We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

PLEASE READ BEFORE POSTING: Hello Forumites! In order to help keep the Forum a useful, safe and friendly place for our users, discussions around non-MoneySaving matters are not permitted per the Forum rules. While we understand that mentioning house prices may sometimes be relevant to a user's specific MoneySaving situation, we ask that you please avoid veering into broad, general debates about the market, the economy and politics, as these can unfortunately lead to abusive or hateful behaviour. Threads that are found to have derailed into wider discussions may be removed. Users who repeatedly disregard this may have their Forum account banned. Please also avoid posting personally identifiable information, including links to your own online property listing which may reveal your address. Thank you for your understanding.
📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!
The Forum now has a brand new text editor, adding a bunch of handy features to use when creating posts. Read more in our how-to guide

Is someone winding me up?

2

Comments

  • megzmam
    megzmam Posts: 165 Forumite
    its so annoying when this happens it happened to us a few times and one time it was the estate agent not passing on message properly we weren't best pleased with them to say the least!!! our house looked like a showhome for no reason on more than one occasion and believe me that aint easy with a two and a half year old trashing your good work and a dog that is constantly loosing its hair!!!. . . but it will eventually pay off i'm sure we accepted an offer on our house a couple of weeks ago. . . by someone who hadn't made a previous appointment and not turned up but from a lovely young couple who actually showed up on time!!
  • olias
    olias Posts: 3,588 Forumite
    It's so hard keeping up the enthusiasm/momentum though. With our first viewer we spent nearly 2 days(!) cleaning and de cluttering. Now 9 months later it's more like 2 hours:o.

    Olias
  • bris
    bris Posts: 10,548 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    At least they called to cancel, nothing worse than sitting around for an hour waiting for someone who is not going to show, I've done that lots of times. Now I tell them clearly that if they are going to be late to tell me otherwise if they are 15 minutes past the agreed time i'm off.
  • evoke
    evoke Posts: 1,286 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    You need to grit your teeth and soldier on. At this point you're just concerned about viewers not showing up. Wait until an offer is made and the buyer pulls out. That's stress!
    Everyone is entitled to my opinion!
  • Oh no I completely sympathise! Going through the house selling process and boy oh boy have we had many a viewing that didnt happen and we have been on the market since August last year with no sign of buyer in sight!

    Guess you got to be patient! We are having to be like that too!!
    2026 financial goals & challenges!

    1). Mortgage (started Jan 2024) £99,186.79/ £122,400.00 Overpayment total: £1405.13 (Inc Sprive yr 1 & 2 o/p £70.93, £5.52 Natwest o/p & £55.34 reg monthly overpayment) Equity 31%

    2). #47 Save 1p a day challenge 2026 £30/£780

    3). £2638.90/£3000 - Investment ISA (32/50 investments)

    4). CC debt - £21,259.04. Aiming for £19,999.99 31/12/2026

    5). £257.66 / £1000.00 - EF

    6). Lose weight, get fitter and read 12 books in 12 months in 2026. 2 out 12 COMPLETED
  • celyn90
    celyn90 Posts: 3,249 Forumite
    To be fair, it works both ways; we were due to see four properties on friday - two were fine, but with the remaining two the vendors didn't show up to let us and the agent in.

    I think generally people can be a bit unreliable sometimes.

    cel x
    :staradmin:starmod: beware of geeks bearing .gifs...:starmod::staradmin
    :starmod: Whoever said "nothing is impossible" obviously never tried to nail jelly to a tree :starmod:
  • mlz1413
    mlz1413 Posts: 3,156 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    sadly some people don't have the basic manners to ring ahead and say they won't be keeping the appointment (ie the first appointment), the 2nd appointment seems like a lame excuse but people are all different.

    if they book to come again don't worry about spring cleaning, just let the EA meet them, if they turn up.

    IMO someone who can't afford to keep their car running shouldn't be looking at buying a house and with these please if they do put an offer in be prepared to be messed around!
  • Martin81162
    Martin81162 Posts: 136 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 100 Posts Combo Breaker
    If I were you I would note make any more arrangements for these people but let them know when you are available and only let them view when it suits you!
    Martin
  • anderson8
    anderson8 Posts: 1,224 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    well these same people were coming for a viewing today at 11.45..........
    they didnt show again!! no phone call this time either, just didnt show.

    i wouldnt mind normally, but being five months pregnant, makes cleaning take that but longer.
    Still at least my house is like a show home still!!
  • hazyjo
    hazyjo Posts: 15,476 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Don't let them view again. Don't care how 'desperate' the market is - tell the EA you want absolutely nothing to do with them.

    If you don't do it now, what the hell are they going to be like further down the line if they do decide to buy?

    Jx
    2024 wins: *must start comping again!*
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 354.3K Banking & Borrowing
  • 254.4K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 455.4K Spending & Discounts
  • 247.3K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 604K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 178.4K Life & Family
  • 261.5K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.