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The Giving up/ Cutting down Alcohol support thread- number 10
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Hi All – wasn’t AF last night but only had a very small glass of wine and a small Bacardi drowning in coke so quite pleased with that….6 months ago it would’ve been a bottle of wine and whatever else I could get my hands on till I passed out.gardenanna wrote: »The mind's a contrary old scuffer - instead of being over the moon that I've had 17 AFDs out of 24 days this month - 17 - I bet I haven't had more than 2 AFDs a month in 10 years and then only in months with an R in - all I can witter about is failing my SNC. Get a grip Anna.Please keep posting Legsand - I agree with both Maman and Shaggy x As Shaggy says December is the most dangerous month and we all need to huddle together and be there for each other x
I couldn’t agree more with the comments about sticking together through December. I’m already getting twitchy about how many AFD’s to pledge. I really want to relax and enjoy Christmas and the run in to it, but for me that will include a tipple or two along the way…it’s going to be a real test to see how capable I am of drinking ‘sensibly’ (or not at all) and how easy it will be to climb back on the wagon once the tree comes down.
So glad to know that you guys are going to be around, Legsand it will be great to have you here tooLBM Aug '07 Debt [STRIKE]£52,615[/STRIKE] :eek: DEBT FREE Aug '12 :jCap One CC £[STRIKE]5000[/STRIKE]/£0 - HSBC CC £[STRIKE]7500[/STRIKE]/£0 - HSBC Loan £[STRIKE]12,225[/STRIKE]/£0M&S CC £[STRIKE]11,500[/STRIKE]/£0 - Egg CC £[STRIKE]8750[/STRIKE]/£0 - Sains CC £[STRIKE]3000[/STRIKE]/£0HMRC £[STRIKE]3140[/STRIKE]/£0 - OD £[STRIKE]1500[/STRIKE]/£0Pay off ALL your debt by Xmas 2012 £14,128/£14,128 :j0 -
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Evening All,
Thankyou for the support and words:)
I doing the i'm going, not going to tescos for wine tonight dance in and out the back door like a yoyo saying to myself you dont need wine then I dont need wine but I want some, Ive not gone yet but im really aggressive with eveyone.
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How did you do Legsand? I hate it when I keep changing my mind
. It is so very tiring.
19 AFD please.0 -
Evening everyone
Hope you all well
Welcome back Legs, great to have you back with us.
14 Af please Shaggy. Was keen not to have a drink tonite and ive succeeded, yay :jI didnt realise i was talking out loud when i was leaving the supermarket tonite i was muttering......'you dont need to have a drink tonite...over and over again! I got some funny looks
However it seemed to work.
Have got a quiet weekend planned, need to make a start on making a couple of Xmas cakes, last year i ended up making 8:eek::eek: This year making a max of 4 and thats it.
Wishing you all a lovely weekend, will report back in over the weekend if i dont get carried away in the gusts!It’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts0 -
Wowsers its mighty quiet here today, where are you all :whistle: maybe everyone is Xmas shopping. Ive been out, faced the force gal winds to pick up a couple of bits nd bobs and now back in nice and toasty in the house.
Hoping to have an Af eve but already i keep eyeing up the wine rack everytime im in the kitchen, will see what this eve brings
Hope you all wellIt’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts0 -
Evening to everyone
I didnt go get wine last night :T but i wasnt a very nice person to :(be around I can tell you. Was in bed really early But I can add another AF DAY TO NOVEMBER (13) PLEASE SHAGGY.
Am having a glass of wine tonight with mum and hubby so sharing, I am not good at sharing my wine and would normally drink as quickly as possible so I can have more.
Once again Thankyou just for being here not judging and understanding
Legsxx
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Well done Legsand:T
25 AF please Shaggyx
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NW-£0 Cap one-£76 HSBC small-£359.51 (0% Aug16) HSBC car- £3511.46 (0%Oct17) HX car/baby- £2731.57 (0%Nov16) HX -£1198.66 (0% Jul16) Argos- £50(BNPLMay)
Credit card debt-£7877.20 (4/3/16)
Car Loan - £21,777 - Now - £12,383.36 Mortgage- £154,315.77
LLoyds loan- paid 28/1/11 LLoyds O/D paid 9/9/10
New LBM- £ 28/2/20160 -
Not feeling well at all tonight - tucked up in bed feeling very sorry for myself.....I'm never ill!!!!
16 AFD's please shaggyLBM Aug '07 Debt [STRIKE]£52,615[/STRIKE] :eek: DEBT FREE Aug '12 :jCap One CC £[STRIKE]5000[/STRIKE]/£0 - HSBC CC £[STRIKE]7500[/STRIKE]/£0 - HSBC Loan £[STRIKE]12,225[/STRIKE]/£0M&S CC £[STRIKE]11,500[/STRIKE]/£0 - Egg CC £[STRIKE]8750[/STRIKE]/£0 - Sains CC £[STRIKE]3000[/STRIKE]/£0HMRC £[STRIKE]3140[/STRIKE]/£0 - OD £[STRIKE]1500[/STRIKE]/£0Pay off ALL your debt by Xmas 2012 £14,128/£14,128 :j0 -
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Am having a glass of wine tonight with mum and hubby so sharing, I am not good at sharing my wine and would normally drink as quickly as possible so I can have more.
I know what you mean, my DH prefers red wine, i prefer white, we always have lots of white in the house so tend to open that, i always hope that he says he only wants a wee drink so all the more for me;)
Opened a bottle this eve, he poured us both a small glass and we just stopped after that 1. Most unusual for me, not for him though, he rarely drinks at allIt’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts0
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