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Harassment- on contract mobile phone?

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  • Silk
    Silk Posts: 4,836 Forumite
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    rose00 wrote: »
    I did contact my network provider, and they put a note on the system to say that i've reported unauthorized calls- dunno if the police will do anything...
    Why on earth would the police do anything because you reported unauthorized calls ?????
    rose00 wrote: »
    Does anyone know how i could FIND OUT whether the police have requested my phone records?.
    No it would be kept secret from you at the time
    rose00 wrote: »
    And if the 'person who's been harassed' thinks its me, and has told the police this, is it enough 'evidence' for them to access the call records or arrest me.
    Depends on how serious the charge was ...threats to someones life for example would warrant access
    rose00 wrote: »
    The family member is quite young- although what she did was very very bad, i can't get her into trouble... so what else should i do?
    Theres three options either come clean and explain if they ask you, exercise your right to remain silent or lie about it.
    rose00 wrote: »
    Oh and the family member withheld the calls so the number was on private...
    All that does is stop the victim knowing who called, the call is still registered on your call log and bill etc in the same way it will be if a landine has been used
    rose00 wrote: »
    Ha, you don't know NOTHING!
    Is that a fact ;)
    It's not just about the money
  • Jon_01
    Jon_01 Posts: 5,927 Forumite
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    rose00 wrote: »
    Oh and the family member withheld the calls so the number was on private...

    That won't withhold it from the network (obviously, they have to connect it). The number to and from with be clearly visible on the network logs as well as where the phone was when the call was made and how long each call was.

    Everything about a call is logged by the network.
  • Wintermute
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    rose00 wrote: »
    The family member is quite young- although what she did was very very bad, i can't get her into trouble... so what else should i do?
    So she's so young she doesn't know any better? But at the same time she knows how to and to withhold her number? That suggest she knows what she's doing is wrong? If you can't get her in trouble then maybe her parents will? If she's been withholding your number then why does the person receiving the calls think it's you?

    Unless these calls involve a minor, threats or continue I think the police are unlikely to take further action, they've probably advised the person to contact their network operator who will probably advise them to change their number.

    Even if you cancel your contract, change your mobile number or burn your phone there's still going to be records of those calls available to the police for a reasonable period of time (possibly years, depending on your operator), there's no way around that.
  • Silk
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    Wintermute wrote: »
    So she's so young she doesn't know any better? But at the same time she knows how to and to withhold her number? That suggest she knows what she's doing is wrong? If you can't get her in trouble then maybe her parents will? If she's been withholding your number then why does the person receiving the calls think it's you?

    Because the OP said on the other thread .....
    rose00 wrote: »
    No i meant that harassing calls were made using my mobile phone- a family member was making calls to my tutor about 10 times. he thinks its me, and has reported it to the police, was just wondering what would happen because the phones obviously mine. :o
    It's not just about the money
  • Wintermute
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    Silk wrote: »
    Because the OP said on the other thread .....

    Yeah, I seen that in the other thread, but if the calls were withheld then there's got to be a reason that her tutor would assume that she's responsible for the harassing calls. So I don't think it's just a case of a young family member picking up somebody mobile and randomly prank phone calling somebody.
  • Silk
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    Wintermute wrote: »
    Yeah, I seen that in the other thread, but if the calls were withheld then there's got to be a reason that her tutor would assume that she's responsible for the harassing calls. So I don't think it's just a case of a young family member picking up somebody mobile and randomly prank phone calling somebody.
    Yeah exactly ...which is why I get the impression tracing the phone is the least of the OP's problems.
    The tutor not only thinks it's the OP but can also prove it came from the phone ...it's like a script from Eastenders :rotfl:
    It's not just about the money
  • Wintermute
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    Yeah, I certainly think this one is more of a people issue rather than a mobile phone issue :rotfl:
  • DUTR
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    Wintermute wrote: »
    Yeah, I certainly think this one is more of a people issue rather than a mobile phone issue :rotfl:

    Yep, looks like we have a stalker :eek:.....(and you thought they were always blokes)
  • rose00
    rose00 Posts: 14 Forumite
    Wintermute wrote: »
    Yeah, I seen that in the other thread, but if the calls were withheld then there's got to be a reason that her tutor would assume that she's responsible for the harassing calls. So I don't think it's just a case of a young family member picking up somebody mobile and randomly prank phone calling somebody.

    Well, they weren't silent calls, just the family member making inappropriate suggestions about me and him in a 'funny voice'. The tutor thinks its me making the phone calls, and i'm not sure what the police are going to do?.
  • rose00
    rose00 Posts: 14 Forumite
    DUTR wrote: »
    Yep, looks like we have a stalker :eek:.....(and you thought they were always blokes)

    Well i'm certainly not a stalker! :o
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