any person regardless of sex who is a lone parent.

so if my partner died is that it for me then? cant move on and meet someone else and have another child (shock horror) by another man????

you obviously think that if a woman has two children (or more) by different fathers that makes her????? there are many celebs that have done this. do they get flack for it. nope!!

good for you that you reap the rewards of your hard work. now all you have to work on is your dated attitude.