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Friend Committed Suicide Because Of Partners Secret Debt!

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  • How awfully sad that this has happened. What a dreadful waste of a life.

    My thoughts are with all whom he loved and loved him.

    E

    We've just had our lightbulb moment November 2006:eek:

    Loan £19,000 5.9%
    M&S £ 6,000 3.9%
    A&L o/d £ 5,000 0% (5.9% in January)


    Proud to be dealing with the debt
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    My deepest sympathy goes out to you
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • Very sad.
    Thoughts with you.

    x
    :D
  • So sorry to hear this PP,I really don't know what to say,but please remember,there is nothing you could have said or done to stop this happening,you were there when he needed you and that's what matters.
    Thinking of you at this sad time.
    LIH
    Debt at highest £102k :eek:
    Lightbulb moment march 2006
    Debt free october2017 :j
    Finally sleeping easy in my bed :A
  • I am very sorry to hear your story.

    It is hugely valuble for you to have posted this here.
    Current Joint Debts: CC 0% [STRIKE]New Transfer 25.10.06 £6732 15.11.06 £6492.00 03.02.07 £5259.20[/STRIKE] 23.04.07 £3985, Loan 7.5% [STRIKE]01.05.06 £20135.10 15.11.06 £18416.25 03.02.07 £17529.55 [/STRIKE] 23.04.07 17188.50 inc. interest

    Plan: Clear CCs by Sept 07, DFD: 30.09.08, Then onto mortgage
    Official DFW Nerd Club - Member no. 198, Proud to be dealing with my debts
  • Oh Penny Pincher I am so sorry! :(

    What an awful waste of a life! It's horrible that being in debt is still such a taboo in this country.

    That is a really sad story.

    Big hugs to you. :grouphug:
  • So sorry Penny Pincher to hear of your friends death, my deepest sympathy to you and your friends family.

    Insp C
  • So sorry to hear your sad news PP, my thoughts & deepest sympathy are with you all.

    xx
    waiting for my 1st competition win... :smiley:

  • raq
    raq Posts: 1,716 Forumite
    Such a sad story, fulling up as i am typing this to you.

    I do also agree with you, it was only a couple of weeks ago I opened up to my partner about secret debts that actually did go on the house over the years and he was very supportive and did wander what was wrong with me. He continues to call me every day from work to see if am okay and because he loves me so much don't want to worry.

    Take care of yourself
    :A Tomorrow's just another day - keep smiling
  • Oh Penny-Pincher :(

    I'm so sorry for the loss of your good friend.......thinking of you and his familly, at what must be a difficult time....

    Take care of yourself.....and remember, this wasn't your fault, so please don't blame yourself......

    :grouphug:

    IW x
    Official DFW Nerd Club - Member no. 222 :beer:
    :T Debt free wannabe - Proud to be dealing with my debts! :T

    Remember the MoneySaving mantras!

    IF YOU'RE SKINT......
    Do I need it? Can I afford it? Can I find it cheaper anywhere else?

    IF YOU'RE NOT SKINT......
    Will I use it? Is it worth it? Can I find it cheaper anywhere else?
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