How to Get Through The Tough Times The Old Style Way.

kidcat

Mrs Vegplot sending hugs - I have been there and I know. If you need to vent please PM. (If it helps I found a small act of revenge helped me - pouring his jack daniels down the sink!!)

dollydaydream07

((((hugs)))) Mrs VP xxx

i'll quit my whinging about not getting an anniversary card x

bertiebots

Hugs mrs vp ((())) please dont bottle things up and dont feel you need to justify anything you post x take care

short_bird

Mrs_Veg_Plot wrote: »

Wondering why I'm working 6 days a week to pay the mortgage, bills and his debts off whilst he is doing a job he enjoys but is not paying anything.
We have also remortgaged the house to help pay off his debts so I'm feeling pretty foolish and used at the moment.

Wow. I'd be checking the paperwork and making sure my name was on the things I've paid the majority of... Have a look over here for a similar thread

https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2364109

sammy_kaye18

Mrs_Veg_Plot wrote:

Found a conversation on facebook last night between OH and a Claire a girl he use to work with. Apparently he is "still with (me), only just" and althought he has "dumped Isla" she was, is and always will be his dream woman .

OMG!!!! :eek::eek::eek::eek: and also :mad::mad::mad::mad:.
Im not surprised you are angry - I would be fuming. Sending lots of virtual hugs to you flower. You know we are all here if you need a chin wag. Hope he gives you some sort of explanation soon. I know I'd kill Owen if he did that to me.

dollydaydream07 wrote: »

i made DD give him it to open, he opened it, said thanks and that was it, not even a 'happy anniversary babe' was said to me............ then he went out to bl**dy work!!!!!!!!!!!!

Fingers crossed he comes home with a card but I know where yoru coming from - I do nice things on anniversary's, valentines day , birthdays etc and I might get a card and money which I think is impersonal as he knows Ill spend on the kids if its cash and Ive never had a birthday cake - adn I didnt even get an easter egg. .

redlady_1 wrote: »

DO NOT make excuses for him Mrs VP. Thinking of you, perhaps it's time you thought of you too. Take care xx

Mrs Aha! It will take you flipping ages to read - and can be very addictive

mrsmortenharket wrote: »

(((Mrs Veg Plot))) xxx

This is a lovely thread. I may start to read it from the start!

Lisa x

We may never hear from you again Mrs Aha! :eek::eek::eek:

flowertotmum

Mrs VP..hugs to you hunni..so sorry..you let it all out on here babe..we will always be here for you..
love
ftm

flowertotmum

Dollydaydream..the words "no flipping tea or anything food whatsoever" spring to my mind..unless he gets you a card then he is kinda forgiven..my hubs wouldn't dare do that to me..i might be small but i rule with a rod of iron,lol...
love
ftm

sistercas

mrs veg plot dont know what to say but sending (((hugs))) to you
thinking of you x

littlecal

(((((Mrs VP))))) x

ceridwen

Mrs Vegetable Plot

Oh dear...and after all you've done for him...:(

Take care lass..guess you're going to need a few days to get your head round this and think what to do next (((())))