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Weekly Flylady Thread 14th March 2011

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  • beemuzed
    beemuzed Posts: 2,188 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee!
    I'm in again please! House definitely looks better for being part of this last week - even though I didn't finish everything every day.
    Currently very smug - am secretary to our Music Association and we had our AGM at 5pm today....draft minutes already complete!!!!
    Resolution:
    Think twice before spending anything!
  • hollyh
    hollyh Posts: 5,474 Forumite
    Evening all,

    I'm creeping back in.:D I've been trying to do a big clean on the weekend because i don't have much time in the week now. It's not working though as now i'm sick of spending all weekend cleaning. I know this works so why i don't just stick at it i don't know. :o

    So i am in and i'm staying.:j

    Monday ~ Kitchen and Dining room
    Level One

    Sweep and mop floor
    Clear and wipe worksurfaces
    Level Two
    Wipe units and appliances..
    clean blinds/curtains
    Clear and wipe table.. clean cloth! OH still has my table since xmas but now my dining room has become my office it can stay there until i can shift some stuff.
    Level Three
    Scrub out the fridge
    Clean oven and hob!
    Clear window sills of gibble!
    Extras
    1. Binbag dance
    2. HHI I've given up ironing again and am being very careful washing & drying so i'm not doing that, it's great tonight not having a massive pile of ironing to get through
    3. Wipe small appliances
    4. Clean out the vacuum cleaner.. wash filters etc!
    My Extras

    Clean out rabbits
    Paperwork
    Ebay x 5
    Toy corner
    Book eye test
    Don't forget parents evening tomorrow 3.15pm
  • shellysue
    shellysue Posts: 359 Forumite
    edited 13 March 2011 at 10:11PM
    I'm in again :hello::j

    jojo - well done :beer: I am still not sure if I would have been throwing the phone at the back of his head or laughing too much to take aim :p

    Mrs Chaos - the biggest problem is always the legal side, being under 18 they can have trouble with all sorts of things, like credit cards and anything of a contract nature, like tenancy agreements.......
    ETA - do a budget with him and show him how much he needs to earn to live on.

    hope everyone is ok, but :grouphug: for everyone
    I am tired, so of to bed
    Sue
    Do I need to eat it :o
    Can I afford the calories:eek:
    have I checked for a lower calorie version:T
  • pigpen
    pigpen Posts: 41,152 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    MrsChaos wrote: »
    Evening all

    I'll post later (lost a longish one earlier and busy now) - just wanted to say that I'm in and thanks for the thread to everyone.

    Could do with some advice re a 16/17 year old wanting to move out. :eek: Legalities, finance, etc.

    Thanks. x

    Ooh BTDT...

    If they are living with parents and in FT education they are entitled to nothing.. or if the parent is willing to allow them to live at home they are not entitled to anything.

    If they are unable to live at home.. and they have to go through social services or a homeless shelter and prove they are homeless they may get a flat in a hostel with teens who are drug addicts, prostitutes, aggressive criminals etc.. many have mental health problems.

    DS1 cannot get a place of his own because he is in FT education and he doesn't get any money, even though he lived elsewhere for 3 years and is almost 20.

    When he was with GF they got income support (£75 a fortnight) £30 EMA each IF they both attended college all week on time! and obviously child benefit and tax credits for Jacob which DS wouldn't get.

    DS1 just said.. tell him he said 'don't be such a *silly person* blag off your mum you are so much better off.. you have no bills to pay at home and no food to cook, no washing to do and no !!!!!!'ed mates coming round in the middle of the night !!!!!! up or bleeding or worse. Your mate will drop out of college and be a *semen stain* for the rest of his life'

    DD1 has a friend whose mum left him here and went back to Poland.. he doesn't eat as he has no money, he doesn't goto college as noone is there toencourage him or get him out of bed. He is in a crappy little bedsit with no heating because he can't afford it.. he gets £30 EMA providing he goes to college and about £50 income support.. out of this he has food, gas, electric, clothes, water and phone credit to buy. He is incredibly depressed, has lost about 3 stone and rarely gets to college.

