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THE FUTURE IS ONE BIG CHALLENGE AFTER ANOTHER for 3Dogs and friends ..... PART 2

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  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    vixarooni wrote: »
    Its funny because were discussing this last night. While i don't agree with bullying the person doing the bullying has the most issues and it all comes down to jealousy and other things. I don't know that girls situation, but surely moving schools would have been better for her, because now she will never have the moment that i have, where you drive past your bully in your brand new car while shes walking. She'll never get that, and its a bit sad.

    So where did it all go wrong for you ted? Whats halted that progression from an 18 year old having his own house to now...

    I don't regret my course because unlike a lot of you here i am actually think, and for me to get a degree was a great personal achievement. All its done is probably make me feel even more thick, un motivated, lifes passing me by and making me questioning what have i done for the past 5 years of my life. STILL, it could be worse.

    Noooo, you are down because of the job situation. It will improve and you wont regret it. Stay positive Vicky.
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  • beanielou
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    Vix~Hate to be so blunt & I mean this in the nicest way but as you say things could be worse.
    You have no money worries, are beatiful, happy , healthy, have a great social life & good friends.
    I know you worry bout your mu7m & dad & you need a new job but overall your situation is fabarooni.
    Take this in spirit in which it is meant xx
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  • puddings_2
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    vixarooni wrote: »
    So where did it all go wrong for you ted? Whats halted that progression from an 18 year old having his own house to now...
    :rotfl::rotfl:
  • beanielou
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    Super Scrimpers on channel 4 on now.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

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  • Aesop
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    vixarooni wrote: »
    Ha no!!! She was bullied at school so her mum took her out of education and home schooled her. Proof that anyone (ish) home schooled comes out a weirdo. She has no friends and is glued to her mother now.

    that's so sad :(

    Shame her mum didn't encourage her to mix with other children when she was home schooling her.
  • savingwannabe
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    edited 30 March 2011 at 9:12PM
    What's super scrimpers? it sounds good. off to take a peek.

    oh pooooop, just realised today at work i wanted a treat so i bought some crisps i thought i had given up chocs not crisps. I have fallen off the wagon I will be good now i promise. Sorry beanie.:(
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  • 3Dogs
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    oh pooooop, just realised today at work i wanted a treat so i bought some crisps i thought i had given up chocs not crisps. I have fallen off the wagon I will be good now i promise. Sorry beanie.:(

    On Monday night, I refused doughnuts saying that they were cakes - so how come I could persuade myself that danish pastries weren't? I had 4 mini danish :o:o:o:o but I did refuse a very large piece of chocolate cake from my friend :D:D
    :( Mr 3Dogs 3-7-12 :( 3Dogs'Mam 31-3-13 :(
  • savingwannabe
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    If anyone is free to help startagain is down and could do with a bit of motivating. She is lovely and just needs to believe in herself.:(

    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2969792
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  • savingwannabe
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    edited 30 March 2011 at 9:29PM
    Right i have to be good and we can all do it together. I was convinced i had given up chocolate. Sooooo silly.

    Where is puds? i want to check he is ok. Am a bit worried about him.
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  • Aesop
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    SW, you on a mission to save the world huni?

    what you wrote for SA was beautiful. You have a lovely way with words.

    You know what it is like when you are tired, it makes you more down than you normally would be, etc. And I completely understand her money worries. This month I got paid less than I will next month because of shorter days, but had to make money last longer! not that it did :( have been using DS' childbenefit, which I will need to repay when I get paid.
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