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  • RexBanner
    RexBanner Posts: 146 Forumite
    I find large quantities of alcohol on such occasions both reduces inhibitions about sharing space with strangers and aids a good night's sleep.

    The company don't come out of this looking good, but I've never attended a conference sober so would muddle through alright.
  • Humphrey10
    Humphrey10 Posts: 1,859 Forumite
    I don't think that is acceptable at all, expecting you to share a room with someone. I wouldn't, I really don't see how they can think it is OK to ask you to do that.
  • Humphrey10 wrote: »
    I don't think that is acceptable at all, expecting you to share a room with someone. I wouldn't, I really don't see how they can think it is OK to ask you to do that.

    I have had to share hospital wards with complete strangers and believe me sharing hotel rooms are paradise compared to that!
  • ceridwen
    ceridwen Posts: 11,547 Forumite
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    Personally - I simply WONT share a room with a stranger (or work colleague) - END OF....

    It is simply not reasonable in this day and age to expect people to share rooms with strangers/colleagues. This is NOT the norm now or remotely acceptable.

    There is a thread on precisely this issue somewhere further back on this Board I know and it would be useful if anyone could provide the link to it please. As I recall - the consensus of opinion on that thread was that the employer was being utterly unreasonable and I believe there were actually useful links given to laws and suchlike that the employee concerned could quote to "prove" that the employer couldnt make people do this.
  • ceridwen
    ceridwen Posts: 11,547 Forumite
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    I have had to share hospital wards with complete strangers and believe me sharing hotel rooms are paradise compared to that!

    Errr....actually some of us won't share hospital wards either....:D. The choice is daycare basis and/or private or I dont go through the doors...
  • Uncertain
    Uncertain Posts: 3,901 Forumite
    I also feel it is totally unreasonable.

    I've twice been in a position where this seemed likely to happen and each time made it clear that either a single room is provided or I don't go.

    Obviously this approach does need a reasonable feeling of security in your job!
  • Uncertain
    Uncertain Posts: 3,901 Forumite
    I have had to share hospital wards with complete strangers and believe me sharing hotel rooms are paradise compared to that!

    This is a completely different situation!
  • DKLS
    DKLS Posts: 13,461 Forumite
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    There is no way in hell I would ever share a room with a colleague, (unless I was single and it was the cute lady from marketing) only one small company in my career tried that one, I checked into a travelodge at my own expense and resigned by email and had a lovely long weekend in Scotland pondering my naval.

    I wasnt expecting a 5* hotel, a travelodge/premier inn would have been fine
  • pinkshoes
    pinkshoes Posts: 20,654 Forumite
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    There is absolutely NO WAY I would share a room on a work trip; it's unprofessional! Business should be kept on a professional level, and I really do not want to see any of my colleagues in their pyjamas, nor do I want them to see me in mine, or listen to me go wee in the night, or listen to me talk in my sleep!

    I would tell them you want your own room, or refuse to go.
    Should've = Should HAVE (not 'of')
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  • Kajimba
    Kajimba Posts: 101 Forumite
    Aside from anything else, there could be security/trust issues. What if someone's belongings go missing? What happens to the colleague who shared their room?
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