    He can leave home soon enough but for now he needs to be with you supporting him financially and practically andshould have pity for his mate whose family don't love him enough to care about his wellbeing and safety.

    Does he want to talk to DS1 who has been there and done it and come back home?
    LB moment 10/06 Debt Free date 6/6/14
    Hope to be debt free until the day I die
    Mortgage-free Wannabee (05/08/30)
    6/6/14 £72,454.65 (5.65% int.)
    08/12/2023 £33602.00 (4.81% int.)
  • tootifruities
    tootifruities Posts: 1,384 Forumite
    Welcome to suzybloo, 666paw and milliejo I have sent you all a PM to get started, jump right on in.

    done to 46

    Asbo x
    :heart: R.I.P.:heart:
    Money Saving Diva
    mummyslittleboy
    :heart::A:heart:
  • xx_Jo_xx
    xx_Jo_xx Posts: 2,858 Forumite
    Uniform Washer
    Hey all

    I slipped off the wagon last week, but its nice to see y'all again :)

    Monday ~ Kitchen and Dining room
    Level One

    Sweep and mop floor
    Clear and wipe worksurfaces
    Level Two
    Wipe units and appliances..
    clean blinds/curtains
    Clear and wipe table.. clean cloth!
    Level Three
    Scrub out the fridge
    Clean oven and hob!
    Clear window sills of gibble!
    Extras
    1. Binbag dance
    2. HHI
    3. Wipe small appliances
    4. Clean out the vacuum cleaner.. wash filters etc!
    :)Sometimes lurking, sometimes posting, but always flying:)
    You are supposed to be the leading lady of your own life, for God's sake! - The Holiday
    DFW :idea: August 2013... Debt total £15,475.56 - Jan 15 £11,738.66 - DEBT FREE by 2015
    Feb GC £48.02/£250 (£201.98)
    :D I will declutter my house and debts :D
  • lostinrates
    lostinrates Posts: 55,283 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    Hello everyone. Doing a mad house once over tonight for a meeting here tomorrow, so dining room already done, and glad its kitchen and utility tomorrow. Plus DH is home, so I plan to get him to do the oven: the hob is a mess this week....yuck. Hope to stay the right days of the list this week....its much easier.
  • onestep
    onestep Posts: 893 Forumite
    500 Posts
    I'm in, thanks to FCC. Hoping to achieve more this week..

    jo hugs.. You are doing a heck of a lot - don't let anybody tell you otherwise. Take it you aren't moving then ;)
    When people show you who they are, believe them the first time
  • Hello all

    After being poorly over the past week and a bit (4 bad migraines in 8 days...) am trying to get back on track so please count me as in this week! Have done a few bits in the kitchen of doom today so hopefully that will help for tomorrow !

    Monday ~ Kitchen and Dining room
    Level One
    Sweep and mop floor
    Clear and wipe worksurfaces
    Level Two
    Wipe units and appliances..
    clean blinds/curtains
    [STRIKE]Clear and wipe table.. clean cloth! no table ...[/STRIKE]
    Level Three
    [STRIKE]Scrub out the fridge - done today :j ! [/STRIKE]
    Clean oven and hob! - oh god no not the oven.... :o:p
    Clear window sills of gibble!

    Extras
    1. Binbag dance
    2. HHI
    3. Wipe small appliances
    4. [STRIKE]Clean out the vacuum cleaner.. wash filters etc! - cleaned out fridge today , going to class that as number 4 for me instead as hoover is OK.[/STRIKE]
  • hey everyone, thankyou for the list i am going for it this week, going to maintain my level 2's and attempt a 3 or extra !!!!

    need to seriously declutter the LR as it looks abit like a toy shop atm, i dont really post in the week as i get easily distracted and would use it as an excuse to not be doing productive things but i do sneak a read through,

    thanks all

    xx
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